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Once a lady is married off to a man there are few characters that she has to stop to enable her enjoy her marriage.
1. Alcoholism

An alcoholic partner cannot participate in raising a healthy family,  and this can extensively result in divorce.

Your relationship with your partner will always be affected if you keep on with this habit.

Dedicate your time to your family if you want your marriage to work.

 2. Avoid bad company

There is a saying that goes, 'show me your friends and I will tell you your character'. 

This also applies in marriage. Friends you mingle with will always dictate much of the things you do. 

Avoid friends who will always misguide you into doing things that can ruin your marriage.

True friends should always encourage you and are always there for you in times of need.

3. Avoid being a control freak

Being overdemanding to your husband is a sign of disrespect.

Therefore, it is important you acknowledge your husband as the head of the family.

This will make him feel respected and love you passionately in return.

I like this article. But what I know is that she can't stop all these(the alcohol and co) just because she is now a 'Mrs' .She need all round advice. And another thing I know is that if you like fall from heaven and be perfect it is not what will keep the man. Just do your thing and improve.

@selfwife, thanks for your contributions, but come to think of it what if that lady knows her husband doesn't like those characters what will she do if that is the only way to keep her man to herself?

adaezeh126:
@selfwife, thanks for your contributions, but come to think of it what if that lady knows her husband doesn't like those characters what will she do if that is the only way to keep her man to herself?

the man might have to adapt. and I don't believe there is something like keeping your spouse to yourself.