₦airaland Forum

Ibime:
Just finished watching "When they see us" on Netflix. Brilliant series, especially the 3rd and 4th episodes.

Meanwhile, they should just postpone AFCON. What kind of results are these FFS?

NLBigBoy:
Lmfaooo y’all Nîggas never rest? She consented to only 12 thrusts? Man wtf

As a big boy Bítches beg me to fvck em so rape allegation can never be my portion

raumdeuter:
Cavani doing Cavani things

https://j.gifs.com/BN1rOx.gif

iamoyindamola:
Suarez will find him and bite every fresh in his body

obainojazz:
Did you type in Enugu

Ibime:
It definitely did happen. Rape from a position of power is often coercive rather than physical. The man himself facing little resistance may feel it's not rape. All depends on the difference in power between them.

If Dangote decide to force himself on his housegirl today, she will not even raise alarm. Power difference will kowtow her into shock and silence.

I grew up with Timi. I was even chatting with him tonight. Coming out with such allegation is not something anyone will do lightheartedly cos there will be pressure from all sides. I do however agree that it will be almost impossible to prove in court. All one can do is call witnesses to say they know the man to be randy and sexually aggressive, but the actual event(s) have no witness.

raumdeuter:
Not everything done in the West is also right. I believe there are 2 sides of a story. Its possible Biodun raped her and very important, its also possible she might be embellishing the story

In the West we have seen how rape allegations against Kobe, Neymar etc where the men were crucified initially turned to be false.

Its also in the west where a president claims he grabs women by the pussy. didn't someone try to use the rape allegation against Brett Kavanaugh, How did that end
R.Kelly has been under suspicion for almost 25yrs and has never done jail time

What would he be going to prison for? Maybe because age of consent in the West is clearly defined as 18 while in Nigeria it's not that well defined what would be his crime? Because she hasn't proven this was not a consensual relationship. Her actions and words before and after the act, when looking from a neutral point shows that this was like a relationship or friendship between them.

There are so many gaps in her story that if you look at it critically will be questioned

Even her written consent via WhatsApp and other app does not mean you are not raping her, even if she was begging you to put it, she might say that 12 thrusts was the one she consented that your other 10 thrusts she didnt consent.

raumdeuter:
There are some nuances to this
Biodun is a fine boy pastor, Most ladies that attend his church have some form of a crush on him(See Oyakhilome and other fine boy pastors). He is also randy and a serial womanizer but is being a womanizer a crime?

There are some questions here. What crime did Biodun commit with Busola? The incident happened in Buslas house. Not many people will want to rape a girl and do it in her fathers' house when someone else was at home.

After the first "rape" they still had sex. So how does someone rape one more than once on different days

After these, Busola, as a full-grown adult continued to attend the church of her rapisst for many years and as an adult, was a choir in the church of a man who raped her

I know the angle of underage, but what is underage in the Nigerian context? what is the age of consent in Nigeria?

What I felt happened. which could be wrong
Busola was young and had a sort of relationship/friendship with Biodun, she reverred him, feared him maybe had a crush on him. Biodun used that advantage to have sex with her. Maybe she felt the relationship might grow into something more serious, but over the years Biodun just didn't show she was special and there were like 100 babes in front of the Biodun dicck queue. She felt aggrieved inside her and wanted to even it

raumdeuter:
There are some nuances to this
Biodun is a fine boy pastor, Most ladies that attend his church have some form of a crush on him(See Oyakhilome and other fine boy pastors). He is also randy and a serial womanizer but is being a womanizer a crime?

There are some questions here. What crime did Biodun commit with Busola? The incident happened in Buslas house. Not many people will want to rape a girl and do it in her fathers' house when someone else was at home.

After the first "rape" they still had sex. So how does someone rape one more than once on different days

After these, Busola, as a full-grown adult continued to attend the church of her rapisst for many years and as an adult, was a choir in the church of a man who raped her

I know the angle of underage, but what is underage in the Nigerian context? what is the age of consent in Nigeria?

What I felt happened. which could be wrong
Busola was young and had a sort of relationship/friendship with Biodun, she reverred him, feared him maybe had a crush on him. Biodun used that advantage to have sex with her. Maybe she felt the relationship might grow into something more serious, but over the years Biodun just didn't show she was special and there were like 100 babes in front of the Biodun dicck queue. She felt aggrieved inside her and wanted to even it

nihilistjnr:
If fatoyinbo did rape that woman, it was not in the way she described it, because that story made zero sense.

raumdeuter:
There are some nuances to this
Biodun is a fine boy pastor, Most ladies that attend his church have some form of a crush on him(See Oyakhilome and other fine boy pastors). He is also randy and a serial womanizer but is being a womanizer a crime?

There are some questions here. What crime did Biodun commit with Busola? The incident happened in Buslas house. Not many people will want to rape a girl and do it in her fathers' house when someone else was at home.

After the first "rape" they still had sex. So how does someone rape one more than once on different days

After these, Busola, as a full-grown adult continued to attend the church of her rapisst for many years and as an adult, was a choir in the church of a man who raped her

I know the angle of underage, but what is underage in the Nigerian context? what is the age of consent in Nigeria?

What I felt happened. which could be wrong
Busola was young and had a sort of relationship/friendship with Biodun, she reverred him, feared him maybe had a crush on him. Biodun used that advantage to have sex with her. Maybe she felt the relationship might grow into something more serious, but over the years Biodun just didn't show she was special and there were like 100 babes in front of the Biodun dicck queue. She felt aggrieved inside her and wanted to even it

Emaprince:
Your last paragraph is exactly the way I feel too.

Maybe after ending it with her, the pastor ignored her totally..and she felt used ...just like many other scorned women.

But my question is why wait for many years before speaking out?

Are both parties still friends but recently had a serious problem, hence Mrs dakolo remembered a past event which she can use against him?

Is the pastors wife showing off too much and making Mrs dakolo jealous. Because she will be thinking "that man is my first love, and I'm supposed to be the one enjoying all that flamboyant lifestyle, not you(the pastors wife)"

IMO, there is no way a man will rape you..you never liked it, but you deemed fit to move around in his car with him. You still attended his church...and probably getting enough cash rewards from him.

I don't think there is a man that have not groped a woman.. Or even try having his way in some kind of forceful way. Though you will give up when it becomes clear she is not interested. But when this woman continues visiting you in private, dressing in skimpy and tight dresses after the experience, what do we call it?

Our names are not on social medias because we aren't popular.

nihilistjnr:
You are a wise man. I owe you some bottles.

iamoyindamola:
what I think is Timi was hearing rumour of his wife past life and she's afraid of her marriage and scandal decided to frame the man, I won't be surprised if Timi forced her to make that interview to proof her innocence because she wasn't straight forward in the video and the mumu interviewer wasn't helping matters

iamoyindamola:
what I think is Timi was hearing rumour of his wife past life and she's afraid of her marriage and scandal decided to frame the man, I won't be surprised if Timi forced her to make that interview to proof her innocence because she wasn't straight forward in the video and the mumu interviewer wasn't helping matters

elrony:
Egbon Sodeeq o

iamoyindamola:
pastor I day defend your type o

elrony:
Not my type o...

Before Unlimited22 accuses me of what I have no knowledge of

iamoyindamola:
you mean them choir mistresses no they queue for holy D

elrony:

iamoyindamola:
see balo

Ibime:
Thank God I didn't follow AFCON this weekend as planned. Three 0-0 draws yesterday, now SE are getting hammered by Madagascar.

I hear some Eagles fans are telling Mikel not to come back to the team.

Ibime:
Thank God I didn't follow AFCON this weekend as planned. Three 0-0 draws yesterday, now SE are getting hammered by Madagascar.

I hear some Eagles fans are telling Mikel not to come back to the team.

elrony:

afrodoc2:
He has an MO that has been working for him for close to 2 decades.

gensteejay:
Please, what's MO?