Please I need someone to advice me, cause I have finally gotten myself in a big mess. I have been dating this girl for 5years now, she actually is the love of my life. She has turned down suitors for me as I am still in d process of securing a job. Buh our sexual life isn't really active cus she wants me far from sin n always praying I be blessed so we can get married.
There is this other girl I have been friends with for 3year there about. But not who I would want to spend the rest of my life with. She liked me though, Buh was trying to avoid it until June we had sex, just because I couldn't just control myself.
She called me last night to say she was pregnant, took her to confirm n she is.
Called my gf nbtold her everything, to b expected she was deeply heart broken, cried all through the conversation and it really broke me. I can't leave her, she is a typical example of the best kind of woman a man should end up with and the other gal is pregnant for me. Please what to I do. Between love n morals. What do I do?

Your girlfriend was withoholding sex thinking that the snake has an attachment to a particular hole, she naively forgot that the snake by default can live in any hole.

But to think you could still have an erection despite being in a state of poverty and joblessness makes me admire your lack of priority.

You have shown your expertise in judgement lapse more than once in this story.
Why will you keep a girl for 3 years when you had another you've been in love with for 5years?
It is apparent that you've been looking forward to shagging this bestie because who keeps a chicken just as pet?

You should never have told your real girlfriend about your new father-in-waiting status. No real man does that.
Did you ever consider that she could miscarry the foetus and you'd still have your little secret to yourself?

So now you have done that, do you expect her to still be praying for you to get a job?
Or you expect her to become the sidechick while you marry your sidechick?

What if your already-pregnant sidechick gave you a trap shag knowing you'd be unable to reject it.

Ogbeni, I just don't know what to say.
To think you're more in love with a girl who withholds sex instead of the one who doesn't think without giving it to you makes me consider you a masochist.

Sometimes I wonder why God answers prayers differently.
The poor girl was praying for you to be blessed, instead he blessed your sperm-count.

You obviously aren't the type of man who can manage girls effectively. So I'd advice that you start a family with the pregnant lady and hold on to the love for your girlfriend while still considering her as an eternally lost opportunity.



Lalasticlala biko help a brother, an elder is tired.

Your girlfriend should be grateful her boyfriend is not an impotent man, who keeps a man starving of sex for 5years, if you refuse to give a child food for days that child will either go outside to eat elsewhere or steal to eat.

It is not entirely your fault, the kind of relationship you were in is one that can fully convert you into a nun, your girlfriend should understand that we men don't attach sex with love, you still love her and she should be willing to work things out with you, you can marry your girlfriend while you pay for child support for your baby mama.

NwaAmaikpe:




Your girlfriend was saving you thinking that the snake has an attachment to a particular hole, she naively forgot that the snake by default can live in any hole.


You have shown your expertise in judgement lapse more than once in this story.
Why will you keep a girl for 3 years when you had another you've been in love with for 5years?

It is apparent that you've been looking forward to shagging this bestie because who keeps a chicken just as pet?

we have been friends for 3years nothing more, until that happened. She was just one of my many friends who knew I had a gf

Kryto:
Please I need someone to advice me, cause I have finally gotten myself in a big mess. I have been dating this girl for 5years now, she actually is the love of my life. She has turned down suitors for me as I am still in d process of securing a job. Buh our sexual life isn't really active cus she wants me far from sin n always praying I be blessed so we can get married.
There is this other girl I have been friends with for 3year there about. But not who I would want to spend the rest of my life with. She liked me though, Buh was trying to avoid it until June we had sex, just because I couldn't just control myself.
She called me last night to say she was pregnant, took her to confirm n she is.
Called my gf nbtold her everything, to b expected she was deeply heart broken, cried all through the conversation and it really broke me. I can't leave her, she is a typical example of the best kind of woman a man should end up with and the other gal is pregnant for me. Please what to I do. Between love n morals. What do I do?

Suicide is the only option.

This is the moment your girlfriend begins to regret that she would have listened to her friends.

5 wasted years.

All gone down the drain.

You didn't even respect your joblessss. How a jobless man can get an erection beats me.

At least if you had a job or hustle you would have been able to afford olosho 5k instead of this quagmire you have put yourself in.


Concerning the pregnant lady, we are in the 21st Century. Men don't marry because a lady took in for them anymore.


If she couldn't protect herself knowing you had a serious girlfriend, let her live with the consequences of being a single mother.


Don't tell me you want to dump your girlfriend for her. Becuase at this moment your girl is the one that's supposed to dump you.

Kryto:
Please I need someone to advice me, cause I have finally gotten myself in a big mess. I have been dating this girl for 5years now, she actually is the love of my life. She has turned down suitors for me as I am still in d process of securing a job. Buh our sexual life isn't really active cus she wants me far from sin n always praying I be blessed so we can get married.
There is this other girl I have been friends with for 3year there about. But not who I would want to spend the rest of my life with. She liked me though, Buh was trying to avoid it until June we had sex, just because I couldn't just control myself.
She called me last night to say she was pregnant, took her to confirm n she is.
Called my gf nbtold her everything, to b expected she was deeply heart broken, cried all through the conversation and it really broke me. I can't leave her, she is a typical example of the best kind of woman a man should end up with and the other gal is pregnant for me. Please what to I do. Between love n morals. What do I do?

From what you said, you guys have been friends for 3 good years, but you have someone else who you are have been dating for 5 good years, you hope to marry each other and to show how serious she is with you, she is even praying that you get a good job so you can do the needful.
The fact remains that body no bi firewood, refusing to give you sex is where I'm blaming her and you are also at fault for accepting her policy of no sex when you know you can not stand it.
You are again at fault for keeping another girlfriend even though you are not really serious with her but you shouldn't have forgotten that no girl wants to be single, every woman wants a man she can call her man and maybe you are the only man she has seen that's serious so she decided to trap you down with pregnancy knowing fully well that you will not reject your blood (baby) that's in her womb.
On the other hand, you made a mistake for telling your date immediately, you should have kept it secret until after 9 months.

If you truly love your girlfriend, stick to her, apologize to her sincerely from your heart and also make her to understand that your body needs to release the crude oil that has been instore for many years.
She really loves you, she wants a great future with you. Not every Lady can pray for their boyfriend for a better tomorrow so she really love you.

Go back to your pregnancy girlfriend and make it clear to her that you will not marry her, you never wanted to marry her in the first place but you can take care of your baby as you are supposed.
Then make sure that you control your penis, don't allow your penis to control you.
I know is not easy but you have to do it, otherwise you have to break up with your real girl and go to someone that can give you sex whenever you want but that's not a future for you.
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