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Kathleens:
I have to create another account for this reason, please i need all the advice I can get to save my marriage and sanity.

Recently I have been feeling so Hot after I stopped my baby from breastfeeding. My hubby tries his own possible way to satisfy me but after the sex I will still masturbate to pleasure myself cause I will be fantasizing about someone going down on me with their tongue (I have never experienced that in my entire life) my hubby doesn't do that.

This has made to fantasize about other guys giving me the pleasure I need, i went as far as searching the internet for gigolos and having this fantasy with them on my mind. This is crazy, I even contacted one and we fixed a date (he promised to go down on me really hot with his tongue) but I bluffed it cause I really don't have the courage to cheat on my hubby though I have cheated on him a million times on my head. I can't even imagine doing it physically but the thought is always on my head. I need to stop this and the frequent masturbation before it ruins me.

I need all the advices including insults, maybe the insults will reset my head. I am 32 years with four kids. Thank you

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Mummymahdi:
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Madam sit him down and talk. Let him know how u are dying to have that for long, he will do it both of u have left sweetest part of pre-intimacy.
.lack of good communication have suffered many marriages don't let yours b 1. It's something simple when well communicated

mummy, do you like head

crackkhaus:
Yes all of this, or she can just get a dog.
Their licking skills is lit, so I heard

Would you let your wife get a dog for this purpose

Or allow a dog suck ur kini

May God help us ohh

nwanneni:
Audio 80%na.
It's 11pm,someone that has 4 kids and brings in the 80% income to take care of them and the household still has the ability to be here to defend her nymphomaniac tendencies.
Tell me,where do you get the energy from huh?
If you truly bring in the 80%,I can only imagine how malnourished those kids will look or perhaps and of course,this claim is bogus and highly false.
80% in monopoly money I guess.

Stay at home moms and lies sef

stop this already!

Kathleens:
I have to create another account for this reason, please i need all the advice I can get to save my marriage and sanity.

Recently I have been feeling so Hot after I stopped my baby from breastfeeding. My hubby tries his own possible way to satisfy me but after the sex I will still masturbate to pleasure myself cause I will be fantasizing about someone going down on me with their tongue (I have never experienced that in my entire life) my hubby doesn't do that.

This has made to fantasize about other guys giving me the pleasure I need, i went as far as searching the internet for gigolos and having this fantasy with them on my mind. This is crazy, I even contacted one and we fixed a date (he promised to go down on me really hot with his tongue) but I bluffed it cause I really don't have the courage to cheat on my hubby though I have cheated on him a million times on my head. I can't even imagine doing it physically but the thought is always on my head. I need to stop this and the frequent masturbation before it ruins me.

I need all the advices including insults, maybe the insults will reset my head. I am 32 years with four kids. Thank you

madam tell your man that you want him to be sucking you or you are scared of him?

My sincere view and questions

1. Whenever you have sex with your husband, do you reach your orgasm?

2. Is your husband a man that listens?

3. Have you ever have knowledge of mouth action?

If the answers to the above mentioned is NO then you have to attend to them appropriately.
Finally, Jesus Christ is the only person that can deliver you from this situation. ALLOW HIM (JESUS) TO HELP AND SEE YOU THROUGH.

TALKING FROM PERSONAL EXPERIENCE

nwanneni:
32 years with 4 kids already and possibly still counting
Jobless aunty them.Na work you need,not advise or insult.
That man money go don suffer for your hand walahi.
I can't imagine myself marrying a woman that doesn't have any economic value.
Just stay at home,fùck missionary as usual,cook,clean,chop,born,get fat with stretch mark,tie wrapper,smell,go saloon to gossip,suspects me cheating,grow armpit hair and toto hair too,steal money,investigate and know.all my property and ration in her head,sleep,snore,fùck again and the cycle continues.
Spits!
I go just run that house or use you like rag,ode.

This is the case of most marriages in Nigeria.
Imagine even if she had a job, with wet and hvrny Toto for office with different real men readily.available. she go.cheat die. After them.give you head wey reset your brain , them go fvck you tire.

that's why marriage is just a scam both ways. We are humans we always want excitement and something different. Simple

chiemmanuel:
If you can, get a remote controlled vibrating pant, it gives multiple orgasms, and feels like a tongue
If not ask him his opinion about MouthAction
I didn't like it earlier but I found a way to pleasure my partner and make it enjoyable for both of us

Actually, it’s way better than a “ human tongue “

She should go for a “suction “ type
It’s a skills on its on ,not everyone can make your eyes roll all the way...
There’s no point stressing Or getting frustrated .

Kathleens:
Thank you, i have not heard any discussion with him. He thinks he is the best. He is not really good in MouthAction but the penetration he is good

After four children you're still looking for mouth action before sexual satisfaction. Some women's husband even traveled out of the country leaving their wife pregnant and the women are fine...you are here typing from what is under your two legs,
You're the definition of selfishness

Kathleens:
I have to create another account for this reason, please i need all the advice I can get to save my marriage and sanity.

Recently I have been feeling so Hot after I stopped my baby from breastfeeding. My hubby tries his own possible way to satisfy me but after the sex I will still masturbate to pleasure myself cause I will be fantasizing about someone going down on me with their tongue (I have never experienced that in my entire life) my hubby doesn't do that.

This has made to fantasize about other guys giving me the pleasure I need, i went as far as searching the internet for gigolos and having this fantasy with them on my mind. This is crazy, I even contacted one and we fixed a date (he promised to go down on me really hot with his tongue) but I bluffed it cause I really don't have the courage to cheat on my hubby though I have cheated on him a million times on my head. I can't even imagine doing it physically but the thought is always on my head. I need to stop this and the frequent masturbation before it ruins me.

I need all the advices including insults, maybe the insults will reset my head. I am 32 years with four kids. Thank you

Girl, your hubby has mentally slept with a billion other fantasy women, perhaps including your friends.

It's perfectly normal to fantasize and explore self-gratification, and sometimes it's not even because of poor physical sex. Sometimes it's fun to mentally explore the range of possibilities.

Don't go overboard and hook men from outside, talk to your hubby... he's your husband for fukks sake.

Tell him your frustrations, let him watch a few skin flicks to egg him on, and be a bit patient while he discovers the joy of eating cunt.

You need to understand that there's nothing wrong with his resistance, some girls don't like sucking pricks, some men are put off by the thought of eating cunt, cos we all know cunt ain't pretty, with all that oozy cunt juice and strange smell, so it takes a lot of courage for some men.

Me, i love eating cunt, cunt goo and all, and there's no better experience than seeing your woman squirm and scream in joy. But we ain't all the same. For instance, i do anal sometimes, but some men can't, some women love it but most women are disgusted by it. There's no rulebook about sex, it's all about how adventurous and honest about it one is.

Talk to him and ease him in, and if he refuses and you can't live like that.... heck, cheat.

Kathleens:
Thank you, i have not heard any discussion with him. He thinks he is the best. He is not really good in MouthAction but the penetration he is good

He's not really good means he's trying at least.

You haven't discussed? Communication is important but NEVER mention to him what you just typed here otherwise you will lose him. His ego and self esteem will be damaged and he will be distant and moody, did I mention he will be suspicious of you?

Simply communicate to him that you love him so much and that you desire him to please you and you desire to please him too.
Show him how; if its flicking his tongue or brushing. Be ready to reciprocate too if he demands it.
Wanting more sex is not a bad thing. I wish unmarried folks will talk about this with intended spouse.

Enjoy your marriage.

Wonder shall shall never end.

If you divert that energy you use in fantasising about someone sucking you to productive things, you might be a millionaire.

nwanneni:
32 years with 4 kids already and possibly still counting
Jobless aunty them.Na work you need,not advise or insult.
That man money go don suffer for your hand walahi.
I can't imagine myself marrying a woman that doesn't have any economic value.
Just stay at home,fùck missionary as usual,cook,clean,chop,born,get fat with stretch mark,tie wrapper,smell,go saloon to gossip,suspects me cheating,grow armpit hair and toto hair too,steal money,investigate and know.all my property and ration in her head,sleep,snore,fùck again and the cycle continues.
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SECONDED!!! certainly she's one of those lazy,idle stay-at-home full-time-housewife with a rich husband.who does nothing but stay indoor scracthing her toto as if they rub devil-beans on it.can u just imagine what abomination a wife & a mum is thinking of daily?.u want ur husband to lick kporkyor.u are a wicked woman & God will soon expose u.go rub fresh pepper on ur puna or better still get a dog to help u to lick it

Liposure:
mummy, do you like head

U don't need to know,

They call me the headmaster; I've been known to help satiate women with insatiable water water tautau...no lie! You just send me your number and leave the rest for Gad; ma te e l'orun Oloun! Sabada

Kathleens:
I have to create another account for this reason, please i need all the advice I can get to save my marriage and sanity.

Recently I have been feeling so Hot after I stopped my baby from breastfeeding. My hubby tries his own possible way to satisfy me but after the sex I will still masturbate to pleasure myself cause I will be fantasizing about someone going down on me with their tongue (I have never experienced that in my entire life) my hubby doesn't do that.

This has made to fantasize about other guys giving me the pleasure I need, i went as far as searching the internet for gigolos and having this fantasy with them on my mind. This is crazy, I even contacted one and we fixed a date (he promised to go down on me really hot with his tongue) but I bluffed it cause I really don't have the courage to cheat on my hubby though I have cheated on him a million times on my head. I can't even imagine doing it physically but the thought is always on my head. I need to stop this and the frequent masturbation before it ruins me.

I need all the advices including insults, maybe the insults will reset my head. I am 32 years with four kids. Thank you

I just the pity the niggal wey go run you satisfied. Because the next day your hubby go knock on his door after you don confess to him because you can't keep it to save the Niggal. Women, Na so una go carry trouble the share for home boys head when they dey on their own jejely!


Boys make una flee!

nwanneni:
32 years with 4 kids already and possibly still counting
Jobless aunty them.Na work you need,not advise or insult.
That man money go don suffer for your hand walahi.
I can't imagine myself marrying a woman that doesn't have any economic value.
Just stay at home,fùck missionary as usual,cook,clean,chop,born,get fat with stretch mark,tie wrapper,smell,go saloon to gossip,suspects me cheating,grow armpit hair and toto hair too,steal money,investigate and know.all my property and ration in her head,sleep,snore,fùck again and the cycle continues.
Spits!
I go just run that house or use you like rag,ode.

PLEASE KEEP SHUT IF YOU DONT HAVE ANYTHING SENSIBLE TO SAY.

Mummymahdi:
U don't need to know,

mama the mama. So Coded

GoodBoi1:
You think she doesn't have economic value. Do you know that a lot of persons get paid to do those things you mentioned. If you are so busy you would be willing to pay someone to do those things for you so don't think that a housewife does nothing. I guess when you get married to your full-time career woman, you will employ someone to help with what you think is not work, you will even put your kids in crèche and pay your money for them to take care of them yet you think it has no economic value. Think again man, be exposed.

You're actually right oo...I just thought about this man..thanks for this exposition man

Kathleens:
Thank you, i have not heard any discussion with him. He thinks he is the best. He is not really good in MouthAction but the penetration he is good

Useless woman. Go and take a room in Oshodi and let agberos service you regularly.
What kind of mothers do we have this days?
Once you are married it's no longer pleasure as when you were single.
This is norm even in men's life it's the way, married men don't see sex as enjoyment as when they were single, the rate of desire drops except if the person is a confirmed cheat!

Kathleens:
I have to create another account for this reason, please i need all the advice I can get to save my marriage and sanity.

Recently I have been feeling so Hot after I stopped my baby from breastfeeding. My hubby tries his own possible way to satisfy me but after the sex I will still masturbate to pleasure myself cause I will be fantasizing about someone going down on me with their tongue (I have never experienced that in my entire life) my hubby doesn't do that.

This has made to fantasize about other guys giving me the pleasure I need, i went as far as searching the internet for gigolos and having this fantasy with them on my mind. This is crazy, I even contacted one and we fixed a date (he promised to go down on me really hot with his tongue) but I bluffed it cause I really don't have the courage to cheat on my hubby though I have cheated on him a million times on my head. I can't even imagine doing it physically but the thought is always on my head. I need to stop this and the frequent masturbation before it ruins me.

I need all the advices including insults, maybe the insults will reset my head. I am 32 years with four kids. Thank you

See talk?
You wanna ruin your relationship just because of mouthaction? If you are a Christian. Please reunite with God. He will set you free. Devil is liar

Kathleens:
I have to create another account for this reason, please i need all the advice I can get to save my marriage and sanity.

Recently I have been feeling so Hot after I stopped my baby from breastfeeding. My hubby tries his own possible way to satisfy me but after the sex I will still masturbate to pleasure myself cause I will be fantasizing about someone going down on me with their tongue (I have never experienced that in my entire life) my hubby doesn't do that.

This has made to fantasize about other guys giving me the pleasure I need, i went as far as searching the internet for gigolos and having this fantasy with them on my mind. This is crazy, I even contacted one and we fixed a date (he promised to go down on me really hot with his tongue) but I bluffed it cause I really don't have the courage to cheat on my hubby though I have cheated on him a million times on my head. I can't even imagine doing it physically but the thought is always on my head. I need to stop this and the frequent masturbation before it ruins me.

I need all the advices including insults, maybe the insults will reset my head. I am 32 years with four kids. Thank you

Why not do unto others what you want them to do unto you.

Why not give him head and let him reciprocate?
Or u feel he should just go down on u?

Most girls that get heads gives in return.

bukatyne:
You must have married a wizard if you expect him to know what you want.

He thinks he is the best because YOUR sexual feedback to him is that he is the best.

IBesides, you said your libido increase after breastfeeding so the normal thing is to tell him that your tastes/desires have changed and X, Y Z would satisfy you.

If he is not good in oral, tell him what to do during MouthAction. Not hard.

Or replicate what you want on him and let him reciprocate.

Go on sex vacations so you can both explore and rediscover yourselves.

If you want to stay happily married, you have to work at it.

One day, I will get to meet you, be a friend and if you will permit date.
It will be a great privilege and a fun filled peaceful affair to be with you. Such a matured understanding mind.

healthserve:
The most important thing is what I want to hit on before this thread degenerates into a squabble. And it is take it easy on yourself. Your high moral standards and etiquette along with your principles, beliefs, values and self expectation has placed you on a pedestal where you expect yourself to act in a certain manner and form. So to win this war, you must first and foremost win the battle in your mind. Yes, every thing goor or bad in this instance is in your mind and to end this struggle the battle must first be won in your mind. Hence I recommend this tips:



1. You'll make new resolutions and you'll fail yourselves many times. But be prepared to forgive yourself before you fail. Being able to pick yourself back up and move forward is one of the routines you should embrace enroute your destination to get healing.


2. The mind is the largest sexual organ. Stop feeding your mind with crazy sexual stuff. Infact Place rules on yourself not be participate in anything sexual outside your hubby.



3. After you've forgiven yourself, adopt the belief that marriage isn't all sex sex and sex. And you'll sacrifice what you don't receive but stay contented. Mental contentment is one of the sure ways to deal with mental wandering. To win this war, you must treat yourself with love and kindness and not condemn yourself in anyway however bad, lest through your own cycle of thoughts you slip into being guilt tripped by your mind and loose focus on healing beyond scars



4. Try new things and fill up spare hours. Place yourself in a new fellowship or activity group where you'll use more of your free time to practice. The rule for change has always remained the same and one I recommend to myself many times is to replace a bad habit with many good habits and practice. Spend more time on activities to have your mind filled up.


5. What you feed your mind matters. In place of sexual arousing information, try spiritual affairs so the sector of your mind producing this thoughts would be flooded with light and you can fix the gaps within your walls and have the breech sealed.

Apt advice. Jaw dropped and you deserve a medal for this golden information.

OP here is the answer to what you are currently battling with.

Best wishes.

I am totally flabersgated

FrLukas:
Dumb post. Nothing wrong with being a stay at home mom.

The lady called you a kid. You probably are one.

You think everyone should want what you want and if they don't, you kick up a fuss and throw a tantrum like you just did.

Grow up son. Everyone ain't going to live life the way you want. Stop castigating her for her career choice which she didn't mention anyway.

Sometimes, if you don't have positive things to say, best be quiet.

dot worry it will sound funny when your wife puts up a post like this one day

Naturally, the fallen human nature is very selfish. For a human being to genuinely love another human being, he or she must first have genuinely loved and submitted to the our Creator and HIS rules first. This is why only genuinely bornagain Christians enjoy marital life the most. Stop wasting your precious time/life trying to find love without first submitting the control of your heart to Holy Spirit that sees into all hearts. Surrender your life to JESUS today, you can never find true Love/Spouse outside HIM.

And what do you think the poster will lose if a jobless oligodendrocyte deficient internet troll calls her names? Absolutely nothing.

By the way, nice description of your mother

nwanneni:
And what do you think I will lose if a tiny blip on the internet thinks I'm badly behaved for calling her out for who she is?Not really.

It is easier said than done ....... The only solution is to get busy with other things that would occupy your mind ..... Sexual urges and masturbation aren't that easy to overcome. Secondly, tell your husband jokingly to know how he feels about it . Never cheat on your husband, it will only end in disaster even if he doesn't know. It isnt safe outside

TheMan3:
dot worry it will sound funny when your wife puts up a post like this one day

So you think every stay at home mother has these same problems she has? How old are you again?