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See what my girlfriend who I plan on marrying mistakenly did to me yesterday...
So I was lying down on the bed and she placed the cover of a hot pot on my back.
According to her,she didn't know the cover was so hot and she was just playing with me.
This is a girl I plan on marrying.
What are your thoughts on this?..

As long as it's a mistake, forgive and forget. Keep your lives away from social media

Hmm...

If this is the first time, just take it as a mistake and put it aside. Coz as humans; we're bound to make mistakes.

But if she do it for the second time, my broda; use ya teeth to count ya tongue?

Jeez, plz add graphics. As for your question, I think it depends. U alone know ur gf attitude and character, so u r d best judge.

FamousMonk:
See what my girlfriend who I plan on marrying mistakenly did to me yesterday...
So I was lying down on the bed and she placed the cover of a hot pot on my back.
According to her,she didn't know the cover was so hot and she was just playing with me.
This is a girl I plan on marrying.
What are your thoughts on this?..

If you want to break your relationship cause of this nonsense you don't know what love is. Mtcheeew how childish. Your marrying her isn't doing her a favor. If you don't see good enough to keep her someone else would. Quit whining. You're not a baby.bi know you're here to seek validation to break up but you're not getting any today. Grow up

With due respect sir.
She knows it was hot and it was intentional act
I advise you think twice before signing your death warrant..

If you have been phocking her after the incident, yes!

Is your bed inside the kitchen?
Or if you cook inside the room, is the gas cooker/stove right next to the bed?

In fact, I have questions...
I don't understand the walking distance it would have taken from the pot all the way to your back for this to be considered as play

That was how somebody cracked the screen on my HP tablet all in the name of playing pillow fight. I really don't like all this kind of useless play.
Abi these girls no play when dem small?

Wisest101:
With due respect sir.
She knows it was hot and it was intentional act
I advise you think twice before signing your death warrant..

Careful how you give consent to the ruin of a relationship o. No one here saw the context of it was a fight or a love play. Don't be fast to counsel people to breakup.

E be like barbecued pork with char marks...

crackkhaus:
Is your bed inside the kitchen?
Or if you cook inside the room, is the gas cooker/stove right next o the bed?

In fact, I have questions...
I don't understand the walking distance it would have taken from the pot to your back for this to be considered as play

That was how somebody cracked the screen on my HP tablet all in the name of playing pillow fight. I really don't like all this kind of useless play.
Abi these girls no play when dem small?

Bro. How body


I remember when Compaq Presario was in vogue back then. Laptop of 250k, someone was playing with me o. Before you know it pure water 5Naira poured on the device the system packed up straight. If had snapped a pic and came here for advice people would see the picture and situation of the laptop and call the person evil without knowing the context


The Op is plain stupeed for pasting a vague incidence online expecting sympathy. He's very foolish for doing it. I have to repeat it. He can choose to end his relationship what do I lose.


Just like you did people should ask for the context before judging lest they counsel people astray

kunleweb:
Bro. How body


I remember when Compaq Presario was in vogue back then. Laptop of 250k, someone was playing with me o. Before you know it pure water 5Naira poured on the device the system packed up straight. If had snapped a pic and came here for advice people would see the picture and situation of the laptop and call the person evil without knowing the context


The Op is plain stupeed for pasting a vague incidence online expecting sympathy. He's very foolish for doing it. I have to repeat it. He can choose to end his relationship what do I lose.


Just like you did people should ask for the context before judging lest they counsel people astray

Lmao... N5 pure water
I can just imagine how angry you must have felt but still had to pretend it's all good to be the bigger person - well that's what I did in my situation.

It's not enough to break up anyway, but he should warn the babe to stop nonsense play.

crackkhaus:
Lmao... N5 pure water
I can just imagine how angry you must have felt but still had to pretend it's all good to be the bigger person - well that's what I did in my situation.

It's not enough to break up anyway, but he should warn the babe to stop nonsense play.

I swear down you were there. Imagine the data I lost. I was trading forex. A profit trade returned negative asides loss of data. We've become sworn enemies till date though Maybe it was a sign

FamousMonk:
See what my girlfriend who I plan on marrying mistakenly did to me yesterday...
So I was lying down on the bed and she placed the cover of a hot pot on my back.
According to her,she didn't know the cover was so hot and she was just playing with me.
This is a girl I plan on marrying.
What are your thoughts on this?..

Na waaa for you o. For you to have brought this here evidently you have anger issues! This small thing?

You even admitted she mistakenly did that.

I have done same to my brother, and the interesting thing is, I was playing with him to feel something warm, not knowing it's hot. I believe she meant it that way too

Play gone wrong.

Has she got traces of madness in her family?
Please, check very well o.
Those kind of play are unnecessary. She could not kiss your back, tickle you on the back, kiss your cloth at the back with the lipstick on her lips.
Na hot pot cover dem dey take play with you?
Can she play that kind of play with her own child?
I'm not understanding how it is a mistake o.
Perhaps if someone stepped on you mistakenly and uprooted your toenail from the nail bed (very painful), perhaps even scratched you while tickling you, or even poured hot water on you while carrying hot water and you guys were chasing each other and the water spilled on you. We can consider that a mistake.
Did your back look like the kitchen table? She wanted to cause you discomfort, perhaps not as severe as this but it ended up causing a burns injury on you. I would be weary of such a person

Kunleweb,
Someone playing watergames with you and water mistakenly spilled on your computer wasn't deliberate unless she went to your computer, and poured the water directly on it, deliberately.
Even someone cracking your computer screen while you guys were fooling around and she mistakenly stepped on your device or whatever can be truly considered a mistake unless she deliberately stepped on it
However in this case, were they playing with hot pot covers or OP was just lying down chilling and his babe came with the hot pot cover and placed it on his back. A deliberate act. She wanted to cause pain. That's the difference between this and your own case o.
When someone looks you eyeball to eyeball and decides you need some discomfort in your life, you better shine your eyes.

[quote author=FamousMonk post=86310972]See what my girlfriend who I plan on marrying mistakenly did to me yesterday...
So I was lying down on the bed and she placed the cover of a hot pot on my back.
According to her,she didn't know the cover was so hot and she was just playing with me.
This is a girl I plan on marrying.
What are your thoughts on this?..[/quote If you are a believer, forgive her but if you are not, then you must run to the cross

eyinjuege:
Kunleweb,
Someone playing watergames with you and water mistakenly spilled on your computer wasn't deliberate unless she went to your computer, and poured the water directly on it, deliberately.
Even someone cracking your computer screen while you guys were fooling around and she mistakenly stepped on your device or whatever can be truly considered a mistake unless she deliberately stepped on it
However in this case, were they playing with hot pot covers or OP was just lying down chilling and his babe came with the hot pot cover and placed it on his back. A deliberate act. She wanted to cause pain. That's the difference between this and your own case o.
When someone looks you eyeball to eyeball and decides you need some discomfort in your life, you better shine your eyes.

You didn't see the context. Please I've hard myself burnt. Nigerians are becoming too negative thesedays. You can't have Nigerians not look at anything and not see evil in it no matter how good. No one has seen or heard details about the circumstance. Abeg e

She didn't know it was so hot. Your gf can play rough play. Anyways, if she's someone that learns her lesson, all you need do is tell her not to try it again.

But if she's a woman that's hot tempered or violent, quit the relationship before you become the next Maryam Sanda victim.

kunleweb:
I swear down you were there. Imagine the data I lost. I was trading forex. A profit trade returned negative asides loss of data. We've become sworn enemies till date though Maybe it was a sign

Lol, because of something else though, and not the laptop..right?

If this is the first time.. You can pardon her... But how would she not know that the pot cover is hot...

crackkhaus:
Lol, because of something else though, and not the laptop..right?

Bloody war o. Money bro. Success attracts enemies. Mantky times success tends to reflects some people's flaws and they don't have the maturity to accommodate other people's becoming hence.. War break out

You don't love this lady enough for marriage. Let her go.

See stupid question. All because of a silly mistake? This generation is really finished.

All this over analysing for nothing. This is why people are depressed and miserable, because they over think about every little thing. A simple mistake now possibly equates to madness in her family? Chaiiii what will I not see on nl.

eyinjuege:
Has she got traces of madness in her family?
Please, check very well o.
Those kind of play are unnecessary. She could not kiss your back, tickle you on the back, kiss your cloth at the back with the lipstick on her lips.
Na hot pot cover dem dey take play with you?
Can she play that kind of play with her own child?
I'm not understanding how it is a mistake o.
Perhaps if someone stepped on you mistakenly and uprooted your toenail from the nail bed (very painful), perhaps even scratched you while tickling you, or even poured hot water on you while carrying hot water and you guys were chasing each other and the water spilled on you. We can consider that a mistake.
Did your back look like the kitchen table? She wanted to cause you discomfort, perhaps not as severe as this but it ended up causing a burns injury on you. I would be weary of such a person

kunleweb:
Bloody war o. Money bro. Success attracts enemies. Mantky times success tends to reflects some people's flaws and they don't have the maturity to accommodate other people's becoming hence.. War break out

Lol, no loss then... make she carry her wahala go

Take that woman for mental evaluation before marriage. If she has schizophrenic tendencies then you should know what you're getting into

olabrinks:
All this over analysing for nothing. This is why people are depressed and miserable, because they over think about every little thing. A simple mistake now possibly equates to madness in her family? Chaiiii what will I not see on nl.

Yes..

A normal person wouldn't deliberately cause harm on another, though that may be normal for you sha.

It was a deliberate act, and I wonder what was the purpose of such?

I'm more interested in the MOTIVE behind the assumed mistake especially since it was done intentionally.

Was it to make OP laugh or happy?

I gave other examples above that could have caused more bodily harm than just the cover of a hot pot. Hot water would probably cause more damage, but it could mistakenly have splashed if the person carrying it tripped or was being chased playfully.

For the cover to leave such burn/injury, it must have been really hot/she had just lifted it off the stove. You don't lift a hot item from a stove, put it on someone's flesh and feign ignorance.