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hi guys
when i remember the fact that i and my husband are saddled with the responsibility to parent/train up our kids... it gives me concern
sometimes i feel its a very great and tough task to do so...
a child who would some day stand on his/her own, to exhibit those traits both you, environment and the people must have instill in them in the course of growing up... as well be strong to face life and the challenges that comes with it.

please i would like experienced parents especially mums to give me essential hints and tips that would help develop a child mentally... etc
educational tips even meals, heard there are activities and meals that sharpens a childs brain.
of course i know good schools are important too but beyond that...

any advise or hints will be highly appreciated.
i am a first time mum with a six months daughter
i wish to give her and her unborn siblings the very best.

i want to believe i am at the right thread

Different people with different ways of life.... Easy easy is to examine the way you were raised , change what you feel hasn't served you right in life & incorporate the great ones into your child rearing plans... Make friends with responsible people that have goals & emulate them.... The internet is for bants & jokes, not for life decisions....

My 2k

Don't stress yourself. Live each day as it comes.

There is no manual to perfect parenting and perfect outcome. Just give your best.

modath:
Different people with different ways of life.... Easy easy is to examine the way you were raised , change what you feel hasn't served you right in life & incorporate the great ones into your child rearing plans... Make friends with responsible people that have goals & emulate them.... The internet is for bants & jokes, not for life decisions....

My 2k

i love... @bolded
thanks alot... i appreciate

Foodqueen:
Don't stress yourself. Live each day as it comes.

There is no manual to perfect parenting and perfect outcome. Just give your best.

much as there is no known manual to perfect parenting, i still believe there are some level of discipline, coaching, laid down steps in mentoring a child to become courageous and brave in life.
i mean, i silently disagree that one just live each day as it comes... sounds more like leaving your kids to chance or what the society offers
anyways thanks though for your contribution
i appreciate

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