I've been a registered member of nairaland since 2013, but this is a new account.

I'm here to seek help to my life's problems, not financial but spiritual help. I'm not good at telling stories so I will just tell it anyhow.

My life has been a mess for as long as I can remember, but I've been trying to cope none the less. At the moment I don't think I can hang on anymore. I need a solution before I decide to end my life.

Nothing look to be working in my life right now. Since after graduation in 2012 I have been unable to get a job. In fact I've stopped applying for jobs because I don't even get called up interviews. I've tried different kinds of hustle yet no head way. Anyone I ask for help always wants to help at first, then all of a sudden they stop taking my calls. My landlord has sent me packing because I couldn't meet up with my rent. As it stands now I don't even have a home. I've been staying from one family member's place to another. Rather than things to get better it keeps getting worse. I'm tired of being broke and depressed.

Please I need someone to recommend for me a good spiritualist who can help me for things to start working for me. I live in Lagos currently.

NB: I don't need anyone to come preach Christianity to me because I don't believe in that anymore. I tried that path with no result.

Hang on bro! It pays to be patient! Yours was 2012, someone's own was 2010, another person's might be 2005! Draw closer to God and negate every negative energy around you. Improve your skills, and don't relent.

midnightsun:
I've been a registered member of nairaland since 2013, but this is a new account.

I'm here to seek help to my life's problems, not financial but spiritual help. I'm not good at telling stories so I will just tell it anyhow.

My life has been a mess for as long as I can remember, but I've been trying to cope none the less. At the moment I don't think I can hang on anymore. I need a solution before I decide to end my life.

Nothing look to be working in my life right now. Since after graduation in 2012 I have been unable to get a job. In fact I've stopped applying for jobs because I don't even get called up interviews. I've tried different kinds of hustle yet no head way. Anyone I ask for help always wants to help at first, then all of a sudden they stop taking my calls. My landlord has sent me packing because I couldn't meet up with my rent. As it stands now I don't even have a home. I've been staying from one family member's place to another. Rather than things to get better it keeps getting worse. I'm tired of being broke and depressed.

Please I need someone to recommend for me a good spiritualist who can help me for things to start working for me. I live in Lagos currently.

NB: I don't need anyone to come preach Christianity to me because I don't believe in that anymore. I tried that path with no result.

The Lord will fight for you, you only need to be still. Send me your number. Let's talk. Please do not ignore me. God has a very big plan for your life.
just send me ur number, and hear me out first even if u will not accept my gesture.

yinkbell:


The Lord will fight for you, you only need to be still. Send me your number. Let's talk. Please do not ignore me. God has a very big plan for your life.
just send me ur number, and hear me out first even if u will not accept my gesture.

I really appreciate your kind gesture in trying to reach out to me, but I think I already made up my mind on what I want. I can no longer be patient enough to "wait for God's time" like the religious folks would say. I'm willing to take the highway with whatever consequence that comes with it

Nephilim:
Hang on bro! It pays to be patient! Yours was 2012, someone's own was 2010, another person's might be 2005! Draw closer to God and negate every negative energy around you. Improve your skills, and don't relent.

All my patience is gone. I'm only hanging on to the last straw until it breaks. Thanks for your encouragement anyway

I don't mind joining an occult as long as I won't have to kill somebody. I don't care where the wealth is going to come from, even if it's from the Marine world. I'm tired of living this life of poverty and rejection. Family members are already getting fed up with me. Anyone who knows where I can find a solution should please help a brother out

midnightsun:
I don't mind joining an occult as long as I won't have to kill somebody. I don't care where the wealth is going to come from, even if it's from the Marine world. I'm tired of living this life of poverty and rejection. Family members are already getting fed up with me. Anyone who knows where I can find a solution should please help a brother out

i understand, pls drop ur number, i want to share something with you.

olarwhumy6:
i understand, pls drop ur number, i want to share something with you.

Can I send you an email? ...from there I can send you my number. Would rather not post my phone number on a public forum

midnightsun:


Can I send you an email? ...from there I can send you my number. Would rather not post my phone number on a public forum

okay

yinkbell:


The Lord will fight for you, you only need to be still. Send me your number. Let's talk. Please do not ignore me. God has a very big plan for your life.
just send me ur number, and hear me out first even if u will not accept my gesture.

I tried sending you an email. Don't think it's a good idea dropping my number here on a public forum

olarwhumy6:
okay

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Someone called me from nairaland with words of encouragement. It was really appreciated.

However, after some serious thinking I still want to go ahead with my plan of seeing a strong spiritualist. This is because I've lost interest and faith in church activities, and I need a very quick solution. Someone here should please help me locate a strong spiritualist I can contact around Lagos

Just before I lose my sanity someone should please help me locate what I seek

midnightsun:
Just before I lose my sanity someone should please help me locate what I seek

My brother, it is well. I know it seems the night will last forever, but the day cometh. That same Christianity that you "tried" is what I will still refer you to, but through another dimension.

What people don't know is you cannot enjoy the real Christianity if your needs are more important than your personal relationship with God, no matter how pressing they are. Matthew 6: 33 asks us to seek first God's kingdom and His righteousness, and ALL these things (is it car, money, job, wife?) will be added unto you.

I will recommend joining a correct church and fellowship with Spirit-filled brethren. I will recommend going back to God. Jesus is the only way (John 14:6).

If you are desperate enough to use any other spiritual means, you are cutting your life short.

sholay2011:

My brother, it is well. I know it seems the night will last forever, but the day cometh. That same Christianity that you "tried" is what I will still refer you to, but through another dimension.

What people don't know is you cannot enjoy the real Christianity if your needs are more important than your personal relationship with God, no matter how pressing they are. Matthew 6: 33 asks us to seek first God's kingdom and His righteousness, and ALL these things (is it car, money, job, wife?) will be added unto you.

I will recommend joining a correct church and fellowship with Spirit-filled brethren. I will recommend going back to God. Jesus is the only way (John 14:6).

If you are desperate enough to use any other spiritual means, you are cutting your life short.

Looking at the lives of so many christians around, they still go through the same struggles I'm facing, some are even worse. That doesn't encourage me to want to take that path anymore

I also need a strong spiritualist.. not a jazzman tho. I. Need either a priest or alfa to assist with prayers n religious rituals

midnightsun:


Looking at the lives of so many christians around, they still go through the same struggles I'm facing, some are even worse. That doesn't encourage me to want to take that path anymore

Not every of those 'Christians' you see around have a personal relationship with God. Or are they not same people that will go from church service to fighting at a petrol station or going from the bed of adultery to lead worship on the altar? And some are just ignorant of God's word. God cannot be deceived. And I'm not saying every Christian will be rich, but our needs shall be supplied according to His riches in glory. Luke 12:15 says we should take heed and beware of covetousness because a man's life consists NOT in the abundance of things he possesses. So, I hope you're not being covetous but just want your needs met at the very least while having peace and joy? If so, why don't you try God (Yahweh) again and follow some of the steps I outlined in my previous post?

Study your bible. Pray according to God's word. Study more of the Word. Live a holy life. Stay away from sin. Be obedient to God's word. Open your heart. Soak in God's wisdom. Make the Holy Spirit your best friend.

If all these sounds too much, then, you're not yet ready for the journey of Christianity. May the Holy Ghost come upon you to strengthen you because by strength shall no man prevail.

Rabbitcartel:
I also need a strong spiritualist.. not a jazzman tho. I. Need either a priest or alfa to assist with prayers n religious rituals

You'd better repent and go back to Jesus.

sholay2011:

You'd better repent and go back to Jesus.

Meaninf did u even read what I wrote?? I said prist or alfa... No be the same God Christians and Muslims dey serve?? Whats the sin committed when a priest prays for you on the mountain?? Or join you in fasting?? Or are you against muslem as a religion?? I see no reason for your absurd comment

Rabbitcartel:


Meaninf did u even read what I wrote?? I said prist or alfa... No be the same God Christians and Muslims dey serve?? Whats the sin committed when a priest prays for you on the mountain?? Or join you in fasting?? Or are you against muslem as a religion?? I see no reason for your absurd comment

No sir. John 14:6

I think I wouldn't mind trying a strong muslim Alfa. I've heard stories of how some of them are so spiritually enlightened. Anyone knows a strong Alfa around Lagos?

You know what they say about rushing in and rushing out...but I would advise you not to lose faith in God.. . Your case is not the worst out there.
I feel like commanding the rains to fall in Lagos and Osun within seven days let me see if the earth still obey my words.

midnightsun:
I think I wouldn't mind trying a strong muslim Alfa. I've heard stories of how some of them are so spiritually enlightened. Anyone knows a strong Alfa around Lagos?

Just walk into any mosque and ask bro. Please be very sensitive about it anyway coz a lot of them are insincere and money hungry too.

However, I will still encourage you to hang on and continue seeking for an alternative.
I know what you are facing coz I wear same shoes. I left school since 2006 and it's been same rough road too. My wife doesn't respect me anymore coz of my predicaments. I'm in the straight not knowing how to face tomorrow as I text you now. Indebted like hell, traveled but repatraited but I'm still hanging on and never giving up.
Send me an email and we can talk more, please.

uruba23:
You know what they say about rushing in and rushing out...but I would advise you not to lose faith in God.. . Your case is not the worst out there.
I feel like commanding the rains to fall in Lagos and Osun within seven days let me see if the earth still obey my words.

Yes I can confirm the earth still obey my words so dear friend use your words to bring forth your great destiny .

brainbox80:


Just walk into any mosque and ask bro. Please be very sensitive about it anyway coz a lot of them are insincere and money hungry too.

However, I will still encourage you to hang on and continue seeking for an alternative.
I know what you are facing coz I wear same shoes. I left school since 2006 and it's been same rough road too. My wife doesn't respect me anymore coz of my predicaments. I'm in the straight not knowing how to face tomorrow as I text you now. Indebted like hell, traveled but repatraited but I'm still hanging on and never giving up.
Send me an email and we can talk more, please.

It would have been easier for me to hang on if there wasn't a baby a cater for. She has to feed, cloth and go to school. And mehn this girl is special because she can't even drink sachet or boiled water, it has to be a particular brand of bottled water else she would fall sick, neither does she eat our Nigerian staple food of rice, beans and eba. This means in a week her expenses alone gulps like 10k, so I have to keep begging friends and family for money. For how long will that continue. She's the only reason I haven't jumped into the Lagoon yet, because if I die she would suffer more. For the past 2 days she hasn't been to school because she's ill from taking sachet water

At this point I'm desperate. I can go any length

'Spiritualists' aren't going to help your case. That's just wishful thinking that won't help you any more than Christianity did. You seek for a quick easy solution to what probably is a multifaceted problem. Get to the roots of your problem and build yourself up from that. Aim for small goals daily, weekly , monthly and try to achieve them, ask for help and support, confide in someone you trust, and hope for the best.

Heathen777:
'Spiritualists' aren't going to help your case. That's just wishful thinking that won't help you any more than Christianity did. You seek for a quick easy solution to what probably is a multifaceted problem. Get to the roots of your problem and build yourself up from that. Aim for small goals daily, weekly , monthly and try to achieve them, ask for help and support, confide in someone you trust, and hope for the best.

You are right that I need to get to the root of the problem, but the situation is complex. It's not like I've been a sitting duck all these while. I've been making efforts which always turns out to be wasted. I've reached out to almost everyone I know. I've done things that ordinarily would work out for everyone else, but when it's my turn it just shuts down

midnightsun:



You are right that I need to get to the root of the problem, but the situation is complex. It's not like I've been a sitting duck all these while. I've been making efforts which always turns out to be wasted. I've reached out to almost everyone I know. I've done things that ordinarily would work out for everyone else, but when it's my turn it just shuts down

we understood that people like you have little or no strength to follow their own mind hence this complaint trying to attract people's sympathy and opinion. But here it is, the world is not cruel or life being too hard if you are not too soft. We the deist, doesn't ask questions before we take an action . we live by our own thought and not on someone else's opinion.

Check the powerful men around you, they does not seek an advice from anyone. We prefer to live by our own mistake than to accept the roll player's will. Save journey

Waterlrd:
we understood that people like you have little or no strength to follow their own mind hence this complaint trying to attract people's sympathy and opinion. But here it is, the world is not cruel or life being too hard if you are not too soft. We the deist, doesn't ask questions before we take an action . we live by our own thought and not on someone else's opinion.

Check the powerful men around you, they does not seek an advice from anyone. We prefer to live by our own mistake than to accept the roll player's will. Save journey

You are wrong if you think I need sympathy, because all the sympathy in the world would not change my predicament. The opinion I seek is not if I should or if I shouldn't, but of how I should. This is not something I would normally as someone who knows me well like a friend or family member, hence I'm seeking for it here as anonymous asking other anonymous

midnightsun:
I don't mind joining an occult as long as I won't have to kill somebody. I don't care where the wealth is going to come from, even if it's from the Marine world. I'm tired of living this life of poverty and rejection. Family members are already getting fed up with me. Anyone who knows where I can find a solution should please help a brother out

That right there is your problem. How many of humanity's problems have been solved through spiritualists or occult or marine world? Answer: none. They are always solved by people PHYSICALLY studying the problems and PATIENTLY experimenting till they solve it. Your personal problems are no different. Stop believing in such things. Your problems boil down to money. Sit down and determine what risks, sacrifices, discipline, work you'd have to apply PHYSICALLY to make that money. Decide if u r willing to do it or not. Stop believing occult, spiritualists or such will bring u money

PoliteActivist:


That right there is your problem. How many of humanity's problems have been solved through spiritualists or occult or marine world? Answer: none. They are always solved by people PHYSICALLY studying the problems and PATIENTLY experimenting till they solve it. Your personal problems are no different. Stop believing in such things. Your problems boil down to money. Sit down and determine what risks, sacrifices, discipline, work you'd have to apply PHYSICALLY to make that money. Decide if u r willing to do it or not. Stop believing occult, spiritualists or such will bring u money

There are certain circumstances that are beyond our comprehension and control as humans, we can only keep trying. Not even science has answers to all the happenings around us, reason they keep making new discoveries.

To all of you who have suggested I seek a physical solution, I appreciate you all. Unless you have the PHYSICAL solution, there's no need suggesting I seek one.

PoliteActivist:


That right there is your problem. How many of humanity's problems have been solved through spiritualists or occult or marine world? Answer: none. They are always solved by people PHYSICALLY studying the problems and PATIENTLY experimenting till they solve it. Your personal problems are no different. Stop believing in such things. Your problems boil down to money. Sit down and determine what risks, sacrifices, discipline, work you'd have to apply PHYSICALLY to make that money. Decide if u r willing to do it or not. Stop believing occult, spiritualists or such will bring u money

Guy, you got no idea how these things work..was just laughing when you say the occult solve no problem..

I hope you know on wall street there is no 13th floor, do you also know that London is the world capital of occult..?

I hope you know Lord Lugard and their likes are all grand masters of the occult?

The spiritual realm always controls this realm...Cos of my inquisitive nature done an experiment before and was shocked to this day on the outcome...!!
Becareful of what you can't see..

Good Luck to the Op though, may the path you choose bring success to you...!!

God's time is the best is what Pastors tell their gullible congregation and at the end of the day left them stranded and delusional while they the pastors cruise around in opulence.. !!