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Onukube1:
I need someone I can talk to, I am dying slowly and I am afraid it's going to affect me forever.
I met a male friend yesterday and asked him to lend me some money i can assist my family with this Easter as we ain't buoyant financially at the moment. He asked me to come see him and he requested we have party together with his friend,but I refused.
other people I asked were requesting for my nudes and a night out with them.
what is happening in this country?
I don't want this to hunt me all the rest of my life, I have not had sex before and not on this.
please, what do I do now?

Kpac:
Sorry about all this.
This period has created so many vulnerabilities and the sheer irresponsibility in some guys have only been exposed more at this time.
Even if you like sex, must you now take advantage of someone who wants to feed her family ? someone who is even taking responsibilities for the family.

Please send me your account details and i would send you some money for you and your family to hold up, and probably recharge your phone too, so you can call friends, laugh and be happy

Onukube1:
God bless you for me and my family, I will appreciate sir.

here's my detail.
4691032178
Dorcas Amos
Eco bank

WalkerMichael:
Btw, who is Riches Onojah with that zenith account number in the screenshot? I hope its not what I'm thinking though.

Onukube1

MrCuteking:
See your fellow man pretending to be female, scamming the people here. I did this research cause I was scamed on nairaland. Someone used all strategies to convince people here, I fell for it and sent the person money.

Please you guys should stop this scam cause you are blocking the ways of other seriously depressed people.

For now I have stopped helping people on this platform. The scammers are even more convincing than the truly depressed ones.

MrCuteking:
See your fellow man pretending to be female, scamming the people here. I did this research cause I was scamed on nairaland. Someone used all strategies to convince people here, I fell for it and sent the person money.

Please you guys should stop this scam cause you are blocking the ways of other seriously depressed people.

For now I have stopped helping people on this platform. The scammers are even more convincing than the truly depressed ones.

Greatzeus:
Did you see the speed in which those hypocrites used to help her/him? They were under the influence of konji not compassion. They saw nice profile picture and they already lost their senses of reason.
If it was a male moniker, would they have jumped so fast to help him? Hell no. Now it is confirmed that Op is a male,serves them right,no pussy for them hypocrites.

MrCuteking:
See your fellow man pretending to be female, scamming the people here. I did this research cause I was scamed on nairaland. Someone used all strategies to convince people here, I fell for it and sent the person money.

Please you guys should stop this scam cause you are blocking the ways of other seriously depressed people.

For now I have stopped helping people on this platform. The scammers are even more convincing than the truly depressed ones.

Shootingstar93:
That's really sad. I pray u change ur decision about not helping people here. There are people that really need help but are afraid to say so, cos they will be shamed by others. I am one of them. Am not rich but Av been scammed before, but that doesn't stop me from helping people out when I can. I leave everything to God, cos I know they must surely get their reward. Things are bad now, to recharge data is a headache but we keep on living. Hunger kills.

goldiam:
I sent you a pm Sir

joey150:
Yeah, I replied.

Kpac:
Ya'll need to calm down.
Helping people is not about having them perfect and all. Its a shame how we "help" people in this part of the world, we expect to see them all ragged up, looking broken and almost dying before we are "convinced" enough to help. To help people here, we subject them to stern interviews, humiliation and do thorough background checks. That situation has taken the purpose of help away.
Bill gate give so much money to Nigeria every time and its not because he cant see it in the news how much money our Senators spend on Luxury cars. Lil Wayne helps people in his neighborhood, who needed help, but lives comfortably in their own houses and own their own cars.
If some one needs help and you feel obliged to help, you do so and feel so happy about what you did. Validating the help is not mine to confirm.
So many of us here wont help a lady who is very hungry or needy and on the verge of committing suicide just because that particular lady walked up to us in a Gucci Top or Tinted hair, or even because she spoke so fluently or even had piercing on her nose. Now the question is, how do we expect someone to look when they need help ?
If you want to help someone, take pride in the need to do so and dont be all looking for things to "convince" you enough to help.