Hi everyone.
I recently told my mum that I’m dating an MBAISE lady and I may likely propose to her very soon; and she started to pity me and begged me to be careful as she’s not ready to loose me.
The same scenario happened when I told some of my cousins and friends. Before now, I usually hear stuffs about MBAISE people and their wickedness. But personally, I believe that there are wicked and good people In every tribe.
I’m from Ebonyi state but grew up in Southwest...

Pls people can I know your opinion.

Patiently waiting for some answers

Deep.


At the risk of sounding like a bigot, to avoid stories that touch, just do wetin your mama tell you. All those stereotypes we grew up hearing e.g. Igbo people too like money, Yoruba dirty, Hausa violent etc, have been proven to be largely not untrue. However, because we are humans first, I try my utmost to treat people bereft of ethnic or racial stereotypes.


Mbaise people sha get issues. Lol. They are quite intelligent and astute in business, but the average Mbaise person get wetin Igbo man dey call obi akpo, which I'll loosely translate as 'ruthlessness'. Mind that I'm speaking from personal experience.


It's that bad that a musician, whose name I cannot readily recall, talk say if you jamb snake and Mbaise person, make you kill the snake first. Lol.

But as I earlier opined, we're human before anything else.

I might get a lot of flak for my submission, but na your question me dey try answer.

Jamesrock:
Hi everyone.
I recently told my mum that I’m dating an MBAISE lady and I may likely propose to her very soon; and she started to pity me and begged me to be careful as she’s not ready to loose me.
The same scenario happened when I told some of my cousins and friends. Before now, I usually hear stuffs about MBAISE people and their wickedness. But personally, I believe that there are wicked and good people In every tribe.
I’m from Ebonyi state but grew up in Southwest...

Pls people can I know your opinion.

do u want to die early or be a nonentity in d future or live a miserable marital life?

For me, Mbaise is IT! Nulli secondus. An Mbaise woman is cool and she knows and shows it. The women work hard, dress well - when necessary - and adore their husbands. An Mbaise woman is a gift to mankind. However, our mothers tend to have this animal instinct in them that actually spiritually leads them. If your momma says no, please consider it but... An Mbaise woman is IT!

Jamesrock:
Hi everyone.
I recently told my mum that I’m dating an MBAISE lady and I may likely propose to her very soon; and she started to pity me and begged me to be careful as she’s not ready to loose me.
The same scenario happened when I told some of my cousins and friends. Before now, I usually hear stuffs about MBAISE people and their wickedness. But personally, I believe that there are wicked and good people In every tribe.
I’m from Ebonyi state but grew up in Southwest...

Pls people can I know your opinion.

My opinion is that you already have your opinion.
If not so, then why would you introduce a lady with her local government area or village (idk) of all things..
Why was that the only thing you used to describe her? That's simply because you have your reservation already and you're just here to look for someone that would counter your mother.

Jamesrock:
Hi everyone.
I recently told my mum that I’m dating an MBAISE lady and I may likely propose to her very soon; and she started to pity me and begged me to be careful as she’s not ready to loose me.
The same scenario happened when I told some of my cousins and friends. Before now, I usually hear stuffs about MBAISE people and their wickedness. But personally, I believe that there are wicked and good people In every tribe.
I’m from Ebonyi state but grew up in Southwest...

Pls people can I know your opinion.

Bia nwoke, If you want to marry go and marry. If you don't have the money to marry then go and look for your odi ka odi..

She agreed to marry you and you are here writing trash.

What if her parents rejects you .....

DanseMacabre:
Deep.


At the risk of sounding like a bigot, to avoid stories that touch, just do wetin your mama tell you. All those stereotypes we grew up hearing e.g. Igbo people too like money, Yoruba dirty, Hausa violent etc, have been proven to be largely not untrue. However, because we are humans first, I try my utmost to treat people bereft of ethnic or racial stereotypes.


Mbaise people sha get issues. Lol. They are quite intelligent and astute in business, but the average Mbaise person get wetin Igbo man dey call obi akpo, which I'll loosely translate as 'ruthlessness'. Mind that I'm speaking from personal experience.


It's that bad that a musician, whose name I cannot readily recall, talk say if you jamb snake and Mbaise person, make you kill the snake first. Lol.

But as I earlier opined, we're human before anything else.

I might get a lot of flak for my submission, but na your question me dey try answer.

Thank you for this submission. I’m really grateful...

Samyj247:
do u want to die early or be a nonentity in d future or live a miserable marital life?

Oga take am easy nau
Nah so Dem bad reach ... lol

Osagyefo98:




Bia nwoke, If you want to marry go and marry. If you don't have the money to marry then go and look for your odi ka odi..

She agreed to marry you and you are here writing trash.

What if her parents rejects you .....

1- if she reject me, no big deal

2- I never said She’s agreed to marry me

mymadam:
For me, Mbaise is IT! Nulli secondus. An Mbaise woman is cool and she knows and shows it. The women work hard, dress well - when necessary - and adore their husbands. An Mbaise woman is a gift to mankind. However, our mothers tend to have this animal instinct in them that actually spiritually leads them. If your momma says no, please consider it but... An Mbaise woman is IT!

Thanks but what’s their bad side that I should be watchful of

Unelephantable:


My opinion is that you already have your opinion.
If not so, then why would you introduce a lady with her local government area or village (idk) of all things..
Why was that the only thing you used to describe her? That's simply because you have your reservation already and you're just here to look for someone that would counter your mother.

See how you’re concluding as if you’ were present when I introduced her... lol
Besides, which Nigerian mum will not ask the origin of her potential daughter in-law

Jamesrock:

1- if she reject me, no big deal
2- I never said She’s agreed to marry me

We are stressing this further.
Look for a girl in your state and marry...Case closed.

Jamesrock:


See how you’re concluding as if you’ were present when I introduced her... lol
Besides, which Nigerian mum will not ask the origin of her potential daughter in-law

Guy, you literarily told us . I recently told my mum that I’m dating an MBAISE lady.
Does it ring a bell?

Unelephantable:

Guy, you literarily told us . I recently told my mum that I’m dating an MBAISE lady.
Does it ring a bell?

So what point does it prove

Even if I told my mum that she’s just any lady, she’ll still ask to know her origin. It’s not possible to hide her origin unless you want me to tell lies!

Jamesrock:


Thanks but what’s their bad side that I should be watchful of

Bad side? Ha, I don't know any particular one. However, if you're a lazy man, forget the Mbaise woman... her hard-working mien will expose you to the world for what you are! An Mbaise woman can single-handedly take care of the entire family, if you give her the necessary support.

RED LIGHT: Due to her positive qualities (as mentioned above), the Mbaise woman almost always attracts envy and jealousy to herself. This of course may adversely affect your household. You therefore must always fully support her, when she's doing right... no half measures please, please, and please!

AN MBAISE WOMAN CANNOT TOLERATE A LAZY HUSBAND... period! Good luck buddy.

Jamesrock:


So what point does it prove

Even if I told my mum that she’s just any lady, she’ll still ask to know her origin. It’s not possible to hide her origin unless you want me to tell lies!

Okay.