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Around 6:35am this morning 16th of may 2020, my father woke up from hes room out of wickedness came into the seating room holding a big plank and started breaking the slate and ceilings in our apartment intentionally, waiting for any confrontation from us.. and my small cousin who is 14yrs of age was sleeping on the chair while he was breaking down the roof without even minding the precautions or risk of what this might cause her, my mother is in serious shock (trauma) at the moment , my father doesn't care or cater for anyone in the family,  he only cares about him self hes (mouth).. he doesn't own anything or buys a single thing in the appartment especially the parlour he broke the rooftops.. except in hes pasonal room. We bought an LG washing machine, which we fixed in the seating room at the corner to the kitchen, hes pained again seeing us buying washing machine.. he has one he bought for himself about 3yrs now which he kept in use in hes room for hes personal use.. there was a time he left home for good 11yrs sometimes ago. It was our mother who took full responsibility over us she always has.. when he came back home after those years.. he came home empty handed without nothing not even hes car.. we all welcm him even after all the past troubles.. my mom feed him, paid for hes Visa along with my brother even made him a passport.. though they were denied in the USA embassy.. fast forward to today.. my father is doing all this evil act because he wants to sell hes house, that's my deep believe, he is a Muslim and fasting during this Ramadan period to even imagine that in this holy period such will occur, with this evil act of his in this holy month of Ramadan, it really shows the world the true evil minded person. His name is ADEYEMI FATAI KAYODE, I will never pray for my enemy to have such human as a father.
The last time we tried to talk to him about why he has been doing what he is doing about being mean and wicked to us he will end up saying he doesn't want peace with us, this is what a man of over 60 says to his children.

He left the house a day before the presidential lockdown began without telling anyone of his intentions just they way he usually does, and came back on the 4th of May

We seek advice on what to should be done

there most be something wrong u guys are doing to him, maybe u people are at fault.
There are two sides to every story.
Giving out his full name and picture means a threat. Somehow I actually believe that the father is the Victim. He is not even Alcoholic.

you people should team up and drive him out of his house only then will the be peace

We seek advice on what to should be done

What to be done?
Pack and move out. It's either him or you guys.

You are all vulnerable and at risk.
That big plank might land on someone next.

I don't think he's mentally stable upstairs.

Sorry bro I feel for you.

Nawa Lets wait for the elders

He's not a good father..which kind father go use him own hand dey destroy house wey him build with him own money...make una carry am go psychia,to check him head..if him neva dey get epikomkom or aunty don dey beat drum for am out there.

This is a very strange story.

Why would he want to sell the house that his children stays inside... Except maybe you have been disrespecting him probably as encouraged by your mother(I may not be totally right).

I am sure your dad is frustrated about something

Justicelife:
Around 6:35am this morning 16th of may 2020, my father woke up from hes room out of wickedness came into the seating room holding a big plank and started breaking the slate and ceilings in our apartment intentionally, waiting for any confrontation from us.. and my small cousin who is 14yrs of age was sleeping on the chair while he was breaking down the roof without even minding the precautions or risk of what this might cause her, my mother is in serious shock (trauma) at the moment , my father doesn't care or cater for anyone in the family,  he only cares about him self hes (mouth).. he doesn't own anything or buys a single thing in the appartment especially the parlour he broke the rooftops.. except in hes pasonal room. We bought an LG washing machine, which we fixed in the seating room at the corner to the kitchen, hes pained again seeing us buying washing machine.. he has one he bought for himself about 3yrs now which he kept in use in hes room for hes personal use.. there was a time he left home for good 11yrs sometimes ago. It was our mother who took full responsibility over us she always has.. when he came back home after those years.. he came home empty handed without nothing not even hes car.. we all welcm him even after all the past troubles.. my mom feed him, paid for hes Visa along with my brother even made him a passport.. though they were denied in the USA embassy.. fast forward to today.. my father is doing all this evil act because he wants to sell hes house, that's my deep believe, he is a Muslim and fasting during this Ramadan period to even imagine that in this holy period such will occur, with this evil act of his in this holy month of Ramadan, it really shows the world the true evil minded person. His name is ADEYEMI FATAI KAYODE, I will never pray for my enemy to have such human as a father.
The last time we tried to talk to him about why he has been doing what he is doing about being mean and wicked to us he will end up saying he doesn't want peace with us, this is what a man of over 60 says to his children.

He left the house a day before the presidential lockdown began without telling anyone of his intentions just they way he usually does, and came back on the 4th of May

We seek advice on what to should be done

donbachi:
He's not a good father..which kind father go use him own hand dey destroy house wey him build with him own money...make una carry am go psychia,to check him head..if him neva dey get epikomkom or aunty don dey beat drum for am out there.

don't judge until u hear both side

Hmmn there's more to this story...this is really deep!

Justicelife:
Around 6:35am this morning 16th of may 2020, my father woke up from hes room out of wickedness came into the seating room holding a big plank and started breaking the slate and ceilings in our apartment intentionally, waiting for any confrontation from us.. and my small cousin who is 14yrs of age was sleeping on the chair while he was breaking down the roof without even minding the precautions or risk of what this might cause her, my mother is in serious shock (trauma) at the moment , my father doesn't care or cater for anyone in the family,  he only cares about him self hes (mouth).. he doesn't own anything or buys a single thing in the appartment especially the parlour he broke the rooftops.. except in hes pasonal room. We bought an LG washing machine, which we fixed in the seating room at the corner to the kitchen, hes pained again seeing us buying washing machine.. he has one he bought for himself about 3yrs now which he kept in use in hes room for hes personal use.. there was a time he left home for good 11yrs sometimes ago. It was our mother who took full responsibility over us she always has.. when he came back home after those years.. he came home empty handed without nothing not even hes car.. we all welcm him even after all the past troubles.. my mom feed him, paid for hes Visa along with my brother even made him a passport.. though they were denied in the USA embassy.. fast forward to today.. my father is doing all this evil act because he wants to sell hes house, that's my deep believe, he is a Muslim and fasting during this Ramadan period to even imagine that in this holy period such will occur, with this evil act of his in this holy month of Ramadan, it really shows the world the true evil minded person. His name is ADEYEMI FATAI KAYODE, I will never pray for my enemy to have such human as a father.
The last time we tried to talk to him about why he has been doing what he is doing about being mean and wicked to us he will end up saying he doesn't want peace with us, this is what a man of over 60 says to his children.

He left the house a day before the presidential lockdown began without telling anyone of his intentions just they way he usually does, and came back on the 4th of May

We seek advice on what to should be done

The whole family should go for a DNA test,
Something is wrong somewhere

JAOS:
you people should team up and drive him out of his house only then will the be peace

Kids in the house

Kindly delete the pics u posted for your own good.

If you are 18 years old, move out and give the man chance to enjoy his wife.

If you want to live in the house, sign tenancy agreement. You people must have provoked him.

Some youths of these are so disrespectful due to internet/online revolution.

You people suppose be at your own house now.

Justicelife:
Around 6:35am this morning 16th of may 2020, my father woke up from hes room out of wickedness came into the seating room holding a big plank and started breaking the slate and ceilings in our apartment intentionally, waiting for any confrontation from us.. and my small cousin who is 14yrs of age was sleeping on the chair while he was breaking down the roof without even minding the precautions or risk of what this might cause her, my mother is in serious shock (trauma) at the moment , my father doesn't care or cater for anyone in the family,  he only cares about him self hes (mouth).. he doesn't own anything or buys a single thing in the appartment especially the parlour he broke the rooftops.. except in hes pasonal room. We bought an LG washing machine, which we fixed in the seating room at the corner to the kitchen, hes pained again seeing us buying washing machine.. he has one he bought for himself about 3yrs now which he kept in use in hes room for hes personal use.. there was a time he left home for good 11yrs sometimes ago. It was our mother who took full responsibility over us she always has.. when he came back home after those years.. he came home empty handed without nothing not even hes car.. we all welcm him even after all the past troubles.. my mom feed him, paid for hes Visa along with my brother even made him a passport.. though they were denied in the USA embassy.. fast forward to today.. my father is doing all this evil act because he wants to sell hes house, that's my deep believe, he is a Muslim and fasting during this Ramadan period to even imagine that in this holy period such will occur, with this evil act of his in this holy month of Ramadan, it really shows the world the true evil minded person. His name is ADEYEMI FATAI KAYODE, I will never pray for my enemy to have such human as a father.
The last time we tried to talk to him about why he has been doing what he is doing about being mean and wicked to us he will end up saying he doesn't want peace with us, this is what a man of over 60 says to his children.

He left the house a day before the presidential lockdown began without telling anyone of his intentions just they way he usually does, and came back on the 4th of May

We seek advice on what to should be done

He is ret*rded.

He is a Yoruba Muslim,ishaq akintola will come for me if I say anything

HE IS GOOD AS DEATH.
MY REASON.
You dont judge a child or childern with the circumstances behind their birth.
what makes you a man if you cant keep and uphold you family in any situation.
if he think his wife is promiscuous in nature why transfer the hatred to childern that have no say to the past life of their mother.
for crying out loud this children calls and believe in you as their father if you think they are not part of your life why keep them for so long the same rooof.
there is better way to correct the wrong doing of children.
why will someone who is clueless about family and challenge start a family
the man is just a sadist and will continue to make life miserable for the wife and childern
NB. from your story and findings, the man is of no use to the family So you guys needs to do the needful.....send the idiot to hell

Ikpeabujo:
HE IS GOOD AS DEATH.
MY REASON.
You dont judge a child or childern with the circumstances behind their birth.
what makes you a man if you cant keep and uphold you family in any situation.
if he think his wife is promiscuous in nature why transfer the hatred to childern that have no say to the past life of their mother.
for crying out loud this children calls and believe in you as their father if you think they are not part of your life why keep them for so long the same rooof.
there is better way to correct the wrong doing of children.
why will someone who is clueless about family and challenge start a family
the man is just a sadist and will continue to make life miserable for the wife and childern
NB. from your story and findings, the man is of no use to the family So you guys needs to do the needful.....send the idiot to hell

mr man you can make a good judge. what ever attitude of your children and children display should not be a good reason to destroy your home as a man. there are better way to harmonise your home