Fabulouzjoseph:
We have laws we have authorities if someone comits a crime you report imediately so that the authorities can do their job but you would *prefer* waiting for over 20 years before coming out to report if not for blackmail and gold digging i don't see what a person will gain from such because it would be very dificult to administer justice after such a long time.

Midadeola:
Cubana chief priest simply came out to say if Uwa had somehow managed to stay alive, but couldn't summon the courage to spill the abominable that has happened to her, but later saw the guy that managed to destroy her life doing well and being celebrated by the society, if she then chooses to spill the beans, she's a GOLD DIGGER. People, what do you think?

Midadeola:
You just used the word prefer... You mean looking critically into what was done to Uwa, if she wasn't able to talk but until years later, she out rightly just preferred to do so?

Fabulouzjoseph:
we have ngo's, human right activitist, feminist, and the rest these are agencies a rape victim can run to inorder for him or her to get justice and be properly taken care of. Imagine uwa should wait for fifteen years later now and she comes out to accuse one popular and rich person of raping her in the church do you think people would believe her ? Do you think she will get justice easily?

Midadeola:

when a situation stares at people black and white in the face, they always tend to try and twist it to shift the reality from people's faces. no one is talking about getting Justice easily or not here. we are talking about the careless statement a human being with his nonchalant potbellied self made to someone who has just been violated and is traumatised, "a rape victim who is not strong enough to come out and let people know that she has been raped but found her voice years later, IS, A Gold Digger. For someone who Meticulously, unselfishly & carefully looks into a situation, Is what befell Uwa not enough to drive her into an everlasting, insane shock?

SenorFax:

You would rather allow the rapist to roam and rape other victims by waiting till he's successful rather than report him immediately.
That's selfishness
Others might not survive what you survived.
Uwa will still be alive if that rapist was reported and arrested earlier cos I'm sure that might not be his first victim

Fabulouzjoseph:
we have ngo's, human right activitist, feminist, and the rest these are agencies a rape victim can run to inorder for him or her to get justice and be properly taken care of. Imagine uwa should wait for fifteen years later now and she comes out to accuse one popular and rich person of raping her in the church do you think people would believe her ? Do you think she will get justice easily?

Fabulouzjoseph:
we have ngo's, human right activitist, feminist, and the rest these are agencies a rape victim can run to inorder for him or her to get justice and be properly taken care of. Imagine uwa should wait for fifteen years later now and she comes out to accuse one popular and rich person of raping her in the church do you think people would believe her ? Do you think she will get justice easily?

Missyajoke:
Rape is a painful thing and the problem with most raped victim is fear, they feel if they report they'll be stigmatized. That's why they don't report immediately, but when they see that someone who's ready to seek for justice they also want to seek justice.
My final point if you can't report when the incident happen what's the point reporting after 10-15 years or when the person gets rich. Report it immediately it happens and don't wait years after it happens. So people won't term you a Gold digger. Because the society see women as been weak and they don't take them serious. To police officers ladies are always responsible for rape which shouldn't be. Women are seen as a sex tool and those posting nudes online has made things difficult for rape victims, cause they won't take them serious. Seek justice before the case goes cold.

Midadeola:
the first question here is not about getting Justice easily. the question is in the statement rape Victims waiting years later all gold diggers. answer it

Fabulouzjoseph:
most are: like the case of busula dakolo who came out to demand ten million naira from the pastor whom she alledged raped her.

Midadeola:
so, that little child that was defiled at age 6 but shut her mouth until she became an adult is a gold digger. a 70 year old woman who was in shock but decided to voice out years later is a gold digger. uwa after the tragedy she encountered would have been a gold digger she deemed it fit to talk years later?

Midadeola:
you couldn't even answer the very simple question

OLDESTWARRIBOY:
@Midadeola

You are twisting Cubana's words.

Cubana said Don't wait till he's successful (Rich) before you call him out.

Immediately dem rape ona, make ona fast find the nearest police station report the case asap. No wait till rape cases start to dey trend first, example see Bukola since she quiet o, but as Uwa matter arise, she come out from where she hide con dey talk her own. Or see that gal wet claim say Peruzzi rape, dem rape for house wey people full?? She no get mouth to shout? Who see want fool? And na now she wan talk cuz Peruzzi dn blow shebi?

So say it now, don't wait for 100 years first claiming anything. Bye bye madam

SenorFax:

Don't mind her, maybe she's waiting for her own to blow before she report. Cos as at now, 99% of ladies they claim person don rape them before.

SenorFax:

Don't mind her, maybe she's waiting for her own to blow before she report. Cos as at now, 99% of ladies they claim person don rape them before.

Midadeola:
Are you a rapist?

Midadeola:
Judging from the way you throw your statements around, it shows excessive nonchalance. You use phrases like "they feel", "that's why", "so people won't term them a gold digger". How come a non-rape victim now totally knows and understands how rape victims feel and their reason for acting the way they do. You even stated there, so people won't see them a gold digger. So, of all reasons a rape victim has to speak out, yours is for her not to appear a gold digger in people's faces, Applaud!!!

SenorFax:

I'm not.

Have you been raped before??

Midadeola:
Wonderful, I was seriously hoping this is not the case, but you just proved it is. So, you mean to tell me, you are patiently waiting to be raped for you to try to understand even a bit of what weight it carries.

SenorFax:

You would rather allow the rapist to roam and rape other victims by waiting till he's successful rather than report him immediately.
That's selfishness
Others might not survive what you survived.
Uwa will still be alive if that rapist was reported and arrested earlier cos I'm sure that might not be his first victim

SenorFax:

Midadeola:
you couldn't even answer the very simple question

bukatyne:

Unnerve:

Allow me to ask you a simple legal question, if you don't mind.

Did you know there is a statute of limitations on rape? If you do, what is the duration?