She needs sex education as soon as possible from you the brother and not aunty or uncle before it is too late.

Hum.

Gently correct her in love. If possible enumerate the dangers associated with porn and others. This is to avoid her learning worse from peers.

Best thing is to sit her down and talk sense into her.

Crystalom3:
Hello Everyone

I have a little problem and it's really killing me.

As almost is a custom in our house, you don't get a phone until you're out of secondary school.

Lately, my little sister has been begging me for my phone to use. Sometimes for Facebook, sometimes for assignments or just browsing and stuffs.

But the problem is, she's always searching for porn. She's 17 now. I don't know if it's out of curiosity or if she's addicted to it.

Everytime I get my phone from her and I check the browser history, I'll see Google search for 'porn' 'pornography' and then website clicks.

She also searches for lesbian porns with many click through.

I don't know if she's just curious or if I should be concerned. I've stopped giving her my phone even though she do ask for it sometimes.

I've thought about talking to her but I really don't know where to start or how. We lost both of our parents already and are staying with my uncle and his wife and I don't really want to talk to the wife about this.

Please any advice?

give her ur phn to discover more and confront her

n u can't sit down n talk to her u are telling us

youngest85:
What do ladies even gain from porn?

To ease their sexual urge(honny), bro!

pls call her and talk to her.

At 17 she is way too ready to know about sex and it's consequences. Though, you being the one to educate her may look a bit awkward. I suggest you tell a matured lady to do the lecture.

youngest85:
What do ladies even gain from porn?

same thing men gain from it

ArcFresky:
Talk to her.

Don't ve direct, but make her know you can keep a secret and you are always available.


She's not yet an expert as many are insinuating, if she was, she would know websites offhand, instead of googling.

You right

There is nothing curious here, if she is curious let her search for story books, educational stuff, names of governors, ministers etc.

You sure say them never nak her?

Your sister is a lesbian, though she's just learning the trade. Keep your eyes on her, my younger sister does the same thing
Is like 80% of our girls now are lesbians

Hmmm!
This is a serious issue, well you should know that our young once learn most of this things in secondary school. My guess is one of her female friend already has a phone and most times they search and watch with her friends phone in school.

I might be wrong, but its either she's already practicing it, so she's probably liking what she sees and wants more experience.
Pls, talk to her, caution her. It might not change a thing or it might. Just play your part as a big brother.

Slap hell fire commot for her body, confront her friends in school cos I'm sure they're into lesbianism. stop giving her your phone, if she wants to browse let her go to the cyber cafe

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Please ignore all the talk sense into her kind of advice people have been giving you. Trust me, most of those giving you that advice do the same thing, even more.

I think it's you Op, who first needs sex education for even thinking there might be something wrong with your sister for being curious about sex. What your sister is going through is normal. Let me spell that in capital case... NORMAL. Human beings are first of all mammals and sex happens to be one of the very important part of our lives. Unfortunately Op, many of us like you were raised under an extremely toxic culture and society where sexuality is totally repressed. Please be better than your parents. Provide an avenue for open discussion about sex. And yes that includes discussing pornography, opposite sex, same sex, your body organs, masturbation, orgasm, FGM and so on.

Before you try to judge your sister as wrong, or even to accost her, I will suggest that you first get a healthy sex education. Not the one your pastors or imams or abores can give you. But sexual education from developmental biology/psychology point of view. By the time you're done with this kind of education, you might just discover that it's not your sister that something is wrong with, but you.

Kindly don't label her as being addicted. It will help if you look up the meaning of addiction.

Crystalom3:
Hello Everyone

I have a little problem and it's really killing me.

As almost is a custom in our house, you don't get a phone until you're out of secondary school.

Lately, my little sister has been begging me for my phone to use. Sometimes for Facebook, sometimes for assignments or just browsing and stuffs.

But the problem is, she's always searching for porn. She's 17 now. I don't know if it's out of curiosity or if she's addicted to it.

Everytime I get my phone from her and I check the browser history, I'll see Google search for 'porn' 'pornography' and then website clicks.

She also searches for lesbian porns with many click through.

I don't know if she's just curious or if I should be concerned. I've stopped giving her my phone even though she do ask for it sometimes.

I've thought about talking to her but I really don't know where to start or how. We lost both of our parents already and are staying with my uncle and his wife and I don't really want to talk to the wife about this.

Please any advice?

no be here ooo...this lockdown weh dos smally deh house ehn..dem go don masturbate tire...The way deh flaunt it around in the estate is alrming and majority of the guys here are dating bigger ladies so na vecks face all the time but some still deh give dem steady....that your sister is just searching for styles to enjoy it more....girl weh sabi...

Walahi i am shook,shocked and shook-ed...its alarming.

GOFRONT:
Na wao......The way preeq and Towto dey sweet youth of this generation ehn!!!

She is a risk taker...

Crystalom3:
Hello Everyone

I have a little problem and it's really killing me.

As almost is a custom in our house, you don't get a phone until you're out of secondary school.

Lately, my little sister has been begging me for my phone to use. Sometimes for Facebook, sometimes for assignments or just browsing and stuffs.

But the problem is, she's always searching for porn. She's 17 now. I don't know if it's out of curiosity or if she's addicted to it.

Everytime I get my phone from her and I check the browser history, I'll see Google search for 'porn' 'pornography' and then website clicks.

She also searches for lesbian porns with many click through.

I don't know if she's just curious or if I should be concerned. I've stopped giving her my phone even though she do ask for it sometimes.

I've thought about talking to her but I really don't know where to start or how. We lost both of our parents already and are staying with my uncle and his wife and I don't really want to talk to the wife about this.

Please any advice?

BRother, so because I beg you for ordinary phone of fife naira to use, you came here to expose yoursef

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Crystalom3:
Hello Everyone

I have a little problem and it's really killing me.

As almost is a custom in our house, you don't get a phone until you're out of secondary school.

Lately, my little sister has been begging me for my phone to use. Sometimes for Facebook, sometimes for assignments or just browsing and stuffs.

But the problem is, she's always searching for porn. She's 17 now. I don't know if it's out of curiosity or if she's addicted to it.

Everytime I get my phone from her and I check the browser history, I'll see Google search for 'porn' 'pornography' and then website clicks.

She also searches for lesbian porns with many click through.

I don't know if she's just curious or if I should be concerned. I've stopped giving her my phone even though she do ask for it sometimes.

I've thought about talking to her but I really don't know where to start or how. We lost both of our parents already and are staying with my uncle and his wife and I don't really want to talk to the wife about this.

Please any advice?

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And you brought this here ? Either this is a fake post or there is something definitely wrong with you.

Even whites who started this whole show and day everything online are regretting it today

Grow up and get a life

Don't you have friends in real life ?

Why would you type this rubbish here ?

You are either faking it as usual. It's common to see lots of fake made up stories on this forum or you are not normal at all

Grow up so you can be a better elder to your kid sister if at all this is real

jidamsel43:
Your sister knows a lot .

The hypotheses are :

She is sexually aroused but could not get it on time.

She wants to explore and learn new sex styles

She has been involving in amorous relationship with her friends

. WISDOM too Much for your HEAD

ThothHermes:
This is the most stupid thing I've read this month.

Oh, you know that teen pregnancies, child molestation arise because someone at home isnt doing their job right?

Talk to her before it's too late. Every Bobrisky and Alimi started out this way till they graduated into something beyond control, be proactive and timely so God won't require her blood from your hand, especially when her negative development in iniquity becomes rife and her wheels spiral out of control.

padi94:
OP I will advise you leave her be... allow her satisfy her curiousity. If you try nd deter her it will affect many other people.

If she no spoil how them boys go take see easy naks

People like you go make me delete my account from nairaland very soon

Lovelyn451:
Slap hell fire commot for her body, and stop giving her your phone, if she wants to browse let her go to the cyber cafe

U too harsh. Easy na

Crystalom3:
Hello Everyone

I have a little problem and it's really killing me.

As almost is a custom in our house, you don't get a phone until you're out of secondary school.

Lately, my little sister has been begging me for my phone to use. Sometimes for Facebook, sometimes for assignments or just browsing and stuffs.

But the problem is, she's always searching for porn. She's 17 now. I don't know if it's out of curiosity or if she's addicted to it.

Everytime I get my phone from her and I check the browser history, I'll see Google search for 'porn' 'pornography' and then website clicks.

She also searches for lesbian porns with many click through.

I don't know if she's just curious or if I should be concerned. I've stopped giving her my phone even though she do ask for it sometimes.

I've thought about talking to her but I really don't know where to start or how. We lost both of our parents already and are staying with my uncle and his wife and I don't really want to talk to the wife about this.

Please any advice?

She is into lesbianism.

Op you need to employ the act of sex education before it gets too late!

She's satisfying her sexual urges aka masturbation. At that age, their hormones are out of rage. Theirs no surprise in that or what do you expect her to do.

Crystalom3:
Hello Everyone

I have a little problem and it's really killing me.

As almost is a custom in our house, you don't get a phone until you're out of secondary school.

Lately, my little sister has been begging me for my phone to use. Sometimes for Facebook, sometimes for assignments or just browsing and stuffs.

But the problem is, she's always searching for porn. She's 17 now. I don't know if it's out of curiosity or if she's addicted to it.

Everytime I get my phone from her and I check the browser history, I'll see Google search for 'porn' 'pornography' and then website clicks.

She also searches for lesbian porns with many click through.

I don't know if she's just curious or if I should be concerned. I've stopped giving her my phone even though she do ask for it sometimes.

I've thought about talking to her but I really don't know where to start or how. We lost both of our parents already and are staying with my uncle and his wife and I don't really want to talk to the wife about this.

Please any advice?

To be honest with you, I don't see the issue, please let the girl be, else she will be embarrassed and never speak to you about anything.

Even if you have to speak to her, which I don't suggest, you should laugh about it, but at the same time caution her. However, I wouldn't do it, any kid at that age is curious, I am sure you also did, with magazines or Nollywood movies, so just let the girl rest.

OP don't scold her,make her feel like porn is ok,and all that stuffs are kool,but it's not yet time,blv me if you scold her then she will hide a whole lot from you,I'm talking from experience.

DatAbujaBoy:
Your sister is a lesbian, though she's just learning the trade. Keep your eyes on her, my younger sister does the same thing
Is like 80% of our girls now are lesbians

I dey tell you bro. Most of these young girls in private schools, both secondary and tertiary are Lesbians. This is a serious issue but these private schools authorities are not doing anything about it.

Babes wey never reach us b4, dem com dey nack each other.