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Re: Help: My Mother Stopped Praying by Agbegbaorogboye: 9:59pm On Oct 31, 2020
urchcoded:
pussy not the same as ass. I mean I rather get on my knees and worship a woman with a very nice curvy ass that I can see with my eyes than worshipping some God that I've never seen before, only heard stories of him turning water to wine and other stuff which I don't see him doing nowadays.
Why would you worship your fellow human just because of curvy ass?
Does it make sense to you to reject God's omnipotence and omniscience just because you can't see him and turn to an ass worshipper.
Are you so stoned on feeding your eyes?
Re: Help: My Mother Stopped Praying by urchcoded(op): 11:04pm On Oct 31, 2020
Agbegbaorogboye:
Why would you worship your fellow human just because of curvy ass?
Does it make sense to you to reject God's omnipotence and omniscience just because you can't see him and turn to an ass worshipper.
Are you so stoned on feeding your eyes?
I'll worship any God that can say hello
Re: Help: My Mother Stopped Praying by mission08: 11:26pm On Oct 31, 2020
urchcoded:
lol no I'm not angry with God and no I'm not sex starved, infact I had the best pvssies when I was the keyboardist of a popular church in Nigeria, my choir sisters were very generous In that aspect. So, if it's because of sex I'll rather remain religious for real.
Hmmm....this explains it. You never knew God all along, you were just a church goer.
Re: Help: My Mother Stopped Praying by urchcoded(op): 11:37pm On Oct 31, 2020
mission08:
Hmmm....this explains it. You never knew God all along, you were just a church goer.
of course go ahead and judge me because I'm the only one that had premarital sex, I hope you never did such too. angry BTW, there were times I was celibate for a long while purposely.
Re: Help: My Mother Stopped Praying by Agbegbaorogboye: 6:39am On Nov 01, 2020
urchcoded:
I'll worship any God that can say hello
Why don't you worship an ATM then. Can a woman's butt say hello?
Re: Help: My Mother Stopped Praying by urchcoded(op): 7:34am On Nov 01, 2020
Agbegbaorogboye:
Why don't you worship an ATM then. Can a woman's butt say hello?
the woman can say hello. Funny enough no God has ever told me that he wants me to worship him. It's always humans telling me what their God wants. If your God really cares if I worship him or not he would tell me na.
Re: Help: My Mother Stopped Praying by Agbegbaorogboye: 8:06am On Nov 01, 2020
urchcoded:
the woman can say hello. Funny enough no God has ever told me that he wants me to worship him. It's always humans telling me what their God wants. If your God really cares if I worship him or not he would tell me na.
Can't you say hello too?
Who is worshipping you?
Why worship your equal? Does it not sound slavish?
Who told you you're a Nigerian? Was it not people like you? If you want to hear from God, quit chasing pussies while playing keyboard. Focus on him and open your mind to hear from him.
Re: Help: My Mother Stopped Praying by urchcoded(op): 8:10am On Nov 01, 2020
Agbegbaorogboye:
Can't you say hello too?
Who is worshipping you?
Why worship your equal? Does it not sound slavish?
Who told you you're a Nigerian? Was it not people like you? If you want to hear from God, quit chasing pussies while playing keyboard. Focus on him and open your mind to hear from him.
I'm just laughing because me I know there is nothing I did not try in my Christian days to hear God speak. Man won't just say anything, and I'll be the last person to deceive myself, I need to hear clearly. I said hello, he didn't respond a lot of times. If you are ready to tell yourself the Truth, you will agree too that you have not heard shit from the God you worship.
Re: Help: My Mother Stopped Praying by Agbegbaorogboye: 8:12am On Nov 01, 2020
urchcoded:
I'm just laughing because me I know there is nothing I did not try in my Christian days to hear God speak. Man won't just say anything, and I'll be the last person to deceive myself, I need to hear clearly. I said hello, he didn't respond a lot of times. If you are ready to tell yourself the Truth, you will agree too that you have not heard shit from the God you worship.
I have. Sorry to disappoint you.
Re: Help: My Mother Stopped Praying by cupidhero(m): 10:19am On Nov 01, 2020
urchcoded:
I'll try to make this as brief as possible. I stopped believing in God finally last year. I grew up in a very religious Christian family, but I became an unbeliever after analysing religion. I'm the only one living with my mother and few weeks ago she engaged me in a discussion about why I'm allowing the devil use me, I told her the Devil is not using me as I don't believe in him either. I went on to carefully explain to her why I think God probably does not exist and even if he does,there is no way to ascertain that Christianity is the right religion amongst other thousands of religions. Honestly I wasn't trying to get her to stop being a Christian or anything I was just trying to let her understand my stand because she has been worried for a long time. That night around 1am I woke up from sleep to hear her crying, I tip toed to her room and saw her kneeling down praying and crying uncontrollably she was actually praying for me and for God to reveal himself to me. Seeing her cry hurt me a lot and I couldn't sleep the rest of the night. Waking up the next morning I noticed she didn't do her normal morning devotion and prayers. I wasn't happy with the development but I ignored her. She came back in the night and still didn't pray. I had to reluctantly ask her why she was no more praying, she coldly replied me saying "Shea you said prayer doesn't work and there is no God" and she walked away. I've been really really upset because I know she can't actually do without religion. This is what she has known all her life, she's a Sunday school teacher. She needs religion because her life is centered on it. My father died Early this year and I'm due to go for NYSC by next month. pls how do I resolve this situation cos it breaks me to see her so sad and dejected and it might be worse when I leave. Should I pretend to have had an encounter with God or something. I really could use some advice here. If you don't have any just avoid the thread.
There are certain emotions and things you don't reveal to your mom no matter how it worries you it is better to keep it within yourself or best reveal it to any fatherly figure in your life or someone manly and wise enough you can share this new found truths or temporary emotions with. This is one thing i learnt early even though i still let some emotions like anger slip through which leaves my mother thinking i am sad about life making her worried and eventually unhappier than me. No matter the amount of self love you possess the chances of your mom loving you more than you love yourself is quite huge. No mother will be happy living with the fact that her child will burn in an actual hell forever. To you it is an old belief while to her it is a fact that you will burn in hell. The best thing to do is to pretend to love,pray and believe in what ever that will make her happy because life is too short atleast let her grow old knowing if she leaves earth anyday you will be fine and reunited with her in the place called heaven.
Re: Help: My Mother Stopped Praying by urchcoded(op): 12:54pm On Nov 01, 2020
cupidhero:
There are certain emotions and things you don't reveal to your mom no matter how it worries you it is better to keep it within yourself or best reveal it to any fatherly figure in your life or someone manly and wise enough you can share this new found truths or temporary emotions with. This is one thing i learnt early even though i still let some emotions like anger slip through which leaves my mother thinking i am sad about life making her worried and eventually unhappier than me. No matter the amount of self love you possess the chances of your mom loving you more than you love yourself is quite huge. No mother will be happy living with the fact that her child will burn in an actual hell forever. To you it is an old belief while to her it is a fact that you will burn in hell. The best thing to do is to pretend to love,pray and believe in what ever that will make her happy because life is too short atleast let her grow old knowing if she leaves earth anyday you will be fine and reunited with her in the place called heaven.
yeah thanks for your insight, I've handled the situation
Re: Help: My Mother Stopped Praying by bukatyne(f): 4:21pm On Nov 01, 2020
urchcoded:
I'll try to make this as brief as possible. I stopped believing in God finally last year. I grew up in a very religious Christian family, but I became an unbeliever after analysing religion. I'm the only one living with my mother and few weeks ago she engaged me in a discussion about why I'm allowing the devil use me, I told her the Devil is not using me as I don't believe in him either. I went on to carefully explain to her why I think God probably does not exist and even if he does,there is no way to ascertain that Christianity is the right religion amongst other thousands of religions. Honestly I wasn't trying to get her to stop being a Christian or anything I was just trying to let her understand my stand because she has been worried for a long time. That night around 1am I woke up from sleep to hear her crying, I tip toed to her room and saw her kneeling down praying and crying uncontrollably she was actually praying for me and for God to reveal himself to me. Seeing her cry hurt me a lot and I couldn't sleep the rest of the night. Waking up the next morning I noticed she didn't do her normal morning devotion and prayers. I wasn't happy with the development but I ignored her. She came back in the night and still didn't pray. I had to reluctantly ask her why she was no more praying, she coldly replied me saying "Shea you said prayer doesn't work and there is no God" and she walked away. I've been really really upset because I know she can't actually do without religion. This is what she has known all her life, she's a Sunday school teacher. She needs religion because her life is centered on it. My father died Early this year and I'm due to go for NYSC by next month. pls how do I resolve this situation cos it breaks me to see her so sad and dejected and it might be worse when I leave. Should I pretend to have had an encounter with God or something. I really could use some advice here. If you don't have any just avoid the thread.
What exactly is your concern?

Your mother has 'agreed with you' so why are you unhappy?
Re: Help: My Mother Stopped Praying by urchcoded(op): 4:28pm On Nov 01, 2020
bukatyne:
What exactly is your concern?

Your mother has 'agreed with you' so why are you unhappy?
I wasn't trying to get her agree with me, just for her to understand me tho.
Re: Help: My Mother Stopped Praying by belcom10(m): 4:46pm On Nov 01, 2020
God is faithful. Seek him with contrite and broken heart.humble yourself before him, You will see his glory. Shalom.
Re: Help: My Mother Stopped Praying by Nobody: 11:00am On Nov 03, 2020
urchcoded:
I'll try to make this as brief as possible. I stopped believing in God finally last year. I grew up in a very religious Christian family, but I became an unbeliever after analysing religion. I'm the only one living with my mother and few weeks ago she engaged me in a discussion about why I'm allowing the devil use me, I told her the Devil is not using me as I don't believe in him either. I went on to carefully explain to her why I think God probably does not exist and even if he does,there is no way to ascertain that Christianity is the right religion amongst other thousands of religions. Honestly I wasn't trying to get her to stop being a Christian or anything I was just trying to let her understand my stand because she has been worried for a long time. That night around 1am I woke up from sleep to hear her crying, I tip toed to her room and saw her kneeling down praying and crying uncontrollably she was actually praying for me and for God to reveal himself to me. Seeing her cry hurt me a lot and I couldn't sleep the rest of the night. Waking up the next morning I noticed she didn't do her normal morning devotion and prayers. I wasn't happy with the development but I ignored her. She came back in the night and still didn't pray. I had to reluctantly ask her why she was no more praying, she coldly replied me saying "Shea you said prayer doesn't work and there is no God" and she walked away. I've been really really upset because I know she can't actually do without religion. This is what she has known all her life, she's a Sunday school teacher. She needs religion because her life is centered on it. My father died Early this year and I'm due to go for NYSC by next month. pls how do I resolve this situation cos it breaks me to see her so sad and dejected and it might be worse when I leave. Should I pretend to have had an encounter with God or something. I really could use some advice here. If you don't have any just avoid the thread.
Isn't this a good thing?
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