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I Need To Leave My Confort Zone, Pls Ur Advice Will Help by Benny93: 5:21pm On Nov 07, 2020
i'm a graduate n I have also acquired some skills too, I stayed in PH with an uncle which treat me very well n am comfortable there. but I feel I need to move with my life, I feel is time to take a risk.
I have been looking for a job, the few steps I made to get a job they told me that I need to know someone to connect me, I'm so fed up. I feel I need to go n work like a drop out or something, anything legal becus I'm tired of promises I need to do somtin

pls i someone to accomodate me in the west(lagos) or east(anambra) while i find something for myself i really need to leave my current location even if it's just for a month...thanks inadvance

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Re: I Need To Leave My Confort Zone, Pls Ur Advice Will Help by Duru9(m): 5:31pm On Nov 07, 2020
Are you a male or female?

I doubt someone will accept to accommodate you just like that without knowing who you are

That's why it's good to maintain friendship for time like this but most people ego won't allow them keep friends

You ought to have friend/friends in Lagos or anambra

I wish you Good luck tho

I stay in Abuja

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Re: I Need To Leave My Confort Zone, Pls Ur Advice Will Help by Benny93: 5:38pm On Nov 07, 2020
Duru9:
Are you a male or female?

I doubt someone will accept to accommodate you just like that without knowing who you are

That's why it's good to maintain friendship for time like this but most people ego won't allow them keep friends

You ought to have friend/friends in Lagos or anambra

I wish you Good luck tho

I stay in Abuja
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I am a male, you think is all friends that help in times like did? thanks all the same

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Re: I Need To Leave My Confort Zone, Pls Ur Advice Will Help by nifemi25(m): 5:40pm On Nov 07, 2020
I doubt you can see someone to accommodate you without knowing you before now.. Don't you think it might be dangerous for you staying with someone you hardly knows what he did for a leaving.

Just my 1kobo advice...

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Re: I Need To Leave My Confort Zone, Pls Ur Advice Will Help by Benny93: 5:43pm On Nov 07, 2020
nifemi25:
I doubt you can see someone to accommodate you without knowing you before now.. Don't you think it might be dangerous for you staying with someone you hardly knows what he did for a leaving.

Just my 1kobo advice...
I thought abt it too u know but I can just help it right now just wanna check d risk
Re: I Need To Leave My Confort Zone, Pls Ur Advice Will Help by Worldoma: 6:27pm On Nov 07, 2020
If you're coming to Anambra, have it in mind that you're coming strictly for business. Anything outside business I will advise you to remain in PH.

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Re: I Need To Leave My Confort Zone, Pls Ur Advice Will Help by Benny93: 6:31pm On Nov 07, 2020
Worldoma:
If you're coming to Anambra, have it in mind that you're coming strictly for business. Anything outside business I will advise you to remain in PH.

noted, thanx a lot.

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Re: I Need To Leave My Confort Zone, Pls Ur Advice Will Help by PatrickOkunima(m): 7:58pm On Nov 07, 2020
If the OP is really a graduate, then we're in trouble in this country.

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Re: I Need To Leave My Confort Zone, Pls Ur Advice Will Help by Benny93: 8:11pm On Nov 07, 2020
PatrickOkunima:
If the OP is really a graduate, then we're in trouble in this country.

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Re: I Need To Leave My Confort Zone, Pls Ur Advice Will Help by PatrickOkunima(m): 8:16pm On Nov 07, 2020
Benny93:

if you don't know wat to say is better to keep silent bcus you must not comment on all post
Please do not pick offence. I just find it difficult to believe that a graduate will write such.

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Re: I Need To Leave My Confort Zone, Pls Ur Advice Will Help by Benny93: 8:28pm On Nov 07, 2020
PatrickOkunima:
Please do not pick offence. I just find it difficult to believe that a graduate will write such.
wat I wrote wasn't a formal writing, this is a social media where you can write in short words, slangs, jargon etc so Oga don't try to be too learned thereby making a mountain out of a mole hill

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Re: I Need To Leave My Confort Zone, Pls Ur Advice Will Help by Elsueno: 8:30pm On Nov 07, 2020
So what are you gonna do there?

What's ur plan!

I hope you don't think jobs are shared on merit in those places woh grin

Or is ur uncle tired of feeding you?.

Or you just wanna feel like a man, bring ur girl home for the weekend & play house? grin


My advice, get ur priorities right first, only travel to somewhere like Lagos when you have a clear goal in mind and COMFORTABLE accommodation. especially in this covid and recession era. Before you become a burden to someone else.

Mehn...I seriously dislike squatters unless we are blood related.


But........what makes life fun, is the ability to do what we want, when we want & without giving a fuvk. So bros, do what makes you happy. Life is short

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Re: I Need To Leave My Confort Zone, Pls Ur Advice Will Help by Benny93: 8:33pm On Nov 07, 2020
Elsueno:
So what are you gonna do there?

What's ur plan!

I hope you don't think jobs are shared on merit in those places woh grin

Or is ur uncle tired of feeding you?.

Or you just wanna feel like a man, bring ur girl home for the weekend & play house? grin


My advice, get ur priorities right first, only travel to somewhere like Lagos when you have a clear goal in mind and COMFORTABLE accommodation. especially in this covid and recession era. Before you become a burden to someone else.

Mehn...I seriously dislike squatters unless we are blood related.


But........what makes life fun, is the ability to do what we want, when we want & without giving a fuvk. So bros, do what makes you happy. Life is short
thanks I appreciate for your candid advice
Re: I Need To Leave My Confort Zone, Pls Ur Advice Will Help by rhynoemmie(m): 8:44pm On Nov 07, 2020
Op, you said your uncle is/was taking care of you, so my question is how, d man dy give u money for upkeep abi u dy follow d man go work.. If the latter is the case, my advise is instead of leaving your comfort zone, expand it.

Follow d man dy go work, learn d work and with his blessings, trust me, d man go do u well on a family basis

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Re: I Need To Leave My Confort Zone, Pls Ur Advice Will Help by PatrickOkunima(m): 8:51pm On Nov 07, 2020
Benny93:

wat I wrote wasn't a formal writing, this is a social media where you can write in short words, slangs, jargon etc so Oga don't try to be too learned thereby making a mountain out of a mole hill
Usque eo.

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Re: I Need To Leave My Confort Zone, Pls Ur Advice Will Help by laivwire(m): 9:01pm On Nov 07, 2020
Wait until your host starts touching you in the night behind locked doors grin

on another note, some people migrate to Ph to earn better living. It's not always about starting from ground zero and doing grunt work. Have you tired putting your skills into practice and develop them in the process? A lot of folks are still finding it hard in the west and east. Unemployment is above 55% and rising
Re: I Need To Leave My Confort Zone, Pls Ur Advice Will Help by Nopanties: 9:02pm On Nov 07, 2020
Benny93:

wat I wrote wasn't a formal writing, this is a social media where you can write in short words, slangs, jargon etc so Oga don't try to be too learned thereby making a mountain out of a mole hill
My friend, keep quiet!

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Re: I Need To Leave My Confort Zone, Pls Ur Advice Will Help by kemicalreact: 9:33pm On Nov 07, 2020
Elsueno:
So what are you gonna do there?

What's ur plan!

I hope you don't think jobs are shared on merit in those places woh grin

Or is ur uncle tired of feeding you?.

Or you just wanna feel like a man, bring ur girl home for the weekend & play house? grin


My advice, get ur priorities right first, only travel to somewhere like Lagos when you have a clear goal in mind and COMFORTABLE accommodation. especially in this covid and recession era. Before you become a burden to someone else.

Mehn...I seriously dislike squatters unless we are blood related.


But........what makes life fun, is the ability to do what we want, when we want & without giving a fuvk. So bros, do what makes you happy. Life is short
You a fan of Ghost Recon right? wink

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Re: I Need To Leave My Confort Zone, Pls Ur Advice Will Help by EmmySparky(m): 9:40pm On Nov 07, 2020
There is no comfort zone in Nigeria...That's all I got to say

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Re: I Need To Leave My Confort Zone, Pls Ur Advice Will Help by Olayinka777(m): 10:34pm On Nov 07, 2020
Duru9:
Are you a male or female?

I doubt someone will accept to accommodate you just like that without knowing who you are

That's why it's good to maintain friendship for time like this but most people ego won't allow them keep friends

You ought to have friend/friends in Lagos or anambra

I wish you Good luck tho

I stay in Abuja
Chairman, I frankly disagree with u on this. I don't think maintaining or not maintaining friendship has anything to do with ego.

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Re: I Need To Leave My Confort Zone, Pls Ur Advice Will Help by Olayinka777(m): 10:35pm On Nov 07, 2020
PatrickOkunima:
If the OP is really a graduate, then we're in trouble in this country.
Hmmm
Re: I Need To Leave My Confort Zone, Pls Ur Advice Will Help by ictplotter(m): 10:36pm On Nov 07, 2020
This life no balance.. people are looking for comfort zone after years staying under bridge in cms but other are thinking how to leave comfort zone. Bro if you don't have any business in Lagos or Anambra, pls stay in ph and hustle. Just be street wise n stay awy from crime.

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Re: I Need To Leave My Confort Zone, Pls Ur Advice Will Help by Benny93: 10:41pm On Nov 07, 2020
Olayinka777:
Chairman, I frankly disagree with u on this. I don't think maintaining or not maintaining friendship has anything to do with ego.
exactly

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Re: I Need To Leave My Confort Zone, Pls Ur Advice Will Help by Benny93: 10:42pm On Nov 07, 2020
ictplotter:
This life no balance.. people are looking for comfort zone after years staying under bridge in cms but other are thinking how to leave comfort zone. Bro if you don't have any business in Lagos or Anambra, pls stay in ph and hustle. Just be street wise n stay awy from crime.
thanx bro
Re: I Need To Leave My Confort Zone, Pls Ur Advice Will Help by Elsueno: 11:58pm On Nov 07, 2020
kemicalreact:
You a fan of Ghost Recon right? wink

Are you a member of Santa Blanca or one of the four gringos spoiling my Cocaína business cheesy
Re: I Need To Leave My Confort Zone, Pls Ur Advice Will Help by Dayoebe(m): 12:41am On Nov 08, 2020
Am looking for Comfort zone.
You are leaving your comfort zone.
don't tell me life is balance

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Re: I Need To Leave My Confort Zone, Pls Ur Advice Will Help by kemicalreact: 6:03am On Nov 08, 2020
Elsueno:


Are you a member of Santa Blanca or one of the four gringos spoiling my Cocaína business cheesy
Don't worry, I'm almost done with you. tongue
Re: I Need To Leave My Confort Zone, Pls Ur Advice Will Help by FATnigga(m): 8:02am On Nov 08, 2020
Better than messi if you ask me
Re: I Need To Leave My Confort Zone, Pls Ur Advice Will Help by Offpoint1: 8:23am On Nov 08, 2020
@ Benny93

My advice is: leave, go out there, explore, experience life. Be it a month or a year and if it doesn't work out... You return back home and re-strategize.

Don't listen to those people asking you to remain in your "Comfort" and not take risks.
The greatest comfort of all is comfort of the mind. Your body is comfortable there, but your mind isn't. You always have that feelings of something "is missing, feelings of wanting to be more than where you are."

Follow your instincts, take a step and if it didn't work out... Fall back, re-strategize, then strike again.

And please ignore those professors, language was made for the purpose of communocation. What you've written up there, even an idiot get the message... That's what matters.

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Re: I Need To Leave My Confort Zone, Pls Ur Advice Will Help by Cutehector(m): 8:32am On Nov 08, 2020
If you want to leave your comfort zone, sell your phone, go out there and do menial jobs and put food on your table.

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Re: I Need To Leave My Confort Zone, Pls Ur Advice Will Help by Samakus(m): 8:46am On Nov 08, 2020
Benny93:

wat I wrote wasn't a formal writing, this is a social media where you can write in short words, slangs, jargon etc so Oga don't try to be too learned thereby making a mountain out of a mole hill

All I see are excuses.

Develop a personality of taking corrections and effecting them. It's a good way to start your life journey

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Re: I Need To Leave My Confort Zone, Pls Ur Advice Will Help by undercurrent(m): 10:08am On Nov 08, 2020
Benny93
Have you factored in expenses like feeding urself, paying a token to be accomodated for that 1 month?

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