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If the guy is a good person, then she should avoid meeting in places where the guy will be comfortable loosing his guard. If you keep meeting inside his house or room alone, then what do you expect.

My friend recently started a relationship with this God loving guy but he kind of disrespect those

Laugh wan kill me. You really love this your friend o. Anyway it doesn't really matter if it is your friend or you.

But please and please remove that thinking that God fearing = a guy that doesn't have sex with you. I have dated a guy.... What am I even saying dated 2 guys that refuse to touch me till the day of our introduction. But as people always say, Konji na bastard and I'm always thanking my star for it.

To cut the long story short, the first cannot fuc.k and he's not ready to listen to correction. The second one.... Any time he touches me I feel like vomiting. And both of them don't joke with church.

If you go into marriage not knowing whether you are sexually compatible with someone, you will cheat or be miserable for the rest of your life.

luvmijeje:
Laugh wan kill me. You really love this your friend o. Anyway it doesn't really matter if it is your friend or you.

But please and please remove that thinking that God fearing = a guy that doesn't have sex with you. I have dated a guy.... What am I even saying dated 2 guys that refuse to touch me till the day of our introduction. But as people always say, Konji na bastard and I'm always thanking my star for it.

To cut the long story short, the first cannot fuc.k and he's not ready to listen to correction. The second one.... Any time he touches me I feel like vomiting. And both of them don't joke with church.

If you go into marriage not knowing whether you are sexually compatible with someone, you will cheat or be miserable for the rest of your life.

Cheat? never, I'll rather leave the marriage, thats never an option. How do you know the sexual strength of someone since you are not having sex with him, do you ask him or what

Zzor:
As a Christian,we were told to flee sexual immoralities 1Corinthians 6:18 and if you happen to be in a relationship,then you have to set boundaries and this becomes very difficult if your partner keeps crossing them.My friend recently started a relationship with this God loving guy but he kind of disrespect those boundaries(kiss,hug,romance and all that)at any slight opportunity and she's seriously considering if this is a guy to continue dating,hes having problems putting her purity and her relationship with Jesus ahead of his desires,he doesn't seems like a guy that's going to love her selflessly with this kind of behavior he's putting up.After several discussion concerning this with him,he apologizes and blame it on temptations and his inability to resist her,he stops for a while and unconsciously continue with this act after sometimes.Now my friend is considering breaking up with him but don't know if this is enough reason to do so.You all know it's hard meeting men who will agree to her rules these days,not even the ones you thought were deeply into Christ.

Why date if she is not ready for marriage yet?

Yes, sexua purity is required of believers in Christ. But having a boy friend makes that practically difficult.

Let's call a spade a spade: The main reason a guy wants a girl-friend is because of sex. The guy will keep pushing boundaries until he eats the pudding.

Final advice: If you want to maintain sexuality purity, don't court temptation by having boy/friend.

Zzor:
Cheat? never, I'll rather leave the marriage, thats never an option. How do you know the sexual strength of someone since you are not having sex with him, do you ask him or what

There is something calling fore.play. The kissing, the touching, the licking. That is why I advise young ladies to watch porn once in a blue. Most Nigerian men are selfish. They believe peni.s penetration is the beginning and end of sex. If they have release, they believe they have done God's work.

To answer your question, if you are sexually not responding to the guy....... Then something is off.

luvmijeje:
There is something calling fore.play. The kissing, the touching, the licking. That is why I advise young ladies to watch porn once in a blue. Most Nigerian men are selfish. They believe peni.s penetration is the beginning and end of sex. If they have release, they believe they have done God's work.

To answer your question, if you are sexually not responding to the guy....... Then something is off.

hmm

luvmijeje:
There is something calling fore.play. The kissing, the touching, the licking. That is why I advise young ladies to watch porn once in a blue. Most Nigerian men are selfish. They believe peni.s penetration is the beginning and end of sex. If they have release, they believe they have done God's work.

To answer your question, if you are sexually not responding to the guy....... Then something is off.

watching porn is practical but wouldn't it be injurious to the health of your relationship in the long run

Liposure:
watching porn is practical but wouldn't it be injurious to the health of your relationship in the long run

It's not injurious. It will make it more fun with a partner who's flexible. Variety is a spice of life. Porn is educational in a country like Nigeria that don't speak about sex openly.

Most people go into marriage ignorantly. Sex is a critical part of marriage and we don't preach about it. That's more injurious.

Zzor:
hmm

merry xmas and a properous new year in advance

Liposure:
merry xmas and a properous new year in advance

Thanks ,I wish you same