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Take the situation to GOD ,for there's nothing he cant do if only u will believe

Hummmm

So Sorry for what your husband ( not Esther) is making you go through.

I sincerely do not encourage couples to live apart. It makes room for cheating, growing apart and all what not. You cannot be married and still be running your daily affairs like a single person.
If for some plausible reasons you find yourselves apart, quick arrangements should be made to reunite the family ASAP.

I think you should start by canceling that living arrangement that makes your husband a visitor to his own home. You’re practically raising your children alone and he spending more time with his side chick than his family.

I do not believe money is the problem because he’s definitely funding Esther ( chicks don’t date married men for free). So, let him use that money for Esther to move your family to his base and all of you should manage together. Even if the apartment is small.

Give it time, you’ll get stronger and heal better. Whether you’re going to leave or not depends on you, no one can tell you how to manage this better than yourself. For some of us, it’s a deal breaker but for some others, there’s always room for a second chance. Choose what gives you peace.

You’ll be fine in the end. Hugs from me to you❤️

DBestDoc:
So Sorry for what your husband ( not Esther) is making you go through.

I sincerely do not encourage couples to live apart. It makes room for cheating, growing apart and all what not. You cannot be married and still be running your daily affairs like a single person.
If for some plausible reasons you find yourselves apart, quick arrangements should be made to reunite the family ASAP.

I think you should start by canceling that living arrangement that makes your husband a visitor to his own home. You’re practically raising your children alone and he spending more time with his side chick than his family.

I do not believe money is the problem because he’s definitely funding Esther ( chicks don’t date married men for free). So, let him use that money for Esther to move your family to his base and all of you should manage together. Even if the apartment is small.

Give it time, you’ll get stronger and heal better. Whether you’re going to leave or not depends on you, no one can tell you how to manage this better than yourself. For some of us, it’s a deal breaker but for some others, there’s always room for a second chance. Choose what gives you peace.

You’ll be fine in the end. Hugs from me to you❤️

Thank u so much