Most women have been with a man that dishonours them, that abuses them and yet you gave them your all, then you finally meet that one guy that sees your value, he doesn't have to be perfect, none of us are, but if at least he is trying his best to be a good husband, most of the time, you in a way make him pay for all of the men that mis treated you in the past. If you take time to pay attention to the way you handle your "good husband" you may at times notice that you are giving him less than you gave the guy that abused you.

Most men will agree, these are the things that are important to a man, especially if he is a man that is doing his part:

1) Never take things for granted.

Maintain the same sex appeal that you had before you got married. Never become too comfortable that you never give your man the kind of sex appeal that attracted him in the beginning. On your wedding day the woman looks like an angel, and with many women, the wedding day is the last time you will see her looking like that. That ought not be the case with a good wife.

2) Never fight for dominion.

When the wife constantly fights against the mans position, it it usually the source of friction in your marriage. When a man has to constantly battle his wife for the pant, it throws the divine order of the family off, and it also confuses the chemistry.

3) Not celebrating your man

Men are ego driven and the things that build their ego is knowing that you celebrate them. Most wives never take the time to celebrate their husbands greatness. They instead get caught up in the common routine of criticism. Many men find themselves in the arms of other women who celebrate them. Your man needs approval. When your man does stuff for you, most of the time its to get your approval.

4) Not keeping the home neat and tidy.
A woman is a mother, a nurturer, one that protects, cares and organises, there's no way you would have your family living in a filthy house.
One of your husbands complaints must never be that you keep the house filthy. It is not entirely the woman's responsibility to clean up.

The well being of the family is the reflection of the quality of the man. If a family is starving and there's an able bodied man in the house, the world will see that the man is struggling to take care of his family financially. When the house is filthy, they will know that the woman is lacking because the condition of the home is a reflection of the woman.

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@that number 4. who says or where is it written that it is the duty of only the woman to keep the house tidy? i think its the duty of both the man, woman and even the children ( when theyve come off age) to keep the house and sorroudings clean. its a collective effort. ok? we are not your hired cleaners.

Noted till I become a wife

CalliDora1:
@that number 4. who says or where is it written that it is the duty of only the woman to keep the house tidy? i think its the duty of both the man, woman and even the children ( when theyve come off age) to keep the house and sorroudings clean. its a collective effort. ok? we are not your hired cleaners.

she has vex




Its everybody's duty

zyzxx:
she has vex




Its everybody's duty

now you're talking.

what about how to be a good wife to a bad husband?

dollytino4real:
what about how to be a good wife to a bad husband?

Bad husband ? forget good wife lol

Impossible for Nigerian Girls because Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

How about how to be a good husband to a good wife?? Huh!!

Localz:


Bad husband ? forget good wife lol

wat do u mean, so no good or wat do u mean?

dollytino4real:
wat do u mean, so no good or wat do u mean?

There are many ways to be a bad husband, what I mean is if you know you are not a good husband, you cannot expect her to be good to you. She gives you what you deserve.

You have to be a king if you want to expect a woman to honour and submit to you. A woman cannot submit and honour a man who is weaker than her. I really don't mean to be offensive but I hope you get my point.

Localz:


There are many ways to be a bad husband, what I mean is if you know you are not a good husband, you cannot expect her to be good to you. She gives you what you deserve.

You have to be a king if you want to expect a woman to honour and submit to you. A woman cannot submit and honour a man who is weaker than her. I really don't mean to be offensive but I hope you get my point.

ok i hear u

CalliDora1:
@that number 4. who says or where is it written that it is the duty of only the woman to keep the house tidy? i think its the duty of both the man, woman and even the children ( when theyve come off age) to keep the house and sorroudings clean. its a collective effort. ok? we are not your hired cleaners.

If you're talking of no 4,it is also a collect effort to contribute financially to the home, or you didn't see that one too or we just like as humans we are seek for selfish things

Localz:


There are many ways to be a bad husband, what I mean is if you know you are not a good husband, you cannot expect her to be good to you. She gives you what you deserve.

You have to be a king if you want to expect a woman to honour and submit to you. A woman cannot submit and honour a man who is weaker than her. I really don't mean to be offensive but I hope you get my point.

Serious question: please explain what you mean by this? Please do not use a religious argument.

CalliDora1:
@that number 4. who says or where is it written that it is the duty of only the woman to keep the house tidy? i think its the duty of both the man, woman and even the children ( when theyve come off age) to keep the house and sorroudings clean. its a collective effort. ok? we are not your hired cleaners.

foolish talk. where in african culture is a father,the provider of the house meant to bendover sweep the house nor wash the closets....

my dear wake the fvck up this is africa dont say the one your kindred will disown you...or didnt your mother if not grandmother teach you this

: she has vex Its everybody's duty now you're talking.

this kin trend na girls go full am..........if u put mouth now u go cause problem for ya self........i move........

iRepNaija1:


Serious question: please explain what you mean by this? Please do not use a religious argument.

"A King" has leadership qualities. He is honourable. He does not demand honour with his mouth but acts in a way that the woman will honour, respect and be loyal to him. He understands that his role is to provide and protect his woman and has the abilily to do so.

Localz:


"A King" has leadership qualities. He is honourable. He does not demand honour with his mouth but acts in a way that the woman will honour, respect and be loyal to him. He understands that his role is to provide and protect his woman and has the abilily to do so.

Totally agree!

BabaTundei:


Totally agree!

mosdii:
Impossible for Nigerian Girls because Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

I think its time u erased this reasoning of urs.... maybe if u do, u may actually find a good useful nigerian girl.....Just maybe