Yes let them continue. He has damaged her beyond being attracted to another man. Let him carry his cross.
She knows what triggers the devil in him, let her avoid it

biacan:
Hustle hard then she will take you serious

I'm now skeptical about ladies from a pitiable background.

StrongandMighty:
Ask her weda her ass is still leaking... She'll leave u 4 gud

U mean am?

Mariinee:
Stories that touch.

I thought I've gotten what I wanted. She played wife perfectly

6 months after my previous relationship parked up, I added her on Facebook. We got chatting and I assisted her twice without even asking to see her.
Based on her several requests, I allowed her come to visit and we happen to have a lot to talk about. Fast forward, she could stay one week stretch with me, (wtht nacking fa, i swear) do all cooking and cleaning and never asks for money. I gave her at will.

She caught my heart. And I became attracted to her,(she dresses sexy) I made some advances at her, she only accepts lips kissing and handling nothing more.
She said she can only 'do' in a relationship heading somewhere.
She told me about her strict upbringing and all, I told her about my past rltnshps (nothing horrible), but she only told me about two relationships she's had and said she lost her virginity to one.
I was not ready to loose her and was thinking of taking her to Mama after two months of our being together.
I got the impression of a good girl and wife material.

Somehow she logged in her Facebook on my laptop and left it.
I was inquisitive and went through her inbox. I ran into 8 guys/married men she has slept with in different towns strictly for money within this year, some didn't pay her as agreed and they quarreled. I also noticed she's visited two of my FB friends but no evidence of the activity.

Last week, she went to visit a guy, after the 3rd meeting he was asking her if her ass still dey leak?

As I type now, she's in a guys house and they are meeting for the first time.

She doesn't know I know all this yet. Like I said I've never entered her, its not really my thing.

LESSONS LEARNT
1. Guys beware of ladies that throw themselves at you, they are probably hiding something.
2. She pretends to be decent around me and not demanding, yet she receives money and banana else where: hmmmm

My question: How should I react and get her out of my life?

BlackDBagba:
What exactly was your proposal?

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I want something more focused and directed. A relationship that could end in marriage

Smallville10:
I don taya for una. Is like u are d soft guy abi.... Anyhow sha, give her time to think... If she say no, then move on with ur life. Women too plenty

She's a material Bro. She's one in like 50 girls to me.
Intelligent, hardworking, skillful, pretty, respectful, good cook.. Etc

She's been my Facebook friend for two years, a new job moved me to her city then we first met physically. I like so many things about her but was already in a relationship which later didn't work (she k we about it).
So more recently(4 months), I've been taking her out on a date, visiting her and all more frequently. I other she likes me being around.
So on whatsapp 2 months ago I told her I needed something serious with her (as a church girl), she asked me to go back and make my former relationship work, she also said she was engaged but forgot to tell me.
I didn't believe her sha. I said No P. It won't stop our friendship (I had plans to hit again). I didn't stop taking her out and I never talked about the whatsapp discussion. I always give her good company, we talk and I leave.
Fast forward yesterday, I had another good time with her (no S=x and romance o..).
I knew she was not expecting anything, just when I should be talking about going.
I said she told me she was engaged and I don't believe, she reluctantly confirmed it.(I disarmed her). Then immediately i asked her for a relationship leading towards marriage.
Her response was
1. Why didn't you talk about it after the last time? (I'm like ehn is it an offense again?) you just kept quiet.
2. She's like how am I sure it would work? I answered
3. She asks for time to think about it.

Ladies and Guys do you think I scored it? Or would there be a better approach?