It's only a fo*lish man that decides to marry a single mother.
❌ A single mother will never love you as much as they love their kid
❌ A single mother based on Okafor's law will likely go back to the child's father.
❌ A single mother enters a new relationship for economic reasons and love is not one of them
What I mean is that
🚩 You’ll Never Be Her #1 Priority Her child comes first, always. That means you’ll always be in second place, no matter how much you invest.
🚩 You’re Taking on Another Man’s Responsibility Raising another man’s child is a heavy commitment. You’re investing your time, resources, and energy into someone else’s legacy.
🚩 The Father is Still in the Picture Whether through custody arrangements, child support, or emotional ties, the child’s father will always be a factor in your life.
🚩 Her Past is Part of the Package Single motherhood often comes with emotional baggage, trust issues, or drama from her previous relationship.
🚩 You’ll Spend More, Gain Less Dating or marrying a single mother isn’t just emotional work—it’s financial. You’ll be expected to step up, even if love wasn’t the main reason she entered the relationship.
🚩 Less Time, Less Freedom Her schedule revolves around her child, not you. Spontaneous trips, late nights, or alone time will be rare.
🚩 You Lose Leverage Because she already has a child, she may be less compromising. She knows you accepted her situation, which often shifts the power dynamic.
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I will never advise my son to play for this country— Ex-Super Eagles Defender, Taribo West says as he Laments Neglect of Late Peter Rufai, Slams NFF and Lagos State at Funeral
Former Super Eagles defender, Taribo West, could not hold back his emotions on Friday as he spoke to journalists at the funeral of ex-Nigeria goalkeeper, Peter Rufai.
The ex-Inter Milan star, visibly shaken, expressed deep grief over the treatment meted out to Rufai after retirement, describing it as a sh@meful reflection of how Nigeria handles its football heroes.
“I share the p@ins and burdens with the Rufai family,” West said. “It is dishe@rtening that Lagos State and the Nigerian Football Federation dropped the buck on them.
This is not how a nation should treat those who gave everything on the field.”
Struggling to keep his emotions in check, West recounted how the news of Rufai’s de@th hit him harder than the loss of his own parents.
“When my mother passed, I didn’t shed tears. When my father d+ed in my hands, I didn’t cry.
But when Rufai d+ed, I had goosebumps and tears rolled down my cheeks. What kind of nation treats its heroes like this?”
The former defender accused football authorities of neglect, pointing to similar cases of late Nigerian stars Stephen Keshi, Rashidi Yekini, and Thompson Oliha, all of whom, he said, were abandoned in their final years.
“Imagine a family crying and begging among themselves just to raise money to bury a national hero.
That is m@dness,” West fumed. “With this kind of example, I would never advise my son to play for this country. Do we even have a football federation in this Nigeria?”
Taribo West ended his remarks by urging authorities to wake up to their responsibilities in honoring and supporting retired players who s@crificed for the country.
by Julie Sports Radio Brila FM
Make Dem stop this entitlement mentality.
You play, you earn money, jta ur duty to manage and invest the money you earn while playing.
madridguy: His message is not only a lie, but as dangerous as anything. He want to deceive Nigerians same way he deceived the people of Anambra State years ago.
madridguy: How I wish Obi did 1% of what he is busy saying while in office. The same man that the hospital in his state went for over 2 years strike want to talk about good governance.
No politicians can be trusted, fact.
But always address the message, not the messenger.
Was the message right or wrong, that's what we should be asking ourselves
PastorKosi: There's a satanic advice from some ladies flying around the internet where they advise single ladies to become pregnant and have a child outside wedlock if husband is not forth coming. That is satanic and from the pit of hell. Please don't get that desperate. Trust God and also Trust His timing. You will get Married and carry your baby legitimately.
Good advice.
But even if you succumb, get a man to impregnate you, the child still isn't yours