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Forget that thing. If you aren't gifted to be a genius or innovator, you can't become one, even if you're more comfortable than comfortable itself.

My bible tells me in 1 Peter 4:10 - As each has been given a gift, use it to serve one another, as good stewards of God's varied grace.

She's just a clout chaser/attention seeker like some of the ones on food, diary, and family sections of this forum that chase clout with anything. They know themselves.

It's in her best interest to take the advice as my bible tells me in Proverbs 27:2 - Let another praise you, and not your own mouth; a stranger, and not your own lips.

People close to this lady should remind her that my bible says in Proverbs 12:22 Lying lips are an abomination to the Lord, but those who deal faithfully are His delight.

I'm with Ned on this. Even my bible indirectly encourages me to marry as many wives as I can, provided that I don't marry two living sisters at a time. Leviticus 18:18 - Do not take your wife's sister as a rival wife and have sexual relations with her while your wife is living.

The figure of $9.6 billion for the Saudi King's salary (royal allowance as they prefer to refer to it in Saudi Arabia) is not an official or accurate figure; the Saudi royal family's wealth is estimated at $1.4 trillion, with the current King, Salman, having a personal net worth of approximately $18 billion.

Citing his personal net worth, there's no how he could've been receiving $9.6 billion as annual royal allowance.

That said, my bible tells me in Ecclesiastes 5:10: He who loves money will not be satisfied with money, nor he who loves wealth with his income; this also is vanity.

It's not a big deal. After all, my bible tells me in Mark 3:28: "I promise you that any of the sinful things you say or do can be forgiven, no matter how terrible those things are."

That said, don't go about sleeping with another man's wife. Such sin is solely reserved for an anointed sinner like me.

APCNig:
Person wey you don use her eyes comot all her clothes and undies. No be her bobby dey fir your mouth in your mind like this?

This is exactly while my bible says in Ephesians 6:12 - For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.

Wow, what a physically beautiful woman, mehn. Anyway, my bible tells me in Proverbs 6:25 - Do not lust in your heart after her beauty or let her captivate you with her eyes.

My bible says it in Psalm 92:14 Even in old age they will still produce fruit; they will remain vital and green. They will be like trees that stay healthy and fruitful, even when they are old.

Congratulations to him.

MONEY247:
Go and read your Bible again

My bible has already said it in Titus 1:16 They claim to know God, but by their actions they deny him. They are detestable, disobedient and unfit for doing anything good.

My bible says in Exodus 20:16 You shall not give false testimony against your neighbor.

muyico:
Madam?? You re too harsh, weytinz 7yrs old boy knw!

My bible has advice for you in Ephesians 5:1 Have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them.

Sterope:
The moniker I quoted has explained what she meant and she is right within the category of women she is addressing.

Your response points to what my bible tells me in Colossians-4-6: Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person.

Sterope:
With or without feminism, reality remains unchanged.


In the real world, many men earn less or not enough, some lack vision, or take things for granted, and waiting around for them to change isn't a practical step and you can't force them to change either. So she steps up because she wants more for herself and for her kids i.e better food, better education, a better life.

The other option is to live single, which can bring peace, but with its own struggles. So a lot of them keep going, doing double the work, because deep down, she hopes that get effort will guarantee that her children will have something better.

It's easy to say a man should fully provide, cover most of the expenses, or even help with the chores but the reality is, he's an adult, and sometimes life or his own choices get in the way.

You're blessed. My bible has you in mind when it tells me in Proverbs 14:1 Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands.

Fountainofyouth:
Mothers focus more on training their daughters in preparation for adulthood and marriage but excuse nonsense behaviour from their sons, that's why we have so many deranged, pedophilic, sexual defiant men roaming the earth today creating havoc and messed up society at their wake, look at Nigeria, messed up by both young and old men,

God help the next generation.

My bible in Ephesians 4:31 has advice for you: Get rid of all bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words, and slander, as well as all types of evil behavior.

pocohantas:
Lol @ how can you be a femimist and want a provider. That is how they convince one innocent lady to do 50:50. Then she cooks, cleans, births the kids, do the emotional labour, takes the career dip and contributes a good percentage of her income __until the scales falls off her eyes and she becomes resentful.

I am slowly beginning to not pity women who fall into that trap.

My bible didn't mince words when it says in Proverbs 27:15 A continual dropping in a very rainy day and a contentious woman are alike.

Mariangeles:
I'm curious to know your original moniker.

Oh dear, my bible says in Proverbs 25:2-3 It is the glory of God to conceal things, but the glory of kings is to search things out. As the heavens for height, and the earth for depth, so the heart of kings is unsearchable.

Mariangeles:
I don't remember staying too long at anyone's house, to the point of becoming too familiar, and I don't remember overstepping boundaries beyond where I'm comfortable with, or should I say "felt too at home" at somebody's house.
Oh! And I could never sleepover at someone else's house.
I was more of an outdoor, carefree, playful kid.

Although, your friends' mummies could send you on errands sha.

Mariah, Mariah. You've improved a lot. Anyway, my bible has already said it in James 1:12 Blessed is the one who perseveres under trial because, having stood the test, that person will receive the crown of life that the Lord has promised.

AbosedeFalade:
Must you Nigerians justify every bad thing? Her reply to the man is uncalled for.

Interesting. Thank you for doing what my bible tells me in
Jeremiah 22:3 This is what the LORD says: Be fair-minded and just. Do what is right! Help those who have been robbed; rescue them from their oppressors.

Ishilove:
Same bible says you should remove the log in your eyes before removing the most someone else's eyes. Your own log na timber factory but you are too hypocritical to notice it.

Oga abeg swerve

Ishilove, so you don't have respect for the anointed. Well, my bible has already said it in Leviticus 5:17 If anyone sins and does what is forbidden in any of the LORD's commands, even though they do not know it, they are guilty and will be held responsible.

By the way, who told you that I'm righteous? LOL. I'm just an anointed sinner with a vast knowledge of the bible.

pocohantas:
Quality offer na wicked person normally.
I am not swayed by his bible passages. Someone that only comes out with that moniker for trouble.

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Well, my bible tells me in Proverbs 19:5 A false witness will not go unpunished, and whoever pours out lies will not go free.

That said, your sins, both the old and the future ones, have been forgiven, my daughter. LOL.

Ishilove:
I have a friend who still insists till tomorrow that once a person starts quoting scriptural passages to him, he will keep them at arm's length. It is because of people like this Qualityoffer dude that my friend has that mindset. They use bible passages to mask the hypocrisy and wickedness in their hearts, thereby making the rest of us look bad. See as he is using the word of God to pass on lies and his own willful ignorance.

Let me remind you that my bible says in Proverbs 8:13 The fear of the Lord is to hate evil: pride, and arrogancy, and the evil way, and the froward mouth, do I hate.

SamuraiXXX:
Mr man you're taking this thing too seriously, leave the poor lady alone joor!

My bible has a message for you in Psalm 141:4 Do not let my heart be drawn to what is evil so that I take part in wicked deeds along with those who are evildoers; do not let me eat their delicacies.

pocohantas:
Thank you.
Please do not accuse me falsely. I don't even cruise again because I have noticed well-meaning NLders know it is sarcasm, but your kind spin it to start an agenda. Finally I take strong exception to false accusations as letting it slide in the past was how we all got here. Take care!

My bible has already said it in John 8:44 You are of your father the devil, and the desires of your father you want to do.

pocohantas:
No be only mercy.
You think this is 2019 where una go accuse me of anything and I let it go. Nonsense!

My bible has already told me in Proverbs 17:4 That an evildoer listens to wicked lips; A liar pays attention to a destructive tongue.

pocohantas:
Then shut up and sit it out.

I take this not as an insult but a confession and renounce from you. So, I will have mercy on you. Like my bible tells me in Proverbs 28:13 Whoever conceals their sins does not prosper, but the one who confesses and renounces them finds mercy.

God bless you, my daughter.

pocohantas:
I drag una where e go pain you and you think the young girls do not the difference between it and an advice? Or they don't see my actual opinion on teenage marriage? You want to act like you care about them?

I stopped dragging because I realised it is easier for me to focus on my fellow women than roll in the mud with you.

But let's say you are correct and I was seriously advising young girls to marry rich ancestors. Isn't that what you LOGICALLY advise yourselves to do? To make money and marry them, not old women like me. Were you guys not the ones that turned Ned into an idol. Ned this, Ned that. All this while constantly trolling me _an evening newspaper. And now you want to flip it on me? Are you okayyy?

I encourage young ladies to work and marry men of good standard (even a bit higher as it balances out things). But you people said I want them to end up old, single and bitter like me. I have never advised any young lady to marry a man 3x her age, let alone as a 4th wife. The only set of women I said I can understand when they attempt polygamy are old financially stable women who just want to have their kids in a family system.


You should be the one to take your L and go jump off a cliff. Hopefully we can rest from the glorification of Ned upandan Nairaland..

Once again, stop the needless shalaye and accept your L in peace. For one, I have no reason to idolize Ned. How he does his thing is his business, not mine. And of course, I can't be caught telling any man to make money for the purpose of enticing a woman to marry him.

My bible tells me in James 2:10 Whoever keeps the whole Law but fails in one point has become guilty of all of it.

pocohantas:
Yet I am a babymama to a struggling man according to you. You go dey alright my dear. It is you men that know when I advised young women to marry rich ancestors. I am hoping the young women know it too. Not verbatim indeed.

Forget all these your shalaye and accept your L in good faith. I wonder what you gain from being a pathological liar and clout chaser. The worse is that you always lie with things that aren't worth lying for.

I just want you to become a trustworthy woman. My bible tells me in Proverbs 12:22 The Lord detests lying lips, but he delights in people who are trustworthy.

pocohantas:
Regina some of us warned you.
They said we are jealous old cargos.
I knew that marriage has k-leg, but I never expected DV. I believe your mum was aware, but asked you to endure because of the money she is getting.

It is so sad a beautiful young girl subjected herself to this. Look at how he even married you inside shrine. Ladies married to average men got a better wedding. But you were married opposite agbara.

Your mother failed you.

Please endure and work it out with him.

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Anywhere bele face global award of the decade should go to you. So, what happened to one of your past Nairaland anthems "ancestors with money are the best type of men young women should marry (not verbatim)?" The only constant with you is your inordinate wish to appear right or perfect in every situation. You can't afford not to give people who have known you for too long in a place like this reasons not to pick on you every moment.

Anyway, my bible has already said it in Matthew 23:13 But woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites, because you shut the kingdom of heaven in front of people; for you do not enter it yourselves, nor do you allow those who are entering to go in.

pocohantas:
Oh well, it is not me with ⅔ of my comments deleted. Tells a lot about who should read Proverbs. 😂😂😂

Ha! You and I know that the reason why they are deleted is for your own best interest. Stop the pretense.

Anyway, my bible partly tells me in Ezekiel 33:11-12 I take no pleasure in the death of the sinner, but rather that the sinner turn from her way and live.