₦airaland Forum

Apogee14:
Women if they will spoil they will spoil even under good parenting

Kobojunkie:
I would ask you for a stat to prove this claim, which you make here, suggesting that most divorced women go on to become sidechicks. Where is the backing for this claim? An unnamed analyst makes a claim, and we are supposed to believe it is fact? What this is saying is that a great number of Nigerian married men have divorced women for sidechicks, abi? Nonsense!

There is nothing Juju about it at all. If you reason it without biases coloring your view, you would see it yourself. Anyways, as for the reasons why some divorced women go on to become sidechicks, well, there are several:

➜ Society claims it is wrong to commit adultery, but then, rather than penalize the man and sidechick, lets them off, and in some cases, Society turns the blame on the wife for not being wifely enough or not having the prowess to protect her marriage from the other woman. All this is pressure placed on the wife, who now finds herself fighting depression, rejection, and also having to continue her wifely duties, all while the man and his sidechick continue to enjoy their lives as though nothing ever went wrong. Imagine a situation where even the man's family members receive gifts and entertain the sidechick behind the wife's back as though to say that they approve of the relationship, even as they continue to insist their son's wife continue to serve him judiciously in the home.
➜ Most Nigerian men treat their sidechicks so many times better than they treat their own wives. I mean, this ain't a hidden secret at all, as even very poor men are known to go out of their way to ensure their sidechicks are well fed before even their own children, talk less of their wives. The position of sidechick in Nigeria is so many times better than that of the wife, who, in many cases, is no more than a provider of free labor in the marriage.
➜ A sidechick has more opportunities for growth than a typical wife would have access to. A sidechick has greater control over her time and freedom than the average wife does, and for an ambitious woman, that is a benefit that is of great importance. Having the man while holding on to her independence is a valuable place to be in.
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Yes, there are lots of benefits to being a sidechick than a wife to a Nigerian man, that is why I believe a wife trading places with a sidechick is a sort of promotion, not a demotion, for a divorced woman.🥱🥱🥱

Natbrowny:
So because she chose to dress way she did exposing tats on boobs. The daighter 23years, an adult chose to see that kinda dress. No big deal.

Why d f*ck would she allow that 11year old gal dress like dat almost suffocating.

edgecution:
Which hell wan break again? They have seen the worst . Trump should keep shut. He will die one day. I give him 10 years max.

Putinofrussia:
You should be worried that Igbo ladies are running away from Igbo guys.They are now swarming all over Yoruba guys like bees.

Cj4charles:
They ought to start arresting all these ladies committing DNA/Paternity fraud because you can't tell me after investing on your wife putting in everything you have love, finances, time & resources then the child you thought she had for you is not yours........

Gabriel411:
I truly hope he’s able to receive the care, guidance, and support he needs to move forward in a healthier, more positive direction.

buygala:
True

Even tho she was the only Prophet, and only one in a long line of judges and prophets in post-Egypt Israel


And considering that there are more female prostitutes than female prophets in the Bible, I think the Bible has made its position on leadership gender pretty clear

SpecialAdviser:
Hahahaha. May her reign las long. Ordinarily Anglican church no suppose dey Igbo land for their role in Biafran genocide

tanigororo:
Did you have this conclusion when you are in your 20s too or after 30+
I don't mean to be rude, but I just want to know if you have ever been in any serious and sweet relationship before.

tanigororo:
Whoever lied to women that marriage is not an achievement is doing them wrong.

cassidy1996:
It's time for them to license G***
Rip

Seun please find attached documents

brain54:
You look so quiet and peaceful...

fuckingAyaya:
ESN are terrorists abi? That thing wey the wise one's see for 1967 na him some people they see in 2025 but it's already too late. They're using kwara to test the waters before they move to another W. State. Them warn una but because of one "Nigeria oil" una say una prefer to be under the mercy of the assailants now the chicken have come home to roost. Ur Amotekun wey them equipped where are they? 😁😁😁 Everybody go get sense las las.

amaridigital:
A grandfather looking for a wife for 46 years old divorced son in 2025 and some people are hailing him because he's from their tribe? Very disgusting. Imagine if it was one Mr Ade from Oshogbo or Mohammad Habeeb from Sokoto doing same they will complain oh. Why don't he get a cow for his son of 46 to marry? Yeye. Was he the one who helped him got the first wife? As the father is very lousy I expect the son to be lousy and bold also. What's stopping him from traveling to okija to look for a wife? Stupid stuff

donbenie:
The Corpse of another always seems like a bundle of wood to the bystander.
Hope you keep this same energy when the population control strikes close to home.
Cheers.🤧

Elsueno:
People should sometimes learn to forgive!

The Amotekun dude or the corps probably did something to him in the past. Now in a rush to take revenge, he don kill somebody.

If he doesn't get killed, he is gonna spend the rest of his life in jail for murder.

Sigh

PlasmaTV:
Tankers on highways are a major menace to other drivers.