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dauntless15:
You're wrong, your quality of life can't be tied to having people you interact with, I'd rather be alone than know a thousand people I don't benefit anything from, I am very popular to some extent, but something happened in my life that made me realize your popularity is useless, I lost my mum and the number of people that really sympathized were very few, infact it was a very small fraction of the people I know and out of that small fraction how many of them sent me common 2k, none, so what's the point of knowing so many people then, I buried my mum quietly then came back and leisurely opened my phone book, I started deleting numbers, cuz na numbers I get not contacts, I delete sotey my contacts no reach 30 again, and that 30 are my family and close friends, I've been on my own ever since, I do what I like, celebrate and reward myself when I want to, earn my money, look nice, just live for yourself, no one would die with you infact two weeks everyone has moved on, have few people you care about and value detachment, it's the Sweetest feeling in the world, being lonely is a state of mind, I can be by myself and still feel like I'm surrounded by a crowd, how? By making sure I do what I love all the days of my life, surround yourself with enjoyment and money and you don't need nobody, there's more to life than having useless friends who don't contribute jack sh!t to your life, what's having so many friends gonna do for you anyway? And why do you need many friends, so you can have people to talk to endlessly? Me wey talking dey even hard me, if you talk too much I cut you off, stop placing importance on the wrong things, enjoy the one life you have and bullsh!t every other things.

As a sigma male , this is my life .

I carefully select the people I want around me both women and men. No time for bullshit.

Rixema01:
do herbalist or juju exist ur opionion

Because they know that's what the average myopic Nigerian likes .

davenews:
haahhahaha how na

More like , she used her Tot* well. Tightening Cream and Kayamata

see wetin laycon wanted to kill himself on.


Women be like swimming pool .


Enter, Swim and leave quietly. No emotion attached.

StylesX:
Saw a story on fp about the girl beaten for tendering her resignation and it reminded me of my own first and last time working for a Nigerian employer, three words I use to describe it, modern day slavery.

I was fresh out of school and eager to please and even show my prowess, I didn't wanna sit at home like a cow munching on free food cuz my parents hate laziness alot, so I took myself to one company to find a job, met my boss, he was clearly understaffed and doing alot by himself, so he didn't have time to interview me, based on how he was choked up I decided to lend a hand, ran some registration online and did alot of tasks unsupervised, he was impressed so he hired me without an interview or a recruitment process, I was happy when I started until he started getting abusive weeks later.

First he calls me during ungodly hours, after closing he doesn't have the right to call me right? But he calls when he feels like, and yells why didn't you do this before going home, why didn't you do that, he was paying me 30k, this was 2016, and he makes me stay after closing hours by refusing to show up so we can conclude and I can go home, I close by six, baba won't show up until 7-8 so I work overtime, and when it's time for salary he will owe me, then he will deduct here and there for imagined transgressions, that time you were late 30mins, you made this mistake and I lost so so money, it was exhausting I tell you, but I didn't quit cuz like I said I was eager to please.

Here's the final straw that broke the camels back, remember he was understaffed, na later I hear why all his staff resigned and ran, he was an abusive pig, when I started I was supposed to be in charge of everything ICT based on I'm a computer sc graduate, he was supposed to get a receptionist and a cashier, he told me he'd hire them shortly that I'm the first of many. He also has students he's teaching IT skills, this man doesn't have a single IT skill, he has no business running an ICT school, but he's charging over 20 students obscene amount of money as school fees and he's not teaching them anything valuable, one time I was teaching web design and he came and yelled that why am I teaching them that, the money they're paying isn't enough for them to learn something that advanced, that am I stupid? In front of the students o,

He first started by begging me to substitute as a teacher, so I started teaching, while running the ICT tasks like networking and everything computer related, I no complain cuz I was happy impacting knowledge and the students adored me, later I start receive payments, becoming the cashier and started attending to customers becoming a receptionist, and he was paying me salary for one position instead of three, after a month I brought the issue up, that's when our problems started, sometimes he will call me after I've gone home that money I collected isn't complete and I stole from him, it's as if the man dey take fentanyl, I'll have to visit him and go through transaction records at night to absolve myself cuz I haven't stolen since I was born, his excuse for not hiring more people is, he hasn't found a suitable person, so I brought my sister to him to employ. Then he started creating a riff between me and my sis.

Sometimes I'll be working and he will sit her down and they'll be discussing me and laughing, my sis thought he's being jovial but no, he's bantering and gossiping his employee, and that is reducing his status but the pig no know, this is despite him owing me backlogs of salary, he refused to pay so I won't run away, I got fed up.

One day I dressed up and came to work, after deep reflection the night before, I pitied my life and felt devalued, so I came to work like nothing happened, then I sat at the lounge chatting and pressing my phone making sure he saw me, I was noisy as hell too, normally he'd yell and I'll scramble like a scared duckling running from a hawk, but as he realize I have had enough and I fit beat am up at that point, he didn't say anything, customers started coming and he was the only one attending to them all, I didn't lift a finger, he couldn't believe it, he was sweating all day, I did that till my closing time and came to his office, look him in the eye and said, I QUIT, brothers and sisters, that was the last time I ever worked for any Nigerian employer, I left the salary for him too, I buckled up and I have been earning online ever since, don't sell yourself to slavery just because you wan survive, the peanuts they pay isn't enough to loose your sanity for.

i for beat am , collect my salary .

That's the reddest pill you'd ever swallow.


Your wife cheats on you, instead of raging out and harming her like the simps would do , kindly and quietly cut her off legally and keep your distance.

Never commit emotionally to these women , this is the first principle like differentiation.

Don't risk jail time for a pxssy that can easily be replaced. Make Your money , flex and spin plates .

Men, pray to God everyday to kill the spirit of simping in you , so you won't end up killing yourself for one coconut, when you can have access to a plantation.

haybhi1:
OmoYoruba lemi o swagger.
Omoluabi blood is filled with success DNA. We're beautiful, ecstasy-centric and progressive people, yet we're humble. What a people. What an art.

You see Tems, Ayra, Tiwa, and so on and see the meaning of "gorgeous in a dark skin". Big, petite, old, and all shapes have a place for beauty in our clan.
Medicals and Programming, and more. , what are yours?

Lol, that we're on the same space together don't usually mean I'm as wretched and a scallywag like you. If you have any stretch of intelligence, you should know by the way I chat that I'm far from failure. I'm a huge story of 'rose growing from concrete' as is true of most omoluabis. As close as I am to successes through mastery in my fields, one of my aims is to spread the knowledge, impact, and legacy—cos I don't know how else to live a good life.

If all people you ever knew are a failure, not everyone you meet online is. Be intelligible!

Peace.✌️

Yes on Nairaland you're the president of the world .


Yes only on Nairaland.

ElevationD:
Did he even make sense to himself?

How did he sound to himself after the comment?
By the way, does his faith profess “sabbath day”. How can he claim Wednesday as sabbath day when he is not a Christian?

People like this man are the reason why there’s religious intolerance in this country. If they can insist on having Shariah courts in the SW to serve the interested Muslim faithful, what’s wrong with the Christians choosing theirs?

The same forefathers that he talked about never polarized this country. His likes and that MURIC man are among those who have used their religious beliefs to push this country to the precipice. They have used religion to tear the nation and citizens apart. We were never this divided until we accepted democratic governance once again in 1999.

Please let’s have some rest of mind.

This same man converted Unilorin (a federal secular university) to a Muslim university.

Trouble dey stand ...iyanga go push am

in essence, women loves simps !!.

Keep on sending tfare and money for dress ...when another niggi dey knack am for free.

Annie idibia's fate awaits you...

Coldie:
I have been in the UK for sometime now and the system has totally swallowed me, I feel very depressed and I want to leave permanently. I can only visit but not live there anymore. What’s the possibility.

How is Nigeria at present?

How much do I need to start back?

Don't worry you'd run back after 6months.

Can you just shut up ?... Devilish being

pillager:
Same news you reported noted that he was arrested? Why was he arrested, why are you blaming Islam for this.

Do you have no shame?

Bring evidence where in Islam honour killings is permitted.

May Allah humiliate you in this life and the next for this propaganda you're spreading if you don't repent.

How much worse crimes Isrealis have committed that you have reported.

How are you even allowed to post outright misinformation, honour killings are not permitted in Islam, bring evidence if you think it is permitted.

CC: Seun

Na body go tell you later ...lose your job first.

Contact me for analysis of results

osuofia2:
Robert Greene law of power coming to play. Law number one

Never Outshine the master .

Nothing is showing

Lol

The hunter became hunted

Swallow your redpill everyday and stay guided .


We told that man then, he said "my wife is different".

In essence,

Marry a simp , that will overlook your past.

Home of cultism and South Eastern illiterates

T+pain happeneth to them all.

The matrix is happening right before your very eyes . Yet , some will choose to remain gullible.


In this life , two things matters :

1. Money
2. Family


#RedpillNigga

Ilekokonit:
This is VERY deep.

Follow my thread and I promise, you'd harness your masculinity

Cos He knows that's when you'd be mature enough to handle the chaos of life with less bruises.

Can't you see , you're still sexy and toned like a 25years old ?.


But, I wouldn't f**k you tho.

embrace your dark side, especially when dealing with women .

Elzazzi:
Are you saying the whole of lagos mainland is Ogun state ?
I know ikorodu should be Ogun state

if I wanna be nice , I'd say anything after ojota exchange bridge is ogun state .

island is the real Lagos (Eko).

Main land is ogun state