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Girl guz wize up o,
they cheat u without showing those signs u mentioned there.
jus pray he's not the cheating type sha

pls dont be stingy it's new year

U r right dear.
But  the girls should place high price on sex so demand would cut

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the woman did not try at all

Increase joy and happiness

What is BJ ? dont laugh @ me o pls

jeez, am not even short

Mynd do  you say it's imposible for this to happen?

190, Am not the one involve, it's a situation somewhere. thanx anyway.

U know the one you were conviced would be the mother/father of you children but then realize was dating you second cousin what will you do?

yea, i observe too that tall men goes with short girls

^ who is mad? i hope it's not me
anyways answer my question

Some say love at first sight was posible . Although in some cases, the feelings grows and materialize but how would would you manage it when you realize that you just dated your second cousin?

CyberG:
@Poster. . .since you didn't sleep with him and he is now gone, why do you still despise him?

I despise his pretence, too much pretence at the begin, just to realize he is worse than what you can imagin. tank God i didnt, he has such a shrink heart.

SAFO:
What the fk do you think this is, the biblical days?

No man is going to wait 6 months for some punny. Your ish ain't made out of platinum, what are you holding on to it for? You're going to end up as a lonely, miserable old woman if you keep on.

He goat you same fool would bash girls are so loose to bed and wore, same fool would encourage sleeping around, hypocrite.

even animals do

werepeLeri:
Poster

Your story is one sided and its because u r looking for sympathy.

How long would you have kept sex away from him? Another 6 months? How long will he keep being Mr Nice to you? What does he get in return? Nothing but promises for him to wait for another ten years? Were you receiving things from him? and you want all that to continue while he waits for fifteen years to Be Intimate with you? Whats wrong with women? If you dont want to Be Intimate with him from the start why do you encourage him to go on? Isint it because of what you can get from him or what?

What in this world is the big deal about Being Intimate with a guy who u see regularly - u kept it away from him and you think he wont change?

Come on - most guys here will do the same, run off after seeing that all their effort is in vain - who wants to be with a woman for a year before sleeping with her? Is it made of gold? Are there no better elsewhere?

Come on -

PLs PLs, dont give it to me, am not looking for your sympahy. and did you noticed i said we talked over the issue before hand and he accepted. what hapen to keeping to your words. Being nice dint mean he was givng me any stuff, I never ask him and he dint even give anything you may be thinking he was paying my bills NO! i even overlooked so many things he was supposed to be doing, i dint depend on him for a day so dont get it twisted that he gave and deserve to be given in return. Being nice i mearnt was not in material terms i no once a girl start asking for money or other things from you the next thing is for her to pay you in kind. Am not suprise at what you are saying cos the only language most of you understand is SEX! there is time for everything in case you dont no. what if after slepping with him and it still hapen that we are not compatible? So i should be counting censes before i meet my man HuH

Goodbye is the sadest word to say, thou it can be said in so many ways.
If you still luv her and want to stay with her, shud u allow pride or friends advice to deprive you of what you cherish?

Did you lost your pet^ my sympathy

[quote author=tpia@ link=topic=753656.msg9095011#msg9095011 date=1315348715]If you didnt sleep with him then nothing spoil.

Imagine if you HAD slept with him and then he still changes his behaviour anyway.

That would have been the real problem.

People really cant be too careful these days. How are you sure he wasnt seeing someone else on the side anyway.

Is he a nigerien man?[/quote]yes, he is. as for seeing someone else, hey! how did you know? he started seeing his ex he told me he doesnt hav patience for her character and they ended voilently

seedord247:
Is he a nigerien man?

why are you asking if he's a Nigerian man?

Do you know how many recharge card that guy has bought for her?

Do you know how many time they've been to Mr Biggs, tantalizer, Silverbird?

what about . . BB Torch, Brazillian hair, Gas my car every 2 dayz . . . .


plz let the innocent guy rest. he has pay to enter the place and the girl is felling the implication.

;Dloz@ all those stuffs, i can assure you that i hav never ask of any of those things you mentioned, i can take care of myself for that cos i do work. but there was one thin i asked one time, is something that anyone can afford to do but he gave me reasons, i understood with him, i' have realized it was not a genuine one .

Shoir! maybe i will put a video so u see for self how i dint left him saying NO. what happens to knowing yourself well and knowing what you can do so u dont accept what you cant do. I dint promise i was going to do. ok both of us hav to reach compromise but it has to be somewhere that would be confortable for both of us.
Ok, nothing has spoilt am still myself, I dont need to sleep with everyone so i hav favor i think true luv never fails, it doesnt change, it endures all things and it not selfish like this is what i need else am no more. beside this person i hav come to realize doesnt forgiv easily, he keep records of wrong doings and my life doesnt like such mind . Besides, dating is'nt just a period to be sleeping with yourselves it should a period to get familiar wit one another  and find out if both  of you can tolerate each other and if yes then both of you can make commitments or otherwise you go your ways. sex it'snt suppose to be a right in a date except if both paries consent why not

seedord247:
ENTER THE PLACE . . . . U GO NO SAY AC NO BE FAN

THE GUY ENTER THE PLACE . . . HE SEE SAY OVEN NO BE SUN NA SO HE RUN COMOT

enter which place? i beg close your teeth

My only regret is letting someone go becos of this unfaithfull one. It's all my fault, yes my bad cos i give so much respect to relationship and i dint want to betray him. if not, when he travled my school mate came asking me for date even my ex came and i was so sturbon like i got heaven on earth, i never new he was not going to keep to his words.
Now i see the reason why some girls keep as many date as possible, can we blame them?

steeze:
There is no guarantee. But is there any guarantee in this life, really?

What I'm saying is, there is a chance that you might have left him sexually frustrated especially if he has been sexually active before he met you.

And it seems to be that you guys did not define the relationship. Was the relationship officially dissolved?

#issokeysha

Like i said earlier, i explicitly stated it before hand and he said ok with that, that he gona wait. I respects his opinion and did mine. I cant remember accepting what i cannot do.

MRbrownJAY:
@poster
the guy may have been in love with you but when YOU profess your love to him and yet, didnt show it "physically", he may have gotten upset. a simple talk would have fixed that rather than stop calling him.
also it's funny how you expect this r/ship to BE just like YOU want it to be, without compromise. kinda selfish.

expecting him to go 6months or more without any se.xual "play" is certainly the reason why he changed because if you'd care about his well being (you must have said how much you loved him, right?), you would have at least ease his discomfort!

I wasnt selfish, NO! i know somethings i dint want to do left for me but becos of him i did those things, i did talked to him, i didnt leave him with that coldness No. I think he is the one that became selfish by insisting that sex is wat he want

@steez, the world wouldnt hav end. yea! someone would deserve it, precious gifts are not to be trown to dogs cos by the time you look back he must hav toiled with it. BTW, i wanted us to be friends and keep it friends but along the joney he said we are much more than friends. so it the price i hav to pay for being more than a friend? what is the gaurantee that the rltnship would hav continue if we hav had it all?

MRbrownJAY:
@poster
oh well, then count yourself lucky and stop wasting any more energy on this guy.

Yes i feel so lucky . why i remember him now is the way he called me last eve and was like ' hey you dont want to come and see me right?' like i planed coming to see him and i did not. when we were in very good terms, i will call call him when i want to see him and do so, and for like two months now we'v not been  seeing, what cud he possibly mean by i dont want to see him? beside he dint tell me to see him anytime

steeze:
I really don't know why women attach so much importance to sex

If he told you that all he wanted to do was enter your jerusalem and take off, would you open the gate for him?

The answer is no.

Nigga had to adapt, improvise and overcome. Accept my condolences for what it's worth.

#ayafspokenojare

Hey! no condolence. Am cool and i dint open any gate and that's just my Joy. U dint get me, i said he began to reveal his real self after he must have  tried and waited, but i hav already made a decision before i met him. i dint compromise becos he was nice to me. wat bafles me is how the one who profess so much luv and joy that he met you become something else jus becos you dint giv him. Infact am happy i dint do it becos i couldnt imaging sleeping with someone who is so proundlike the way am seeing him now  , he is not even an easy going person like he was.

MRbrownJAY:
@poster
wouldnt you say that his technique worked?! people adapt to the situation/obstacles they face in life. i suggest you do the same from now on, before opening your legs!

I dint spray my legs   and that was the reason he became a diferent person after waing for like some months to see if it gona happen.

He dint get what he was looking for  that was after like six months then he began to reveal his real self . But he said sex was not going to be an issue cos i clearly stated it to him that i wasnt going into such rltshp with him and he was ok with that

I cant just get I cudnt beliv he was just acting Mr nice all these while to get a piece of woman flesh