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Kobojunkie:
At 17? He should be out there learning a trade or something- barbing, construction, mechanics , farming etc.

Consider looking around for places that are looking to hire and get that boy out of the house doing something productive, even if for a couple of hours a day.

. I tried to and got him a place but he would rather go elsewhere or sleep at home and not report for duty. I am not always at home and can't be monitoring him always..

mariahAngel:
Your children are the ones that I’m worried for.

Tell your husband to take action before something unfortunate happens that will disgrace the whole family.
In the meantime, prevent your children from possible abuse by talking to them.

. I have spoken and I am almost becoming a bad person cause it's only me doing the talking most of the time.. I have spoken to my kids and I still do.

blackboy:
Google brekete academy. Thank you

Thanks black boy

[quote author=Kobojunkie post=105580331]At 17, what does he do during his days? He just finished jss3 and they have this long holidays so he is resuming SS1 by September.

Please I need affordable catering school in Abuja where I can learn cake and pastry. Thank you.

Please fellow nairalanders help me put mouth for this issue.

I am a married woman with two biological kids(male and female) ages 8 and 10 respectively. I also have hubby's nephew who is 17 years old but he has been living with us since he was 12 years.

Before he came, he was already addicted to porn and all manner of vices including stealing and lying plus he was lazy. I wasn't aware of the porn aspect before he came to our home and I didn't know the stealing was that bad. I wasn't happy when he came initially but somehow there was nothing I could do.

My major challenge now is hubby isn't so strict with him partly because he is extremely busy and isn't always home and don't even have the time to be talking and cautioning always. He also feels it's his late mother's last wish to see him train the boy in his house and that he can't let him go.

I am overwhelmed with his constant stealing, phones, money,mifi etc from people. It started from my home, now e don dey go outside. When I figured hubby won't always talk, I began talking to his siblings. They all seem handicap or perhaps cause they don't stay with us and feel they can't do much.

My brother in-law came visiting on day and gave him the beating of his life, which is a constant but he won't stop. I have advised, spanked, and I am getting tired but hubby won't see it. He even said I am beginning to sound like a broken record.

How do I live with the boy and not allow it affect my sanity? *NOTE* most of these android phones he steals is to enable him watch porn. He can also hide for Africa. He would hide it in strange places one can never imagine. And find odd times to watch them. It would take close marking and searching for me to see it or if neighbors come to report him. Hubby feels the marking is too much.

I am beginning to think I should ignore but how will I without it affecting my kids?

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Please I urgently need the contact of lovely traditional dance troop from Enugu or Abia. It's really urgent! Thanks