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1. Make a list of things that are really important to you are. What is really important to you? Family ?, leisure ?, personal development, retirement?
2. Your goal off. Remember very well what you want to achieve, what is your goal? The more concrete the better. Consider then what you must do to achieve this.
3 See yourself in the future. E. Nightingale concluded after a study of what makes people successful: “We are what we think.” The image that dominates our brains most of the time is how we ended up. Therefore, setting goals crucial in achieving success. It helps us keep the most important in life in mind. Nightingale says that the easiest way to achieve our goals is to pretend we have achieved already. In other words, walk, talk and pretend you experience all the success you look so forward. This acts as a self forfilling prophecy: where they believe, comes from.
4. Write 10 things you want to accomplish this year. By making a list of things you care about, you start creating images in your mind. These are your goals. These allow you convert knowledge into targeted action. When your goals are planted in your subconscious they will make you take action. Your behavior is influenced by your subconscious mind and the thoughts and ideas that you have in your subconscious – positive or negative-determine your actions.
5. Create your own storyboard. Take blank paper and paste pictures from magazines, magazines and newspapers on things that you want if you want to reach. We humans once thought in pictures. In this way, always keep your goals in your mind.
6. Write for yourself how your ideal day look. Write it in the present tense, as if it is so. Try to involve senses it. What you hear, what you taste, what you feel?
7. Visualize every day. Every morning and every evening visualize what your goal is and how your ideal life looks like.
8. Make a plan. Make a plan to reach your goal and resize it to daily steps so you know what each day to be your actions. Before going to sleep, make a list of the six things you will do the next day. In order of importance.
9. Evaluate your actions. Evaluate every week and month of your progress. What went well, what can you improve. If you get stuck, ask for help. If something is not working, try something new. Do not be afraid to try new things. 10. Never give up. Everything takes time, focus on your actions and not too much on the result, if you do your everyday actions and learn from it, then the result
http://blog.spotter.com.ng/10-simple-steps-to-realizing-your-dreams/ Source:

Planning and preparing for an event can be overwhelming. Any missteps can have critical repercussions for your event, so it is important to develop a strategic checklist while you are in your planning phase, and then refine the details later.

Spotter has developed a list of the most important items to remember when planning for an event. These things will help ensure your event runs smoothly and will lessen the chance of your hitting any pitfalls along the way.

The purpose of your event
Why are you holding an event? Are you planning for a wedding ceremony, funeral party, graduation ceremony, birthday parties, a fundraising, a new product launch etc specific events require specific preparations in terms of time and resources. It is highly important to pinpoint the purpose of your event as it allows you to efficiently manage your resources and time.

Who are you inviting? (or know your target audience):
You should be able to mark out your target audience in light. Defining your target audience specifically for your event is one of the keys to a good turnout.

Getting the word out
Publicity for your events can be achieved by:

Calendar announcements, both print and online
News advisory, with follow ups with specific reporters, and
Posters distributed to businesses and displayed on community bulletin boards
Social media posts with event details scheduled over time to build interest.
Overall logistics
This may seem like the small things but it can escalate into large issues if not taken care of properly. Traffic flow and parking all contribute to the safety of your attendees.

Food :
Will you serve it? How much? What kind? Hot? Cold? Appetizers or full meal? The answer to this question is often determined by two things — the number of people you are inviting and your budget.

6. Engaging your attendees at your event/entertainment:

How do you keep your people engaged and entertained at your event? Depending on the type of your event you have many options. Here are a few:

You can employ the services of a band, comedians or a musician to keep your guests happy. Find some bands/musicians on Spotter

Arrange for a high-profile speaker : This could be a well-known personality, government or community leader, or “cheerleader” of your brand or organization.
Organize games for kids and adults to keep them happy.
Supplemental on-line events via social media: Twitter chat, Instagram stream, Facebook contest.

7. Giveaways

Providing your guests with some kind of giveaway is a nice way to thank them for showing up at your event.

8.Staffing for the event
Any event needs to be properly staffed so it’s important that you have your staff on board for the occasion. Ranging from the ushers, valets ,caterers, planners, decorators, photographers, videographers etc

source:http://blog.spotter.com.ng/things-to-consider-while-preparing-for-an-event/

What do you know about MULTIPLE PERSONALITY DISORDER MPD/Dissociative Identity Disorder? by Ijeoma Blessing

I know you might not just want to believe that there’s another”you” in you. Afterall, I can’t love the thought that another “me” does with my body, the things I wouldn’t naturally do by my own self.

What am i really talking about?

Previously known as Multiple Personality Disorder(MPD), DID (Dissociative Identity Disorder has been a controversial topic among psychiatrists today. DID is a severe form of dissociation involving lack of connection with your thoughts, memories, feelings, actions or your sense of identity. It is characterized by the presence of two or more distinct identities/personalities known as alters that continually have power over a person’s behavior. The alters have their own age, sex or race with different postures, gestures and distinct way of talking but they are actually all within the same person. When manifested, each alter reveals itself and controls individual behavior and thought.

Are you getting me?

Let’s go on…

Symptoms attached to DID include depression,mood swings, suicidal tendencies, insomnia, anxiety and phobias,alcohol and substance abuse, auditory and visual hallucinations, eating disorders, amnesia, trances, time loss etc.

Someone suffering from DID might just find themselves doing things they wouldn’t really do. It’s like being a passenger in your body while you ought to be the driver.

So, does DID just happens or is it caused by something?

Though causes are still vague, research indicates that alters are “born” in a response to a trauma, usually physical, sexual or emotional abuse, especially during childhood when the host’s mind cannot cope with a great deal of pain and the alter the comes to be to protect or feel the pain for the host.

When these alters act, the sufferer loses track of everything and experiences some kind of time loss and might be completely oblivious of what is being done by an alter at that moment.

Well, does it have a cure?

Though there’s no exact cure for DID, a long term treatment plan can the helpful if the patient is committed.

This could take an average of 5-7 years and it includes talk therapy/psychotherapy, hypnotherapy or hypnosis using Sodium Amytal and adjunctive therapy such as art or movement therapies.

Though cases of DID are more pronounced in the Western World with 0.1-1% tendency in the general population, cases of MPD/DID are almost none existent in our very beautiful Nigeria, but you just might not know…

So the next time, someone sneezes in your face in a bus and does not apologize, don’t get angry. It might just be one of their alters and not them acting. Funny?

Then, you’re a book lover, you might just like to read Sidney Sheldon’s “Tell Me Your Dreams”for a fictional (with facts) approach to DID.

And you know, I’m too dumb to write all of this, so, my very brilliant other personality, Bleyyson, did.

Anyways, I hope you have a very lovely day.


source:http://blog.spotter.com.ng/multiple-personality-disordermpd-the-other-you-we-just-didnt-know-of/

What do you know about MULTIPLE PERSONALITY DISORDER MPD/Dissociative Identity Disorder? by Ijeoma Blessing

I know you might not just want to believe that there’s another”you” in you. Afterall, I can’t love the thought that another “me” does with my body, the things I wouldn’t naturally do by my own self.

What am i really talking about?

Previously known as Multiple Personality Disorder(MPD), DID (Dissociative Identity Disorder has been a controversial topic among psychiatrists today. DID is a severe form of dissociation involving lack of connection with your thoughts, memories, feelings, actions or your sense of identity. It is characterized by the presence of two or more distinct identities/personalities known as alters that continually have power over a person’s behavior. The alters have their own age, sex or race with different postures, gestures and distinct way of talking but they are actually all within the same person. When manifested, each alter reveals itself and controls individual behavior and thought.

Are you getting me?

Let’s go on…

Symptoms attached to DID include depression,mood swings, suicidal tendencies, insomnia, anxiety and phobias,alcohol and substance abuse, auditory and visual hallucinations, eating disorders, amnesia, trances, time loss etc.

Someone suffering from DID might just find themselves doing things they wouldn’t really do. It’s like being a passenger in your body while you ought to be the driver.

So, does DID just happens or is it caused by something?

Though causes are still vague, research indicates that alters are “born” in a response to a trauma, usually physical, sexual or emotional abuse, especially during childhood when the host’s mind cannot cope with a great deal of pain and the alter the comes to be to protect or feel the pain for the host.

When these alters act, the sufferer loses track of everything and experiences some kind of time loss and might be completely oblivious of what is being done by an alter at that moment.

Well, does it have a cure?

Though there’s no exact cure for DID, a long term treatment plan can the helpful if the patient is committed.

This could take an average of 5-7 years and it includes talk therapy/psychotherapy, hypnotherapy or hypnosis using Sodium Amytal and adjunctive therapy such as art or movement therapies.

Though cases of DID are more pronounced in the Western World with 0.1-1% tendency in the general population, cases of MPD/DID are almost none existent in our very beautiful Nigeria, but you just might not know…

So the next time, someone sneezes in your face in a bus and does not apologize, don’t get angry. It might just be one of their alters and not them acting. Funny?

Then, you’re a book lover, you might just like to read Sidney Sheldon’s “Tell Me Your Dreams”for a fictional (with facts) approach to DID.

And you know, I’m too dumb to write all of this, so, my very brilliant other personality, Bleyyson, did.

Anyways, I hope you have a very lovely day.


source:http://blog.spotter.com.ng/multiple-personality-disordermpd-the-other-you-we-just-didnt-know-of/

hi guys; my asusx553ma charger is not charging my laptop
meanwhile its charging indicator on the charger is ON when plugged in
I have been using solar power to charge the system for a while
what can I do

good evening I just cleared a piece of land with the intention of planting water melon is this d right time of the year for planting water melon

sotall:
if this is the case, then its a motherboard issue. if you are in Lagos, I can help you resolve it.

aiit tnx

sotall:
try another charger and see if there is any difference.
if no difference, see an engineer.

aiit tnxx,but d battery drains itself even when powered off

hello,pls my laptop stops charging after i power off while it is still connected to power source,and anytime it does this I will have to replug it
what seems to be problem??

sotall:
I guess "static sounds" means making noise-like sounds or not sounding properly as it used to.
Hope you didn't do a repair lately that included loosing out the components parts of your system? I believe it is not your fan since the noise only comes on when you play music.

Many laptops usually have two speakers usually found beneath the tiny holes of your motherboard up-casing .So compare the sound coming from both speakers to see if one of them is burst.
Best option is to inspect the speakers for damage. if you can't do this yourself, see an engineer. if you are in Lagos, reach me on the mobile in my signature.

Thanks

Pls my laptop'speakeer makes a static sounds anytime I'm playing music
What wrong wit d speaker HW can I resolve dis
Tnx

Pls my laptop speaker ceases to work after i use earphones on it What seems to be d problem? wat can I do

Pls my laptop speaker ceases to work after i use earphones on it
What seems to be d problem?

I am a 200 lvl student of human physiology in a fed univ.I re applied for jamb again due to my dissatisfaction with job prospects as regards human physiology I chose mechanical engineering but I was offered anoda course materials and metallurgical engineering. Which also has little employment opportunities.. Should I go for it( since it's an engineering course) or I shd continue with my present course....
Pls reasonable advices only

I am a 200 lvl student of human physiology in a fed univ.I re applied for jamb again due to my dissatisfaction with job prospects as regards human physiology I chose mechanical engineering but I was offered anoda course materials and metallurgical engineering. Which also has little employment opportunities.. Should I go for it( since it's an engineering course) or I shd continue with my present course....
Pls reasonable advices only

Pls is it possible to run a two academic programs at once in unilorin!??

Pls wu has bin able to make acceptance fee payment yet??