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Totalrecovery:
You're too funny my brother!!!
Weldon sir 🤗🤗🤗

Penguin2:
Nsogbu 🤓

Eniolohunda:
You want multitasker upon all the attributes you listed above? Last , last na robot you go build before you kill someone daughter

dacillin:
You said this to him because he earn less than 50k! I see what is delaying or holding you back from marriage. You didn't want to start from the scratch with someone. You want already made man.

I think your problems are:
1. Materialistic
2. Lack of attention to detail
3. High criteria
4. Lack of discernment.

Lemme ask you how's your spiritual life?

Trymeee:
My reply to your post says you might NEED a wife, but you WANT a maid. I doubt just one maid can fulfil those milestones of yours.

On a Flip side, what makes a good husband?

sweetkev:
You need clay to mould that kind of a woman in Nigeria.

Trymeee:
Just get a maid.... That's what you need.

Chucks13:
Stubborn, no nonsense, hardworking, intelligent and respectful.

Mightyhaiz:
Intelligence
Outspokenness
Kindness and empathy (not quick tempered).

If u get this even if u no sabi cook u good to go

odinson1:
Madam i don't think you understand what "random" means.
Everybody is a random person to other people. I am a random guy to you, and you're a random girl to me. We don't know each other. We are only talking on a social media platform.

Now if you ask me or any other guy online or even offline for money, thinking you deserve it because you have a vagina, then you'll fall into the category of the girls the men on this thread are complaining about.

Chief2410:
better to be stingy than to be used. You that is not stingy,how many random men have you gifted money?

odinson1:
So you didn't even understand the context of the conversation, you just rushed in to accuse men of being stingy?

Now that you understand, do you see why a man has an issue with a random woman being entitled to his money?

You meet a girl today, and tomorrow she's already asking you for money. An educated adult with a working brain... Why did her father even send her to school in the first place?

odinson1:
If to love is to spend money, why is the man the only one expected to spend? Abi women aren't capable of loving?

We're not talking about marriage here. We're talking about random girls feeling entitled to a man's money just because they have vaginas. That's what the conversation on this thread is about, NOT wife and fiancee.

ChybuzzDD:
All of you wey hold this belief just dey play.
An average woman will ask you for money even if she has.

odinson1:
If love is an action word, what is the woman doing to prove her love to me?

We're talking about random girls asking random men for money, NOT husband and wife matter. A man provides for his family, NOT a random girl who feels entitled to his money. Do you understand the difference between a random girl and a wife?

And why are men the ones expected to not be the stingy ones? If women work and take care of themselves, why shouldn't they be expected to be generous to random men and give them money?

muyico:
even western world, asking a lady out on a date, u tot eatery is free Abi?

Tayorshd87:
That's just it my brother..

Rexymania:
You want to propose to a girl you met in a month? Some ladies like testing their man, to know if he's capable of taking care of them

odinson1:
Women don suffer because men don't want to spend their hard earned money on equally educated and capable adults as themselves? People who feel entitled to another person's money just because they have a vagina.

And if women spend on themselves too, then why the hell are they feeling entitled to a man's money and expecting him to spend on her? Is she not an educated adult? Why should she be entitled to the money of any man?
Women should continue spending on themselves and stop being entitled to another person's money.

Anyway, I won't blame them. It is the foolish igbo men and yahoo boys who created this entitlement problem in our Nigerian girls.

ruthieo:
I am a beautiful 31 year old lady, AA, Size 6 chocolate color looking for a godly man(with a job or a business).
I am not a liability
I am from delta
Please i dont want single dads and married men
I need a loving man that fears God
I live in lagos
Please dm if interested

Serious and responsible men only please
Players please stay away

Thanks

Tayorshd87:
I believe u must be a single man.

because u marrying a woman with flat tummy ehn after birth the tummy might still change to big tummy due to expansion of the anterior abdominal pelvis during birth......

So that shouldn't be listed because love too can make u overlook it in marriage

jericco1:
as it is now, I have refused to exchange contact with any lady till further notice, make everybody respect themselves

ahnie:
This one na the wrongest of all wrongs, please stick to the deltabachelor I love his honesty .

Davoneskay:
You quick take am personal?

Osiris12:
If you can’t know when someone is into you 100 percent, then get ready to be scammed

yemmybx:
I belong to the second category of men in their 39-40 who are still single. Firstly, I would have been married like 3 years ago but suffered an heartbreak. Since then, the quality of ladies I've been seeing is scary in terms of character.

I was well raised and I wouldn't want to marry a woman that would make me a single father some day or make me lose my mind.

From my observation, we need ladies whose key to their heart is not how much we give them while they just sit and believe in their fine pretty faces alone.

We need ladies who is ready to settle down not wakawaka ones.

Loving and relationship is a full-time course for both man and woman. It's tiring when I thrive to play my part and you are there claiming feminist when it's your turn to play your part.

yemmybx:
I belong to the second category of men in their 39-40 who are still single. Firstly, I would have been married like 3 years ago but suffered an heartbreak. Since then, the quality of ladies I've been seeing is scary in terms of character.

I was well raised and I wouldn't want to marry a woman that would make me a single father some day or make me lose my mind.

From my observation, we need ladies whose key to their heart is not how much we give them while they just sit and believe in their fine pretty faces alone.

We need ladies who is ready to settle down not wakawaka ones.

Loving and relationship is a full-time course for both man and woman. It's tiring when I thrive to play my part and you are there claiming feminist when it's your turn to play your part.

olamoses75:
I think the title is explanatory enough

olamoses75:
I think the title is explanatory enough