Romance › Should We Really Be Truthful In A Relationship? by Samted69(op): 4:53pm On Aug 16, 2016 |
In 9 out of 10 new relationships, the girl or the guy always requests for the truth.
They ask questions like "how many people have you dated"?, "how many people have you slept with"?, "did you ever cheat on anyone"?... you know....deep questions like that. And before the relationship begins, distrust and paranoia has already set in. Some even go as far as asking their partners to tell them every thing that happens.... moments of weakness... third party crushes and all.
so the questions are; is the entire truth always necessary for a relationship to thrive?? And, can't a beautiful relationship start with a clean slate? No digging up of old baggage and stuff...
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Romance › Re: Four Signs She Has Had S*x With Lots Of Men by Samted69: 4:44pm On Aug 16, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Good Guy Or Pretender?does He Love Me? by Samted69: 3:57pm On Aug 16, 2016 |
Europija: Nairalanders..I am girl from Europe.I am 25 years old.I met Nigerian guy from igbo.We r together for 4 months.In beggining he was acting very strange to me.I couldnt figure out what he want from me.Btw i was the one to ask for his number.I liked the guy so much.At start the things were going slowly..he didnt rush me into sex n even kiss..I saw it as positive..Also he told me at start how he gone out from bad relationship n how is stil fresh back then.After 2 months of dating we had sex..and he started even before that asking some smal things from me...He was asking me money but to barrow and he wil always give.me.it back when he says it.I always help him n i do it with my heart.He is teling me he loves me.and how he want to marry me but something is teling me he is pretending.I have Europe Union Passport so maybe is because of documents.He is very gentle to me.Very caring and he cooks for me n want see me always,bt stil.i dont trust him.When i say something small to him he wil.always put blame.on me.n even shout at me..this makes me doubt him.His ex girlfriend contacted him 3 weeks ago how she want him.back..I know he loved her alot.Bt he told me.n shower me messages he sent her.he doesnt want her no.more.She cheated on him n many bad things.She broke up with him coz as she says.her family wanted her to marry n my guy then didnt have a job and he didnt wana marry coz no job.Now she contacted him.teling him she wana mary him.She is living in Nigeria.To him.his visa is expiring soon and i dont want him to go back to Nigeria.I am desperate about this coz i want him to stay...Should.i trust him.n what should.i do ??HELP! hey.. text me. or check your email. |
Romance › Re: Why Are Older Women Attracted To Me??? by Samted69: 1:02pm On Aug 16, 2016 |
wintersnow: I've been observing this for some time now... older women tend to get attracted to me for no reason .. each time I walk pass a group of older women.. they make certain gestures... they even point sometimes...even smile sometimes for no reason... it's fcking weird.... now I know how girls feel when they walk around a group of guys....I was talking with my neighbor yesterday evening just before dark. And I admit, I think she has a crush on me! ...
Abeq what shud I do??+ there must be something they see. ask your neighbour indirectly...flirt with her and get her to talk. she may tell you if she is and why. older women hardly sugar coat things so she's prolly gonna tell you why (if she really is). |
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