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Be wise and circumspect in this situation.

Have you tried talking to your dad? Of course in a respectful and reasonable way.
Don't judge him, don't castigate him over his choice of woman... Simply tell him that you respect his decision but one thing you want from him is that he should not neglect his duties towards you and your siblings.... Inasmuch as he does that I don't think that you have problems.

Again, I don't know how old you are but then you will have to be smart and take certain steps.
1. Don't confront the woman in any way. You may do that spiritually through serious prayers anyway

2. Be very observant. Observe all her moves but without letting it be obvious to her that you are observing her...

3. If your dad has documents of properties etc and you know where he has kept them, you may relocate them. Such women may have hidden agenda to take over everything. Your dad won't even know when he will hand over everything to her, and you guys will be completely stripped off whenever he does... So you have to be smart and bold

4. Keep praying for your dad. Prayer works especially IF he is under any kind of spell

5. I won't advise that you move out except if your siblings are old and strong enough to look after themselves while living with the woman. Exiting the house, you will be giving the woman more space and grounds to gain...

6. Find a family member or relative that your dad respects and confide in such person to help you intervene without the person betraying you as his/her informant.

You just have to be circumspect and tactful sha. Don't use youthful gra gra to handle the situation o. The primary problem is your dad while the woman is your secondary problem... I'm not sure that you would have complained if the woman is a decent and reasonable woman

This one sabi politics well well...
See as he dey press their mumu button
😂😂😂😂😂

Tackle corruption: Strengthen EFCC and give them the free hand to go after anybody no matter who the person is ...

Promise land ori buruku wo!😏

No be only promise land, na Maryland....

Anything wrong with that?
Is it an offence to flaunt pictures taken on the plane?
It's his life .. don't let it disturb you

Checkwell:
Local man remains local. Anyone taking pictures on a flight and flaunting on it social media is just a local person!

Go to the hospital...
Nairaland isn't telemedicine

Almost everything in SA is beautiful but the way their human elements reason and behave is not...

When they get tired of this nonsense and still don't find fulfilment in life, they will eventually self-destruct through suicide.

Yet this is the same Dangote whose company has brought in thousands of tanker trucks form the distribution of petrol.... Collision plus explosion... Mass casualties....

This is where you expect the DSS and police to act proactively but they won't...

What a shame!

AI enhanced!

Tell us about his mother side too please

Bukola94:
Stop writing what you don't know, is father, grand fathers are Yoruba and indigenous of Ilorin Kwara state. Most indigene of Ilorin Kwara state know there family house and family house.

If he ain't playing to the gallery, there is no big deal in this. This is what he is supposed to do, especially if he has some knowledge in it... No biggie! In fact, he can enter soakaway sef

Corruption will kill us in this country?

How much does the MD collect as budget annually for security provision? I'm sure it's more than 27k
How much does he pay the security company? 27k
How much does the security company pay its personnel? 18k

Tell me who can survive on 18k per month in this country. Life is not balanced but then somethings are not just due to life on its own, rather the doings and undoings of human beings to themselves.

In the end death will level all of us...

He didn't shoot him for religious reason but for political reason, I suppose... (Although investigation hasn't revealed the motive).

Crimes are committed generally, not on religious basis but there are specific and targeted crimes that are based on religious bias... This is one of such...

Daddyyin:
But the person that shot Charlie Kirk is a Christian

Let UK and Europe keep importing Muslims from the Arab countries. They never see anything...

God bless Trump for the way he is dealing with those Hamas animals...

Sadly the governor is a Fulani sympathiser.
There are fulanis that bear Yoruba names and even speak both Yoruba and Fulani. I have a friend like that.. he bears Yoruba name but he is Fulani. This governor is also like that... That's why he can't rise against his brothers...

He is looking away while his Fulani people are murdering people and taking over. What a shame!

Who be this one?
How old is she herself
Why am I even commenting sef

May not stop singing but in some situations the musician will start protesting through his music.
He may even start foot-dragging on his performance, switch off some speakers, or find a way to diminish the quality of his songs... The party organisers and attendees will even start feeling bored... Some crazy ones will take a break that they want to go and find something to eat since they have not eaten, and they need energy to perform.

Though, I agree with you that spraying money on musician isn't compulsory

SirJerrie:
Will the musician stop singing because people didn't spray them money.... They came, deliver the job they were paid for, and get paid.... If people sprayed them money, good for them.

You're right about reserving food though!

Oya nau!

Just see as they laugh at this stupid nonsense here.

It's just that people are often insensitive.

For me, I always make sure that the food of the musician, band boys, ushers, camera man and bouncers are secured. In fact, I make sure that the music person and his boys eat before the real show starts. If they choose not to eat first, then I reserve it somewhere for them.

How much food are the going to eat?
Are they not part of the event?
Why neglect them?
They are human beings too

Why do you still spray money on the musician you already paid? Shebi you already paid him

He was with them before.
He only decamped to LP because he lost the primaries ticket in APC....

I pity those of you fighting yourselves over politicians. Sorry is your case😂

Hahahaha! We haven't forgotten the Soludo Vs Ekwunife saga o.... It's like you guys don't reason abi

Biafrannuke:
Infidelity is lukumi culture. You can ask Reno Omokiri.

The pictures of Ooni with the Oluwo's former queen are definitely AI generated.

Why go to such extent just to trend? To me, Oluwo guy is not a responsible person with many of his antecedents... Not to say that Ooni too is a saint but why will he come for your wife when he can have as much as many women by the virtue of his kingship and social status...

I dont believe the Oluwo on this one. A king that wraps and smokes marijuana in front of his chiefs...

This guy isn't a pastor but a fraudster!
He runs a workplace not a church...

This redeployment is a way to remove those workers from under the umbrella or cover of pengassan. They are no longer covered! Tell me what other union is as powerful as pengassan/nupeng in Nigeria? None!

Those workers are already marked, and will be sacked somehow along the line later ... By then, pengassan won't be there to protect them. Their only option then will be to run to industrial court where they will spend money on a long and protracted court case....

See why they tamed Sunday igboho...
Man would have at least pushed them back a bit...

But now, no one is coming to the rescue of these people who are being killed daily

The thief is also within the police

Get him something with the following specs:
Has radio that is easy to use by old people
Has bold keypad that is legible enough with wide screen in case he has sight issues or can't see tiny letters
That has games or stuffs that can also keep him from boredom

Something that is easy to operate sha

Now I dont know what type of fits my specs but just try sha