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you married a tribalist in d first place so its ur fault cuz u must av seen d signs in ur relationshp b4 marriage bt u chose 2 ignore. Tribalists are insecure pple, they neva luv anybody includin themselves. Marriage is about maturity & tolerance. ur hubby is nt ripe yet he's stil a kid in adult body. notin can b more painful dan wen u ignore him. its time to let him understand he's no more a baby. from there he wil learn to walk by himself. let him realise facing d other wife is nt a threat. its time for u to luv ur kids nd giv dem d best, secure ur future now so u wont face d heat later cuz ur hubby wil nt live 4eva anytin can happen. i pray God gives u d wisdom.

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"At the age of seven, a young boy and his family were forced out of their home. The boy had to work to support his family. At the age of nine, his mother passed away. When he grew up, the young man was keen to go to law school, but had no education.
At 22, he lost his job as a store clerk. At 23, he ran for state legislature and lost. The same year, he went into business. It failed, leaving him with a debt that took him 17 years to repay. At 27, he had a nervous breakdown.
Two years later, he tried for the post of speaker in his state legislature. He lost. At 31, he was defeated in his attempt to become an elector. By 35, he had been defeated twice while running for Congress. Finally, he did manage to secure a brief term in Congress, but at 39 he lost his re-election bid.
At 41, his four-year-old son died. At 42, he was rejected as a prospective land officer. At 45, he ran for the Senate and lost. Two years later, he lost the vice presidential nomination. At 49, he ran for Senate and lost again.
At 51, he was elected the President of the United States of America.
The man in question: Abraham Lincoln."

Many of us are acquainted with this eloquent example of persistence and determination in achieving victory. We read it, stop for a moment and then sigh and say: "Wow! That's the stuff real leaders are made of."
And in saying this, it's all too easy for us to think about leaders like Lincoln almost as "mythological creatures", separate from the rest of humanity and empowered by some mysterious quality that smoothes their path towards inevitable success. This is the traditional view of leadership: that leaders are marked out for leadership from early on in their lives, and that if you're not a leader, there's little that you can do to become one.
That's not the way we see it now. The modern view is that through patience, persistence and hard work, you can be a highly effective leader.

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