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Family › Re: Girl Found Wondering At Sabo Tasha, Kaduna (Photo) by sinaj(f): 7:08pm On Sep 18, 2016
jopretty:
Babe, you don't have to explain anything to anyone. It is important your kids or wards know your number off heart. It's either they accept or not. A little child of abt 4 yrs missed the mum in Sabo Market last year, when people gathered him, he kept saying "I know my mummy and daddy numbers" we called the number and he was right. People had already gathered in their home to sympathise with them sef. They rushed down immediately to the Market with other members of the family. We advised them to go to sabo police station first before taking their child home.
something similar has happened to me b4, that's why I understand how it feels.

Kids are really smart and learn fast if given the attention.

I dnt understand why they think it's a big deal for them to memorize phone numbers
Family › Re: Girl Found Wondering At Sabo Tasha, Kaduna (Photo) by sinaj(f): 7:04pm On Sep 18, 2016
Osyxcel:
What I meant is that she stays with her grandma, so therefore,
1. Her grandma might not have a phone.
2. Her grandma most likely doesn't know her no by heart not to talk or teaching the girl how to memorize it.

So calling other people dumb is uncalled for... Your perspective doesn't have to be the only right one, even though you were right in some respect.
yea I understand u
Family › Re: Girl Found Wondering At Sabo Tasha, Kaduna (Photo) by sinaj(f): 7:00pm On Sep 18, 2016
Zedoo:
You should first of all not generalize...incase you dont knw some families have so many other stuff to worry about. Life isn't the same at all levels.... kids with enlightened parents have so many advantages...most parents dnt bother with education outside what their children learn in school. Never generalize....its not a shame to her that she doesn't know....she hasn't had the opportunity to...i know so many things I see fortunate kids do today that I could never do in my younger days but it doesn't make me dumber....dont judge and compare people....we all dont come from the same place or get the same opportunities in life. You are insensitive for mentioning your 3year old son, because when he does anything wrong you will insensitively compare him to another child in his age grade or lower....
I don't compare children's behaviour because I knw it's hurt their self esteem and it's wrong.

I had to mention my 3yr old sibling, not child because of the people quoting me that thinks it's a big deal for a child to memorise phone number.

it might look like a big deal, but with rehearsals they will.
Soon school will resume and you will hear more of this case just because of ignorance.

One thing with Nigerians I have noticed is that they don't believe it can happen to their child until it does.
Family › Re: Girl Found Wondering At Sabo Tasha, Kaduna (Photo) by sinaj(f): 6:36pm On Sep 18, 2016
Osyxcel:
I understand you, but then you should also consider the background of the child in question.... she also stays with her grandma...
in the post, she couldn't identify her grandma's no.

I was wrong if d grandma doesn't have fone tho
Family › Re: Girl Found Wondering At Sabo Tasha, Kaduna (Photo) by sinaj(f): 6:27pm On Sep 18, 2016
lexiconkabir:
So you had to lie to justify your "dumb-ness"?

You clearly took the matter for a joke with the way you put up mocking emoji unreasonably, you are now trying to justify your "dumb-ness"?
lie about what Mr Dumb?
Family › Re: Girl Found Wondering At Sabo Tasha, Kaduna (Photo) by sinaj(f): 6:27pm On Sep 18, 2016
Osyxcel:
Really?

Apart from the fact that she's very young (probably 7 or below), it's not everybody that are good with random numbers... some older people even find it hard to memorize random numbers.

Anyway, I hope the girl gets reunited with her people pretty soon...
11 numbers might seem so big to memorise but with rehearsals a child will learn it.

It might be difficult at first but u wnt regret it when they learn it.

Once lost my cousin in a busy market, the only luck I had was dat he had my number in his little wallet he always carry abt else I dunno what d story would have turned out to be.

He borrowed a fone nd called me. He was just 6yrs.
Family › Re: Girl Found Wondering At Sabo Tasha, Kaduna (Photo) by sinaj(f): 6:09pm On Sep 18, 2016
Engrobiorah:
You are still claiming right angry
there is no right here to claim sir.

And I dnt expect u to understand until it happens to u then u will understand the importance
Family › Re: Girl Found Wondering At Sabo Tasha, Kaduna (Photo) by sinaj(f): 6:07pm On Sep 18, 2016
nma24:
She's just looking for cheap attention
nope m nt
Family › Re: Girl Found Wondering At Sabo Tasha, Kaduna (Photo) by sinaj(f): 6:06pm On Sep 18, 2016
nma24:
Are you for real? I don't even know my parents number offhand talk more of a little girl. You suppose use your brain know say the child might be from a less privilege family ...
. I didn't mean to belittle her family.

If she is frm a less privileged family, it will be an exception.

But kids should knw their parents no just in d case of emergency.
We overlook this little things a lot until the need for it arise.
Family › Re: Girl Found Wondering At Sabo Tasha, Kaduna (Photo) by sinaj(f): 5:55pm On Sep 18, 2016
lexiconkabir:
Were you hoping to get likes or what?
Pls this is not a joking issue, if you don't have any help to render, simply move on.
WowSweetGuy:
as d pic is enlarged up there, so her brain process am as big human being... she really need receive sense.
ramalot:
Are you insane?
I bet at her age you didn't even know your name.
Khd95:
it's you that needs flogging for this ur stvpid and re-tard-ed commenthuhsad
if u cant suggest how her relatives can be located,why dnt u just take ur mean as$ to the joke sectionhuh
Khd95:
it's you that needs flogging for this ur stvpid and re-tard-ed commenthuhsad


if u cant suggest how her relatives can be located,why dnt u just take ur mean as$ to the joke sectionhuh
U guys wudnt have quoted me to display ur stupidity.

That girl looks like a 5yr old.
In this present age and knowing the importance of phone number, good schools ensure that children know their parents number and home address by heart.

I have a 3yr old that can say his dad's no nd home address by heart.

Evn if it requires you composing it as a song, do it because it's important!
If their school fail to teach them that, teach them yourself
Family › Re: Girl Found Wondering At Sabo Tasha, Kaduna (Photo) by sinaj(f):
As big as she is, she doesn't knw her mom's no by heart sad



I hope someone that knows her see this thread tho smiley
For d dumb ones quoting me, ensure ur children know ur phone number by heart, it's one of the basic things they ought to knw.

Evn if it will require u writing it on their school bag.
Or composing it as a poem for them.
If their school fail to teach them that, ensure u teach them.
It's ur responsibility

I have a 3yr old that knows his dad's number by heart so don't misquote me undecided

I doubt if u will ever know the importance till something like this happen to u.
Politics › Re: President Buhari’s Powerful Nephew Mamman Daura Named As Source Of Speech That P by sinaj(f): 1:46pm On Sep 18, 2016
So he can't give a speech by hearthuh


Since his family member is involved, let's see how baba change will handle the matter sad
Education › Re: Adeyeye Olorunfemi: "I Don’t Regret My Action" — Student Rusticated By UNILAG by sinaj(f): 1:27pm On Sep 18, 2016
Oche211:
u self dey book space too?
was busy lol
Romance › Re: Most Reasons Why Women Can't Stay In A Abusive Relationship by sinaj(f): 12:32pm On Sep 18, 2016
1. FEAR
Yes, fear. However, I am not talking about fear of the abusive partner and his violence tendencies, but fear of the unknown. I think that this is the number one reason why women tend to remain with their abusive partners, in spite of everything. The fear of moving on and having to begin a new relationship with someone entirely new– who might, even be worse than their present partner… So they stick with the devil they know, live with the abuse, and continue to be trampled upon.

2. LIFE

Believe it or not there are actually women who are so into money and the fancy life, that they’re willing to accept emotional and physical abuse as the price they have to pay for it. These sorts of women would never quit an abusive relationship for anything… not as long as the money keeps rolling into their partners’ bank accounts.

3. CHILDREN

Once a woman has had a baby or more for her man, it’s often very difficult for her to leave him or the relationship, irrespective of what difficulty she’s faced with. The reason for this isn’t exactly because of her emotional attachment to her man, but because firstly, women naturally tend to want to build a family with the father of their children. No woman wants to have children for multiple men or deprive their children of that fatherly love that they deserve.

Secondly, you got to agree that it’s always kind of difficult for a woman with a child (children) to find a decent man who’s willing to accept her and her kid(s). Most men wouldn’t get involved with a woman with kids because they often consider the kids as ‘extra baggage’. And of course, the challenges of being a single mother are way too huge for some of these women to accept, so they hang on to the relationship and man they have, even when their well-being and health is in danger.

Honestly, I had a hard time coming to terms with this, but it is a reality, and we must accept it. Ask some of these women under abusive relationships the reason they have held on, they’ll always mention love. It’s hard to fathom as a neutral, but it’s true. Some of these women, no matter how abusive their partners are, somehow remain emotionally attached to them. Some believe they (the victims) are often responsible for the abuse they get from their partners, and believe that once they change, the abuse will cease. They see absolutely no wrong in whatever ill their partner metes out to them, and would defend him if they have to. Lol. It’s crazy, but that is the way it is. Call it infatuation or anything you want to, but the truth remains that some of these women are genuinely emotionally attached to their abusive partners.

So there– the reasons I believe women tend to remain in a relationship even in face of constant emotional and physical abuse. I do hope you found it interesting.

I’d also like to say that abuse of any kind is wicked, unacceptable, and shouldn’t be condoned under any circumstances. If you’re a woman in an abusive relationship, your only option is to quit, and run for your dear life. The dangers of the abuse are far bigger than they may appear. No reason is good enough for you to stick to any relationship that doesn’t add to your life and well-being positively.

Do not be afraid of the future, do not be afraid to move on; you’ll definitely find something /someone better the moment you allow yourself to take the leap. You deserve much better than you’re willing to accept and realise.
Romance › Re: ___ by sinaj(f): 12:07pm On Sep 18, 2016
FunkyMetahuman:
Fat women are too much work

You can't turn them anyhow

You can't hold them with one hand and get the job done

Na so sweat you go dey sweat like say you climb mount olive cheesy
Baba I hail o! grin
Romance › Re: How To Get Rid Of Insecurity In A Relationship? by sinaj(f): 11:46am On Sep 18, 2016
Loyalblak007:
Thanks
you are welcome smiley
Politics › Re: To Be A Nigerian by sinaj(f): 11:41am On Sep 18, 2016
To be a Nigerian u have to look at both sides b4 u cross a one way road coz laws are not been abided sad
Romance › Re: This Sex Position Will Get You Pregnant Super-fast - Those Looking For Babies by sinaj(f): 11:22am On Sep 18, 2016
Synzu:
undecided
lol grin


Am in choch jore
Health › Re: Finally In Naija At Last! Magical Japanese Cream That Erase Black Spots E.t.c by sinaj(f): 11:17am On Sep 18, 2016
Babe u for try copy and paste with sense na.

Which one is dear LIB readers againhuh
Romance › Re: How To Get Rid Of Insecurity In A Relationship? by sinaj(f): 11:15am On Sep 18, 2016
It's just Trust.
Romance › Re: This Sex Position Will Get You Pregnant Super-fast - Those Looking For Babies by sinaj(f): 11:11am On Sep 18, 2016
Synzu:
Sinaj grin
FEAR GOD!
Education › Re: Adeyeye Olorunfemi: "I Don’t Regret My Action" — Student Rusticated By UNILAG by sinaj(f):
If it were to be in a sane country, the president would have called him and made sure the matter is looked into objectively.


But no, they will all play deaf till this case get international recognition undecided

With or without school, this dude is already successful.
Schooling isn't education, that's why we have successful people that never went to school.

I admire his courage and anyone that passed through the system will understand that Education in Nigeria is rotten and is only living on past glory.
Romance › Re: Romancelanders,get In Here!!! by sinaj(f): 9:37pm On Sep 17, 2016
Smellymouth:
Deceive you do wetin? lipsrsealed lipsrsealed grin
deceive me go backyard
Romance › Re: Romancelanders,get In Here!!! by sinaj(f): 9:16pm On Sep 17, 2016
Smellymouth:
Sinaj... Get in Here.. grin

Nor eat for your dream sha.. tongue
chei those boys really use ice cream decieve me for primary skul o! grin

Uncle T lol
Nairaland General › Re: Which One Dries Clothes Faster? (a) A Hot Sun (b) Strong Harmattan. by sinaj(f): 9:50am On Sep 17, 2016
Lwkmd grin


With harmattan u can wash and wear grin
Romance › Re: My Neighbor Is An Insane Sex Maniac. by sinaj(f): 8:40am On Sep 17, 2016
Wetin concern u grin



U can as well join him for a 3some
Science/Technology › Re: 4 Scientists Whose Works Were Not Appreciated Until Their Death by sinaj(f): 9:14pm On Sep 16, 2016
Demigods666:
Science Means Satan in Latin.
science mean scientia in Latin which is knowledge
Family › Re: How Many Are You In Your Family (from Parents Only) by sinaj(f): 8:56pm On Sep 16, 2016
4 boys 2girls tongue
Science/Technology › Re: 4 Scientists Whose Works Were Not Appreciated Until Their Death by sinaj(f): 7:55pm On Sep 16, 2016
Demigods666:
Science compliments Satanism.
nt true sir.
Romance › Re: Where Did You Get Your First Kiss? by sinaj(f): 1:29pm On Sep 16, 2016
JESUSBOIY:
Don't know if you will like to send me some of your sexy photos, i wanna masturbate cheesy cheesy cheesywink wink wink
*does sign of the cross*




FEAR GOD
Health › Re: 6 Foods That Can Damage Your Skin by sinaj(f): 1:11pm On Sep 16, 2016
If all these things are not gud, what then is gud undecided

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