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ednut1:
over 80% of the winners have been white. They are fine with it. The real issue is how did chidinma with a 9ja father and Mozambique mother get citizenship. It has been discovered that her mum stole someone’s identity to register her birth. They may revoke the citizenship. So how is she having the last laugh 🥱

I took this female out to eat about 2 weeks ago and I tested her! We ordered our food and had a nice time just talking over food and getting to know each other! I'm not going to front I was feeling shorty and not just because she was beautiful her mindset is what got me! But when we was done eating and I asked for the bill the lady came back with it! I said dam I left my wallet at home you think you can pay for the food and I will give you the money back when I get home? She just got up and left, all I can do was laugh and smh! But I goes in my pocket pays for the bill and leave a 10$ tip! The lady said thank you and you are a very smart man! Sometimes you have to test them to see if they are the one or not! I never spoke to her after that.

MrCork:
We no u too well Siofra...dont lie!!

...how much did u sell yor egg last weeeek??

Olatara:
I know this since 2018 when a teacher in my former school in on Island Ms O... said she sold hers twice to get money when she was broke.
She even described how painful the removal was.
I was too shocked to speak.

ARISHEM:
You sold your eggs. Yet pray for a miracle for the fruit of the womb after you get married because you have a big God that is merciful

MrCork:
Helo. So based on yor history on nairaland..wot department woud u nomally categorize yor sef out of 1..2 or 3?

Everyday247:
Really? Enlighten us, what is "Naturally Wrong" with women taking the lead?

ShoeGetSize:
The Bible says: "Answer a fool according to his folly".

So since you have made this about value depreciation based on reduced capacity to father a child as a consequence of aging, here is the Late Alaafin of Oyo fathering a child at the age of 81.

Produce evidence of an 81 year old woman conceiving a child. If you don’t, then you've just made a fool of yourself.

SocialJustice:
I've never seen a 90 year old woman have a baby but men in their 90s do it all the time. 😁

Of course energy reduces with age but madam if an old man is coming in you daily, you will get pregnant under a month.

favour32:
For the past years,
her hatred for man, changes nothing.
Man will always dominate the world.

She has never had any father figure all her life, therefore,her disrespect for man is not unusual.


Siofra!!
As man gets older with increasing financial capacity and good health,so his value increases.
At 90 years,a man can still procreate.
If no healthy sperm,how is that possible?

Go and rest Siofra!

FRANCISTOWN:
Wait, little girl. Do you think men's value is tied to their ability to have kids?

BALLOSKI:
The sperm's primary purpose is not to be donated for monetary gains, it's to be dumped in your system to fertilize. At 70, a man can still get a baby out with his 70 yr old system. Can you at that age?

MyExpression:
That's it!
Class is ended @siofra

KingLennon:
Ladies get irritated with redpillers but deep inside them they don't like a man who is weak. A man will still be in active service till he dies unlike women who have a time frame

i met a guy who was into wildlife/nature photography..
he saw me with my cameras, equipments etc and said that was attracted him cus he felt I was into such as tourists use mainly their phones to take pictures
when I explained to him that it was just a hobby, he asked me out for a drink later that he's intrigued but danladi refused blatantly that's he's not comfortable with the whole thing and said we should discuss all that there and then.
(I respect danladi as my chaperone on this trip and I know he also has to report to my husband too so I don't even argue his decisions or anything, and he's good company already so I don't need another).
so we went to a corner to talk and he said he's passion is photography and he left his job as a business auditor for a branch of microsoft In the UAE to pursue this permanently.
I asked him how he feeds cuz I know photography cannot sustain his expensive lifestyle( I looked at his watch, skin and footwear.. that's how I know wealthy men)
he casually told me trust fund..
apparently from a very wealthy home . an emirati, or a royal who knows.. I didn't ask.
but he seemed Westernized as he spoke great English without an accent.. he's also single and hinted he's going to be single for a long time to pursue his passions.

I smiled..it confirmed my age long beliefs.
people mainly into arts, and unconventional jobs are doing it for passion because their survival needs are met.
I didn't know how to explain to my mom that I was traveling to Italy to showcase my art pieces and I was to PAY them to feature me 😂😂😂..and I don't fuxkinh have a job.
it wasn't a job..I wasn't expecting to be paid..
I just wanted to be recognized 😂😂 even though I am an amateur(the effing audacity)
but to someone who is using such to survive..it's different.

so, understand that people on survival mode think very different from people thriving.
even financially..
that's why you should stop listening to broke men..they can't relate .. they see spending money on a woman is simping or a bad financial decision etc..cus these men are operating on scarcity mindset.
this photographer was ready to take me on date simply because I was doing what he's interested in. and he was going to spend..
maybe he won't see me again cuz I am tourist..my skin colour and jjc behavior gave me away.. but he doesn't mind because he has it .
as I was leaving to go back to danladi who was waiting, he invited us for a bonfire exclusive event but we were to leave the city immediately...
but I felt refreshed.. the world is big and vast.. so many ways to live .. there's no box anywhere
. I just saw a glimpse of an experience thru the eyes of another ❤️

Online & Effeminate: M e n Who H a t e on Women

Hi Ladies,

This is just a reminder not to take those m e n who run their mouths online seriously. The internet has given effeminate m a l e s a new playground, and unfortunately there are plenty of women who give them what they so desperately desire - female attention. Yes, even negative attention is delicious to them.

First, how can you tell he's effeminate? If he's picking on a woman's looks, clothes, hair or make-up (this is such catty behaviour) then women should just ignore him. By now, many of us have seen that 'balloon dating' video where a gorgeous woman was rejected by a cluster of clowns for having pretty toes and heavy eyelashes. We see this behaviour replicated in comment threads all over the internet where m e n reject women who don't even know they exist for petty reasons like this. Unfortunately, some women take the bait and start talking about how personality is important, too, or telling these m e n off for being superficial.

Why do they do this? Well, some are on the 'down low', but plenty others are heterosexual m e n who never developed their masculinity. Some of them are mentally stuck in middle-school, and have now moved their childish taunting and bullying over to the internet playground. They're mean to women and get likes and replies as a reward. Masculinity isn't something that m e n just acquire with puberty. Masculinity develops as a result of experiencing hardship, taking on responsibilities, and learning discipline. This is why so many cultures have rites of passage for boys before they can become m e n.

M e n who enjoy taunting women will never have a groundbreaking moment of personal growth because some lady told them off online. Save your energy and turn your backs on these types, because one of your important roles as a woman is actually not to reward loser m a l e s with feminine attention. Being starved of feminine energy compels them to go one of two ways: either they double-down on the bitterness and invest in a s e x robot, or they wake up and start their own leveling up process which does NOT involve the help of a woman. Protect your energy, ladies, and don't let them leech any of it.

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siofra:
Hello, Ladies 👋

I'd love to post articles like the one below everyday. I feel like we would learn a lot from them. There's a link below in case you're interested in following her on Facebook.



Suha Deeb

https://www./thefemininewoman/permalink/1417945465536062/?mibextid=Nif5oz

Real Love is Dignified

Ladies,

How do you know you've got real love? Is there a simple answer to this question?

Sometimes, when reading relationship problem posts in various women's groups, especially 'high value' and 'femininity' groups, there is often an emphasis on the fact that he provides before they describe the anguish this m a n inflicts on them. They start with the disclaimer that he pays for dates and sometimes gets them gifts (which should really be the bare minimum) - but then, you hear them talking about how their provider also allows his friends/family to disrespect them. Or he makes hurtful comments. Or he sometimes ignores her and shuts her out emotionally. Or he goes on holiday with his buddies and ceases communication during the trip. Sometimes he has a 'female friend' he is 'very close to', and so on.

Yes, there are many women stressed out in relationships due to 50/50 and other dusty arrangements, but clearly, there are also women with 'providers' who are really stressed out, too.

In an age where the bar is so low that it needs to be scraped off the ground, I can see why some women feel they have a catch when a m a n does what he is supposed to do - provide. But this alone isn't the benchmark of a quality relationship. Again, this ought to be the bare minimum.

What's the common element in these stressful 'hypergamous' relationships? There is a lack of dignity. Some ladies believe that they're going to have to compromise some where and some how because they landed one of those elusive 'provider m e n'. They will tolerate disrespect, or even emotional abuse, because he provides. Well, some of these m e n also 'provide' stress, confusion, low self-esteem, doubt, insecurity, and a general threat to a lady's well-being.

Provision is the bare minimum, and dignified treatment should be non-negotiable. Trust that real love doesn't involve sacrificing your dignity - actually, loving couples don't cross certain lines with one another no matter how 'stressed out' they are by whatever challenges they're experiencing in life.

How to prepare yourself for real love - dignified love? One great way is to eradicate any neediness or helplessness that's still lingering. Neediness can turn a woman into a beggar, and nothing can rob her of her dignity faster than being dependent on a m a n for emotional or financial sustenance, or social validation. Create the right conditions for yourself so that you aren't afraid to let anyone go, and don't sacrifice your dignity for any one. Healed feminine women are very strong, and will only hang around where they're respected as well as cherished. And please remember that a m a n who really loves you won't put you in any undignified situations in the first place.

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franchasofficia:
Idiotic thread of a senseless ill trained boy whose Nigerian mom did a very wrong job in training him to be a responsible son.


OP, you should be ashamed of your mother and sisters.


Nigerian women remain one of the best women on earth, the issue many guys have with Nigerian women is immaturity.


I am proud of Igbo women, if you are not proud of your sisters say it. I love our women, in fact their beauty is unmatched.


Whatever Nigerian women are today is as a result of the failure of Nigerian men who failed to provide the right leadership and society to breed the angelic women they desire hence they keep running abroad to console themselves with foreign women whose men built the wonderful society that produced angelic women.


Imagine their senseless comments.

Bliztzer:
If nigerian women will stop adding pressure on men, some of those criminal men would stop the act.

We may not be saying it but woman are the invisible force that remodel a society. I can proof it

Guynexttdoor:
The criminal mindset of a nigerian girl is so alarming, they always want to benefit without efforts. They are all liars.