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Stellie:
U r a mumu

Its that all u can call me....

5. Don’t try to win over the people who don’t like you –
the haters.
When someone does not like you, why do you try to make them
like you? The truth? They will never like you no matter what you
do. Please don’t waste any more of your energy on them. You
know the kind of people I am talking about – The ones who
constantly make you sad, they make you cry, they talk behind
you back, they don’t wish you well and make you feel crap about
yourself. Sometimes, you may even find yourself explaining your
whys to them. You don’t need such people. Stop trying to win
them over. They can never be won over. My secret solution for
such people? I bless them with goodness and move on with my
life.
http://www.selfishmother.com/a-fool-at-40-is-a-fool-forever-2/

4. Be Yourself. Accept and say, “I am phenomenal.” (Even when you don’t feel phenomenal) But I believe you are phenomenal because there is no other person like you in this world. You have something to offer the world – your gift and uniqueness. As soon as you recognise these facts, it makes loving yourself very easy.

3. Some friends don’t deserve to hear your shame story. This is a tough one and I learnt it the fool’s way. Before sharing your shame story with that friend, ask yourself this question. Do I trust *insert name* enough that if we stop being friends, she’ll keep mum about my story? Brené Brown puts it nicely, “If we share our shame story with the wrong person, they can easily become one more piece of flying debris in an already dangerous storm.”

2. Don’t rely on people.
I’ve learnt that we don’t need the validation of others for us to feel
we are worthy. We also don’t need 100 likes on Facebook and
Instagram to make us feel great about our work or who we are.
Don’t get me wrong, it is gratifying when someone tells me that
my work is great or has made a difference to them. But at the end
of the day, I don’t wait for such compliments to do what I want to
do. Waiting for compliments or approval can make you work
overtime, feel inferior and very soon, you’ll stop doing the work
you enjoy altogether. And you’ll never like yourself. You’ll come
across to others as very desperate and that is very unattractive.

1. You can’t hang out with chickens and expect to soar like an eagle. The people you hang out with can determine what (and who) you become. So, for example, if you are hanging out with women who are always putting other women down, women who gossip, women who are generally not going anywhere in life, you’ll go nowhere in life too. It is that simple. Also, if you want to know who and what you’ll become in the next few years, look at your friends.

A fool at any age can be a fool forever if he refuses
to let go of his foolishness. It is never too late to
become wise because the day you wake up and
wise up is the day you CHANGE ! My father used to say , A fool at 40 is a fool forever. Harsh but
TRUE. Technically, you don’t have to be 40 to see yourself a fool
or even, for others to see you as one. Before you roll your eyes and mutter, “I don’t need you preaching
to me on how not to be a fool.” May I reassure you that I don’t
plan to – I’m not an expert. But for those interested, I’d like to
share with you the 5 things that helped me start seeing life
differently.

Mumu dey pay well o , Abeg Baba God pls turn me to Mumu na ....

who cares if u like barb Skin .....

Deeper inside RMD be feeling tired of the Old Oil , although I know he will be changing Oil Always...

Who is that short thing at back there Forming Gattuso ?

I'm tired of even watching all the current NewsTv stations and u want bring on another continue , Who stations epp ? Mtcheeew

Money Must Be Made By Any Means , Patoranking na fulltime Street Man o see him face then like stone...

its only me that saw the Pot Belle ? But wait o how this news take ralate May weather Vs Conor Fight ?

hmmm she is just seeking attention , who gives a Fork , You think u are doing me u go soon end up like Aunty Linda... Efulefu like you..

Old thisngs have passed away.........

N7Million for post ? Na how much wey Councillors dey get ?

hmmmm All this kind news don tire me self , I can 4get those good days with N20 u are big boy A bottle of better chilled coke N12 Bread N8 , groundnut N1 better flexing o u still get change.. Chai back then when Coins get value i dey save am after errands....E no go better for the Leaders wey ruin our economy .... My Papa tell me say eget time wey naira get value pass doller ..

Please i have notice this for many years now , when i started using Tetmosol Soap after some months i saw eczema reaction on my body , i stop for a while and change to my normal Toilet soap after some months , i didnt see eczema any longer , then after many years i give a try to Dettol soap & Safe Guard on different times after some months the eczema reaction surface on my body again ... I stopped and change back to my normal toilet soap it stopped... Dont understand its my body too rough to accept anti bacterial soap or what ? Pls share ur views , Mynd44 , Lalasticlala , Seun come abeg....

Partnerbiz3:
Mmm account with 500k and 45k for sale.

Contact me below..

U must be a Dreamer o , are u tired of MMM no continue.....

hmmmm how this news take affect a Cup of Garri @ Orie Ugba Market for Umuahia....

Ndi Ara Abuo , Who Cares ?

All those above me talking trash Are duo not upto having Sex ??

This One na Mansion ??

Boys Go still dey Pick Money....

I will Be going to Dominica soon to marry my Oyinbo Woman i met Online Dating

Wetin the Guy Man wan enjoy again , when Fat Do cover the wife Kitty finish .... Even the man no fit fu-ck him still fat... I tire o ... The family needs Doctor Iguedo's Goko Cleanser , becoz dem go dey Fart too much....

hmmm na wa o see as OTEDOLA resemble ... Cow Boy.... Na him suppose be the new Area Fada.....

on that Makeup he even fine pass Tiwa Savage self , how far about his butt lift i need update .....

I wonder the Kind of Weed wey this Bobo Smoke self

.... 500 Million to each hmmm this kind news is fishy .....

So the Old Vegetable is finally back , I dont Give a Fu-ck if he is Back , his coming back wont stop the dream of Biafra coming through..... B4 October 1St his Mumu Cabal go tell una anoda story ...