₦airaland Forum

franchasng:
I understand you now, she does certain things at her own will, but she has a monthly upkeep fund that goes to the designated account every end of the month from the company's account, so most times I won't know when it's paid, I only see the debit details when reviewing monthly statements, or when she informs me of need for adjustment due to inflation and this will be effected in the designated family expenses account.


She buys me gift a lot unannounced, I am not complaining, it was what I prayed for and wished for right from when I knew what marriage was about, I never liked or fancied the idea of sharing family expenses with my wife even before I got married.


I even hated collecting things from ladies even when I was single and dating....I didn't even fancy women buying me gifts as a single man...so its about my choice and personality anyway

Oh okay

franchasng:
Suffer ke lol


Go and ask Tinubu if Remi de share feeding and house upkeep money with him even when she was a Senator

What I mean by suffer is not that a man won't take full responsibility but a good wife will step in when the need arises and will stock up some things without informing you. You will the one asking or disturbing her to inform you about some needs and she will be doing Shakara onto the fact that she has taken care of some of it.

franchasng:
I said I am married, my wife earn big but I take care of my family's financial responsibility up to 98% or more.


My wife only spend her income on herself, her family, relatives. I still take care of her own personal needs. This also applies to many of my married friends and family members. I have friends in America too that cater for their family up to 75% despite having a working class wife. It is like a norm for most Igbo men anyway, except the man is seriously struggling financially. We Igbo men derive joy and pride in being the sole provider in our marriage. It could be a bad practice based on today's norms but that's how most of us Igbo men are wired.

If you are wired like that, a good wife who is really your wife and knows that she earns nearly, same or even above your earnings will rewire you...She will not let you suffer

I don't trust Kwankwaso. He is one of the Northerners who are not nationalist in nature just like Tulumbu a Lagos_Ibadan president

Tell Soludo to enroll his mad son and daughter and other relatives into Army to support his calamity

The kind of people influencing Yoruba people

Cmanforall:
The fact is that the so called Representative won the election based on Peter Obi’s influence, and the election held same day. He could have made his voice heard given the rare opportunity he used to enter that seat.
If he’s poorly representing his people, then there’s no need contesting next time

For me I know Aguocha didn't do so well.
But one can't replace him with this criminal son of a criminal. That's suicidal.

Amberly01:
https://femifanikayode.org/with-love-to-waziri-by-chief-femi-fani-kayode/

Kayode, let Atiku win now, you will see him deny all these articles and people like Mockery will climb Mount Everest with a Nigerian flag written I am Articulated.
Hungry folks

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chopnaira:
Of course. There is going to be a direct primary. Kwakwanso will step down for Atiku.

Amaechi would be vice to Atiku.

It is normal the more criminal minded, the more you like them...
That's why you support the most criminal minded amongst them, the president

Mbah is working
Otti is working
Keep making my people proud
Don't let the people who lovve to hate your people distract you

Majority and I said majority of the most heatless people on earth say that

seunmsg:
A certain category of core northerners have always think they own Nigeria. They are the ones with the born to rule mentality. They want to be in power always. They see and think the south as a conquered territory they should always rule over.

They did the same thing to Obasanjo. In 2023, they introduced sharia and brought out Buhari as northern candidate. OBJ simply rigged them out in the south.

They did same to Jonathan. They escalated the terrorism that started under Yar’adua. Jonathan wasn’t really smart politically. He responded by failing to keep the agreement he had with the power brokers that supported him in 2011. He further alienated Obasanjo who paved the way for his presidency and completely neglected the south west. So, it was easy to boot him out in 2015.


The same born to rule elements in the north have gathered against Tinubu as usual. They just can’t stomach the idea of being ruled by a southerner. They are looking towards a willing partner in Peter Obi to help them boot out the incumbent Southern president. Unlike Jonathan, Tinubu is also a master of the game. Just like Obasanjo in 2003, he will play it very rough and dirty with them. Nigeria doesn’t belong to the north and we shall make that statement very clear to them in 2027.

By the way, we still have a lot of sensible and reasonable northerners who don’t believe in the born to rule ideology. They are the counter balance to the irrationality of the other group.

Tell me how he neglected the SW.
Is it by not filling the presidency with all these nitwits and empty barrels that has run down the economy in name of Awalokan?

BeautifulMind2:
Ignorant mind visit Anambra and feed your eyes

Seems you don't have taste too
I ve been in Anambra for 6 years now

Praktikals1000:
Soludo is way better than Peter Obi.

Soludo can't get 1 million votes in Nigeria.
The difference is 7up

LagosOrigin:
Not like it's any different from the roads in Lagos with open gutters and zero pedestrian side walks.

This crop of South east governors have really tried compared to the likes of The criminal Abia state former governor, Uzor kalu of APC, Imo state former governor Rochas okorocha of APC and former governor Dave umahi of ebonyi state all members of the wicked APC.

Even the wicked others like Ikpuazu,TA Orji and Ugwuanyi of the wicked PDP...
APC was busy ruining SW and PDP then busy ruining SE...Now APC is busy ruining the whole country.

Same Soludo with zero taste.
I have never seen a classless professor as Soludo

Lanretoye:
have the joy,when you start taking the hypo we will all see

Wicked soul...you don't like anything good happening to my people...
We will surely conquer your hatred towards us...

Lanretoye:
Work speaks for a working governor ,not paid content creators…I don’t see where people leaves someone like mbah and start hyping a scammer like otti

Both of them are giving us joy...
Now enemy of my people run away with your inherited jealousy.

UrVillageChief:
No, it’s rather because he is not a weakling that could be easily controlled by the so called northern cabal. In fact and you won’t disagree with me unless you want to be lying to yourself, this is the first time we will be having a president who’s bold enough to challenge the status quo. He is the cabal himself. This is the kind of leader we need for this country to work. “Nice” man can’t transform Nigeria. This Yoruba man is feared and in fact, fear sef Dey fear am. Nobody is saying he’s not corrupt but at least, this one is not denying and isn’t forming saint like some people🤣
OBJ was a boy boy to the northern oligarchs while GEJ dared not cough when the north were speaking. That’s the point my friend.

But this strong man is not transforming Nigeria.
He is busy using his strength to fight democracy.
We need a nice strong man not a crooked strong man with zero achievement.

fuckJones:
jealous as how please, soludo is a mile ahead of obi in everything,
You are talking about someone who won ‘Global Central Bank Governor of the Year’ 3 times. Obi will never be a governor of CBN, he will never be our president too but

Soludo can't get 100k votes in Igbo land neither will he get 200k votes outside Igbo land when Obi is on the ballot.

Pascal9:
you people are truly pathetic, if you measure all this 1 kilometre road, it reach 100km?, hope Uzodimma is doing far better than him., Enugu governor is far far ahead of him , let us be critical in our accesment.

The "if" shows you are assuming.
Let Otti cross carpet to APC your evil gods party you will sing a new song

Mirasteel:
True muslims will never insult Jesus, show proof of muslims insulting Jesus or keep quiet.

Jesus is one of the prophet of God so every Muslim respects him just like other prophets before him.

Just like Christians believe Mohammed was a terrorist

Estello:
https://applesbite.com/islamic-and-christian-god-not-my-belief-wole-soyinka/

It doesn't change your crooked and double faced nature

G8

EponObi:
If na one governor in other regions or even Tinubu list roads like this as achievement, you will hear them say things like, "waste of public money" "how much is bag of rice?" "It is 2026 and Nigeria politicians still celebrate road as achievements" "How does this solve the hunger in the land"

The hypocrisy.

Like an Emeritus once said, "We all know what we are doing!"

The president is different from a Governor...
Poverty in the land is caused by Tinubu's policies

Lithiumite:
With obi has presidential candidate abi,keep clowning, you need it to keep consoling yourself for your impending premium tears.....in VDM's voice, " u gonna learn,you gonna learn d hard way"

You only think in tribalism forgetting that hunger and suffering caused by your brother can cure tribalism

Now one of them is dead

This set of appointees and their oga are the most clueless in Nigeria's history.

“Why would someone impersonate him in 2023 before he became INEC chairman?”

IYDKYKN:
If a man can change his name to Mohammed Ali from Calcium Clay, them I guess Nigerians who no longer want to be Nigerians also have the right time do same and nine should frown when they lose the fundamental rights the rest of us are enjoying

You mean the right to be killed and the Government looks the other way round?