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franchasng:
Some of you guys are the reason the ladies are replying the way they did on this thread, just reread your comments, it doesn't make sense.

What is wrong with marrying a 34yrs old lady, and you are here making it look like a big deal marrying 29/30yrs old ladies? People are marrying ladies above 40yrs, I know some that did and they are living absolutely fine and their wives even look hotter than the under 30 ladies. You better change your orientation oh


For your information, I married my wife when she was 29yrs approaching 30.


And guess what? We have our beautiful kids that give me super joy today without a single delay.


I know the issue is most of you have wrong notion and belief about women's fertility and childbearing. You guys believe ladies around 29/30 won't give birth easily which is totally wrong.

I am not mocking anyone, just for the sake of this thread, let me share my real life experience with you guys.


I married my wife 29 going 30yrs and immediately after our wedding she took in and had our first baby without delay.

Unfortunately I have 3 friends who married their wives at; 24, 25 and 26. All of them had serious childrearing delay. The one that married his at 24 had 8 years delay. They even resorted to IVF which all failed twice. It was prayers and God's intervention that made them later had a child. The other one just had his not long ago, it was close to 7yrs too.


My point, these things are all in God's hands and your destiny in life also matters plus your family background and the spiritual battles in your family and your wife's family too, those are the things that cause delay in giving birth in Nigeria. Some come from men too, a lot of men are not potent but won't know cos they can still ejaculate spm.


My point?

There is nothing wrong in marrying 29, 30, 31, etc ladies.



In fact while single I never liked the idea of marrying any girl below 28yrs, I always knew I would marry someone mature and sensible, though there are ladies that are very sensible and mature at even 22yrs, so all these things are individual based. Just pray to marry the right person, someone that have human conscience, empathy, zero or less spiritual baggages and from a good/reasonable family. All these age and other things don't usually matter at the long run.


Until you guys marry, you won't understand some things about life and marriage sha


If you make sex and sexual matters (she must be a virgin this, body count that) a top priority in deciding who to marry, take it from me, you will most likely end up marrying the wrong person that will make you regret ever getting married.

NiRfreak:
Funny thing is we men are quick to generalize that any woman above 26/27 should not be considered again, I used to be so, but on a closer reflection, if I meet a lady of my sisters age, edu, outlook, character, job, religious & dating history, I will gladly marry her even if she's 30.
The reality of my sisters now makes me understand that not all 29 or 30 year old are Bad or Ashana...... But to know 29/30 year old who are still okay is the problem.... unless you talk and relate to understand their psyche

PlayerMeji:
How many people this one dey say 'we have..'

All these cashtivists wey full everywhere...

LUAN1:
women nor like short men. them don too reject me

LUAN1:
women nor like short men. them don too reject me

LUAN1:
I'm 5"4'

LUAN1:
Yes

LUAN1:
if height is available in the market, i can pay any thing to get it.

Abdul05:
Did yoruba people sentence Kanu...?

Awomolo spoke as a prosecutor not as a representative of yoruba people

Even if he asked for death penalty, the final decision was not his....

His statement is a legal position, Not a yoruba position.

Abdul05:
Did yoruba people sentence Kanu...?

Awomolo spoke as a prosecutor not as a representative of yoruba people

Even if he asked for death penalty, the final decision was not his....

His statement is a legal position, Not a yoruba position.

Ok...but let me ask you, how many Igbos are among the prosecution council? Your answer will validate weda Na Yoruba decision to sentence MNK to death or not..I dey wait for your response