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Maamin:
Other way round?..

Babes come and hit us and run O..pulease!

A gal can dream... Haha...

Maamin:
With what am seeing here...guys! I think "Hit and run" on this babes is still sure.

*puts on glasses to write down the list of girls that are in*

Except these days it's the other way round...

Maamin:
See dem! See dem!! Now they are trying to be real...I still take those comments at face value sha!

Hehe... And how long before marriage are we talking about here? I bet if it's too long... You'll be the one doing the asking...

This place is freeeeaky!! Me loves it!!!

Vic2k3


i heard the guy(my guy) say it himself, n if its a joke then its sick joke

@omolola
ok i will stop, but i just had to,i had this naggin feelin that i jus couldnt shake off,

@Ben-10 No i havent,i just ignored the whole thing,its disgusting,

@omolola1 can u imagine if hadnt asked around,whaty would have become of this stupid affair?? disaster!!!!!!

@vivaladiva non taken,n yeah poo happens,now i just have to walk away from it,

i hv verified, i had his pal pretend to ask him again if he was serious bout the whole thing,n i heard him say it wit his own mouth,i was shocked beyond words

, life sure is a constant dose of surprises, just when i thought i had seen n heard it all then BOOM!!!!came another one,
so,this guy approached me, hes a bit older than the guys i date,es nice, too nice i suspect, he always wants to come to my place, hes not scared of my mum like you'd expect your guy to be, he's a bit too charming wit her but i take this a good sign.we go out for a while,but his  behavior seems out of the ordinary, so i decide to hv check him out,know what i found out?? he has made a bet wit his friends that he's gonna take my mum to bet, n hes jus using me as away to get close to my mum, 

@ Lord Reed

This has got nothing to do with the people in my life, as a matter of fact, they are not all that bad. But sometimes life takes its own course irrespective of the people around you!

Maybe it's because I'm the selfish person. Maybe I want to have it all when any reasonable person knows that it's not possible. Maybe I take life's troubles a little bit too personal cos I feel I dont deserve them, which is really absurd. Maybe I expect too much from people; family, friends, lovers even! And when they fall short like the humans they are, I get really dissapointed.

So I created a saftety net to cushion the blow, and that is to never truly be happy in the things that should make me happy. Cos @ d back of my mind, I know it's just a matter of time . . .

Anyways wateva! I don't really know why you guys are acting all weird like there's something wrong with me. Like I said earlier, I'm actually happier this way. You might argue that Missy, but that's the truth! Life's not treated me worse than it has some others so I dont need to be 'pitied'.

I still am a happy go lucky person. Still have a smile as bright as the sun and a laugh that's outrighly contagious. Still have my jokes, my cracks and, you wont believe this, my words of encouragements. Lol!

, safety cushion it is, on my part i\'ve trained maself not to expect too much from anyone, the disapointment is jus too much, n most people actually feel that way, ;bt for some reason best known to them they chose nt to accept it,

Remind yourself that you deserve the best things in life. Do this all the time when it is good. When the dark times are there, tell yourself you deserve better and yearn for better.
Of course, don't forget to enjoy the goods too as long as they will last. Afterall if you are believing it won't last, then you got to make it count and not worry abt what might happen.

thanx dear, that in itself is a reminder to me of how much more am worth,

@Marhoski, 23, y?

@makajibbz

thats the day ill fully live ma life, for now am jus waitin it out,

, @MrLoverMAn

y, how is that relevant?

, its an article, bt most of it is actually how i feel,

, i love when someone is happy, i wanna celebrate the goodness that is the ocassion , i wanna be a part of that good memory in future, its kinda upliftin to the soul to know that someone could be genuinely happy,

bt this doesnt apply in my case, honestly, AM SCARED OF BEING HAPPY, happiness to me is a symbol of tragedy, when am happy am all nervous, is like when its bout to rain there is this cloud that hangs over the sky, only in my case its this uncomfortable lump that settles in the pit of my tummy, I HATE HAPPINESS, ok, mayb hate is too strong a word to use bt something close,

u think am strange , dont u?, well imagine wt i feel bout me, i wanna pretend n say when am happy am jus happy bt thats nt the case, n its jus not only in happiness, nop theres more, love to me stands for dissapoinment, when am in love i gv it fully, bt i dont quite receive it fully, am always on guard waitin for IT to happen, waitin for the disappointment that is always forthcomin, n trust me i get it, i wanna jus settle in love n enjoy like the rest of the world, bt i cant, i cant help bt feel the way i do, n its a negative to me, it only ends up pushing away the people i love n who love me,

its funny, that light should be so disgustin to me , its nothin bt a symbol of impendin darkness for me, when the light is gone it never comes back,

i loath anything bright that stands for hope, N YET MY HEART IS DRAWN TO N FAVOURS THE BRIGHT COLOURS OF LIFE,
I WANNA fall in love n be loved bt i think it may never happen, i wanna be unconditionally happy for that period that am happy bt it may never happen, i wanna enjoy the light that comes forth wit life bt am busy preparin for darklness that may never come, AM A CONFLICT OF EMOTIONS, !!!!!

, i love when someone is happy, i wanna celebrate the goodness that is the ocassion , i wanna be a part of that good memory in future, its kinda upliftin to the soul to know that someone could be genuinely happy,

bt this doesnt apply in my case, honestly, AM SCARED OF BEING HAPPY, happiness to me is a symbol of tragedy, when am happy am all nervous, is like when its bout to rain there is this cloud that hangs over the sky, only in my case its this uncomfortable lump that settles in the pit of my tummy, I HATE HAPPINESS, ok, mayb hate is too strong a word to use bt something close,

u think am strange , dont u?, well imagine wt i feel bout me, i wanna pretend n say when am happy am jus happy bt thats nt the case, n its jus not only in happiness, nop theres more, love to me stands for dissapoinment, when am in love i gv it fully, bt i dont quite receive it fully, am always on guard waitin for IT to happen, waitin for the disappointment that is always forthcomin, n trust me i get it, i wanna jus settle in love n enjoy like the rest of the world, bt i cant, i cant help bt feel the way i do, n its a negative to me, it only ends up pushing away the people i love n who love me,

its funny, that light should be so disgustin to me , its nothin bt a symbol of impendin darkness for me, when the light is gone it never comes back,

i loath anything bright that stands for hope, N YET MY HEART IS DRAWN TO N FAVOURS THE BRIGHT COLOURS OF LIFE,
I WANNA fall in love n be loved bt i think it may never happen, i wanna be unconditionally happy for that period that am happy bt it may never happen, i wanna enjoy the light that comes forth wit life bt am busy preparin for darklness that may never come, AM A CONFLICT OF EMOTIONS, !!!!!

, how long has it been?mmmh, le'me see, 1, 2, 3, dont really know, too long i guess coz i cant seem to remember how to behave in a relationship, guyz tell me am more of a buddy kind of girl, that i should be more feminine, i dont even understand what that is, am beginin to think i've even forgotten how sex feelz like, this is kinda an embarassing admission bt hey, i had to get it off ma chest,

go n read all her previous topics, u wud know wat am talking about

yeah u said it am confused, mayb i shud just let this go, i mean am a bundle of emotions, am full of hate, then disgust , then mayb love, n all these , not my makin, i just feel, i cant control wt i feel , i wish i cud then i wud stick wit love,

@

Since una dey uni beta for u. Tell him how u feel by your action but not in words. Express your feeling to him, by always looking for opportunity for u both to be alone, be his reading partner, get close to him. In my uni days most reading partners end up going out except me

mmmh,

, we r in uni together, n hes my neighbor,

@ makajibbz , weed?, very funny, bt wait mayb al do jus that,

@Acidosis, yeah u right , it wud me pretty embarrasin to find out it was all in my head, lol!

@Pweety4me non taken, , y do u say that?, wts wit me?, i wanna know,

, @poster, an insult to nigeria is an insult to africa, so watch wt u say here, n u think there is nothin wrong wit u?, y wud u go sleepin around n u r married mayb thats one way of nature gettin back at you, so before u go insultin nigerian women take a good look at urself, u r an embarrassment to ur country, r u sure u r an ambassador??, mmmmh, i wonder, so again DO NOT INSULT A NIGERIAN WOMAN, we(african women) will decend on u n u wont like wt we'll do to u!!!!

, hes way too shy n its spoilin it for me,
i like him , i know he likes me, he keeps starin at me when am nt lookin, my pals tell me
, he cant even lok me in the when he talks to me, i wanna mk the first move but am jus as shy, wt to do?i wonder,