happy200:
with this chat then u lied to us. What i see here is u giving her attitudes cos no one is surpose to keep acting desperate to another for a very long time.

That's what u will say at first glance. You have to know that she wasn't in the country as at then.
So I can't reach her lone. Am not the chatting type. I can be online the whole day without chatting.
But that's what she like.
She love typing than talking.
When she complain, I changed. Started checking her on. Everything was okay then till she return and complain of too much on her head.

I kept chatting and calling. But she kept pushing me aside with the excuses of being too busy.

Was I suppose to let her be when she said she had a lot on her mind.

Newboss:
You met an honest lady but destroyed the relationship through NEEDINESS!

NO, there's no other guy in the equation! She had no time (she explained that to you! ), she gave you little of the time she had (which she didn't even have)

You brought her under pressure through your complains that were fueled by your NEEDINESS! She broke!

Next time, don't act needy! You destroyed this relationship by yourself!

Stop "boyfriending" her, and start "friending" her. Don't ask her questions that relationship folks ask! That would turn her off the more!

Tell her about your day without seeking her attention. Don't be arrogant o. Use text messages more!

She already has a lot to worry about! You made the mistake of "joining" the queue by acting all needy!

Relationships won't break most times if we deal with neediness! You steal meat from the pot and mum sees you, but you didn't know that she did! She has two options: let it slide (and later use sense to talk around it without giving you the slightest indication that she saw you) or call you out (letting you know that she caught you). The second is what most do in relationships! (Not just when it comes to cheating). The consequence of that is a mental switch to "insecure mode" or "I'm fvcked mode" or "guilt mode" in the mind of the one that was called out! They come under pressure! They start feeling that you don't trust them again! The relationship can never be the same again!

That's just an analogy that shows how humans react. Just let the pendulum swing once you know that it's properly fixed. . That's what saved Beyoncé's marriage! The pendulum will ALWAYS settle at the equilibrium position.

PS: Don't apply the above to character default! Deal with it rather! The girl's case is not a character default! It's a life default! Life is bound to change mode from time to time!

Needy. Relationships is indeed complicated. And women are most complicated. Yuu don't even know what they want.
Let me Share u a chat I had with her when she travel to Dubai.

Then I try doing what she said, it now turn to bring needy

I know you all sleeping now. Right now my head is full and I want to pour the content here.

Am going to give details of what transpired between the one I love.

I met her on Facebook sometime last year. Though we live in the same city. She traveled to Abuja for her IT. While chatting, she told me she has been away from relationship for over 3 years cos she doesn't want relationship issues. That relationship is the last thing on her mind.
Well, along the line, we fell for each other. She told me that no sex until marriage and that she won't spent the night in my house. I agreed. Everything was going perfectly well. We were happy and we love each other.

Then she came back. We met. Discus, eat and kiss. She gave me a designer perf she bought for me. She left.
A week later, she called me that she wanna spend the night with me cos she will be traveling to Dubai for Xmas holiday the following week. We spent the night together and she asked me to make love to her. We made love throughout the night. She was happy.

She then traveled to Dubai. While in Dubai, we chat all day till she return back to Nigeria. Then the drama started.

We hardly talk and chat, even when we chats and talk, it was briefed.
She told me she has been busy since she came back. That her aunty nanny and cook traveled for Xmas holiday. She has been the one taking care of her kids and house chores. She kept saying a lot was on her head. Before now, she has complained to me of her aunty giving her much work even when the nanny and cook were around.

This evening when I try to talk about her recent attitude of distancing herself from me, she said I complain a lot. That a lot is on her head and am not helping issues. That I need attention, but she can't give it to me cos she is going though a lot. That she need to be left alone. That relationship is the last thing on her mind. That we should be causal friends for now.

She will be coming back to PH today

Frankly speaking, those words hurt my heart a lot and am confuse.

Beloved, what's your take on tis

Evangkatsoulis:

Sir please how do I contact the foundation?

You must be a member.
It will be announced in the church for people to apply

kobosmart:
mtchew 210k na wetin dey make you cum?
i bet that is like the 100th of the money he received from one persons tithe offering

Chaiii. Not only are u suffering from badbellenus, u dey practice correct witchcraft.

Holy Ghost....

Sometimes when I see disgruntled fellow criticising some men of God, I ask myself, which church do they attend or who is their pastor.
Am blessed to be a member of Salvation Ministries as I have benefited from the grace in that commission.
These men of God that are being criticized are touching lives.
If your church is not blessing you, change church.

Am a student of Uniport currently in my final year. Am sponsoring myself. Anyone conversant with Uniport knows that there is a policy of no school fees no exam. Failure to pay fees as at when due means automatic repeat of a session.

The deadline for this year school fees is 26th January and I know I won't be able to meet up. So I contacted David Ibiyeomie Foundation last year and I got no reply. I kept praying.

Today, a lady from the foundation called me and requested for my account number. Within 5 minutes I got an alert of 210k.

What a perfect start for me. Glory be to God

God bless Salvation Ministries
God bless David Ibiyeomie.

Daddy Freeze and his cohort, ntorrrr.

We have a program coming up by 22nd of January . 5NOG. Benny Hinn will be there.
Join us via www.smhos.org

Join us, your miracle awaits you.