Romance › Re: Is There A Cure For Stammering? by Sweetvie: 12:50pm On Aug 12, 2024 |
Try to slow down your speech and talk at your own pace. I think it gets better with time. |
Travel › Re: Jejoja Family: Husband Reacts After His Wife Tore His Passport (Video) by Sweetvie: 12:10pm On Aug 12, 2024 |
pocohantas: These two are content creators. Don't you guys get it? 🤦♀️🤦♀️ Exactly |
Travel › Re: Memoirs From Chile by Sweetvie: 11:13am On Aug 11, 2024 |
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Fashion › Re: Mia Le Roux Wins Miss South Africa 2024 Pageant (Photos) by Sweetvie: 11:04am On Aug 11, 2024 |
South Africans have to be the most confused set of people. I've never seen a South African win anything in their own country; it's always immigrants. Europeans will never accept you as one of their own, even if your family migrated in the early 80s. To them, you're still just a bloody immigrant. I watched a video of a South African lady being beaten by her colleague at work in China, and I wasn't feeling sorry for her because they've done worse. If the same Asian guy migrates to South Africa, he's considered South African as long as his skin color is white. |
Travel › Re: Migrated To Australia At 48: And God Came Through For Me. by Sweetvie: 5:25pm On Aug 04, 2024 |
Congratulations op |
Sports › Re: D'Tigress makes history, first African Side In The Q/final Of The Olympics by Sweetvie: 5:10pm On Aug 04, 2024 |
Congratulations |
Health › Re: Japa: Only 650 Doctors Attend To Over 3.6 Million Population In Kwara – NMA by Sweetvie: 2:46pm On Jul 31, 2024 |
Lol |
Business › Re: What Weird Things Have You Ever Done Because Of Money? by Sweetvie: 5:28pm On Jul 29, 2024 |
Hmm |
Sports › Re: Photos And Videos Of Team Nigeria At The Opening Ceremony Of The 2024 Olympics by Sweetvie: 10:34am On Jul 27, 2024 |
This is beautiful |
Travel › Re: Life Is Unpredictable (story Of My Life) by Sweetvie: 8:14am On Jul 26, 2024 |
imustsaymymindo: Be grateful man, that this happened to you early at 32, where you can still pick up your life and move on.
Even if you didn't make the mistakes you made now, you would lose that money much later in higher volumes due to the volatility and the nature of investment and by that time you may be too old to recover.
The problem you had that made you make those mistakes is the same problem you are having with learning tech. You have to build. It is better to make habits than achieve goals.
If you lose 20kg of weight through whatever means in a week, even by surgery, there is a high probability for you to gain it back. But if you lose 1kg every month consistently i.e. 20kg in 20 months, you would have imbibed some habits rather than reaching a goal. Imagine you were taking out just 30 minutes every day since June 2023 last year, learning the tech skill (if this is what is sustainable for you to be consistent), imagine how much knowledge you'd have by now.
I understand this could have been a result of the baby loss and you just wanted to make some huge money that'd take you out of depression and give you a quick high. But you need to stop chasing the quick high and build. Learn to use pain to your advantage.
The brain likes the familiar. So if you wonder why Yahooo boys e.g. make so much money and end up in the mud? It's because that amount of money made is unfamiliar to their brains. So the first thing the brain does unconsciously is to reduce that money to how much the brain is familiar with or thinks it can manage. Just like it was until you got to your last property of 18m before you realized how much damage you have done and how needed change is.
Habits trick the brain. So even when the unexpected happens such as a child loss. Those habits would have become: 1. Involuntary 2. Convenient to do through pain.
It's also good you did not travel yet. This kind of event fortifies you ahead. So that when you eventually travel with the credit lifestyle, and debt culture over there, you are more experienced.
Also, you are not doing badly. Either you have property of 18 million naira or 70 million naira. Either way, it doesn't mean you have your life figured out. The key is to have an abundance mentality with whatever you have atm that it is enough to make you do greater exploits. A 70 million naira in hand with little/no skills is a time bomb waiting to explode compared to an 18 million naira in the hands of a skillful individual. In Cubana's voice: Money na water.
I know it's hard to choose consistency over quick results in the world we live in these days. Even I as well, try to use generative AI to solve all my life problems at once these days. But the more I try, the more I recognize the role of consistent learning. Very insightful 🤗 |
Travel › Re: Life Is Unpredictable (story Of My Life) by Sweetvie: 7:48am On Jul 25, 2024 |
Hmmm Life is truly unpredictable |
Travel › Re: I Was A Victim Of Subtle Racism In My Workplace Today by Sweetvie: 10:43am On Jul 24, 2024 |
Bongadu: Stop acting like a forking man child, you mf beta cvck
Nigger grow some forking balls and deal with that bitch next time she no go mess with you
If she calls you ngubu, call her ching chong
I hate when niggers are simps  |
Travel › Re: I Was A Victim Of Subtle Racism In My Workplace Today by Sweetvie: 9:27am On Jul 24, 2024 |
You'd have to calm down. I still remember my first year working as a nurse. I was supposed to attend to a lady, and she said, 'Are you a student nurse or something?' I replied, 'No,' and showed her my name tag. It took her a while before she allowed me to do my job. Then there was an older woman who said she didn't want a black person to attend to her. I reported the incident, and a colleague took over her care. You just need more self-composure. |
Travel › Re: Australia Or Canada Japa Plans. Help Me Decide by Sweetvie: 12:51pm On Jul 22, 2024 |
Australia |
Family › Re: G by Sweetvie: 8:30am On Jul 22, 2024 |
Congratulations |
Travel › Re: Follow Me On My Summer Trip To Vienna Austria by Sweetvie: 8:14am On Jul 22, 2024 |
Here  |
Travel › Re: My Trip To Washington DC from Lagos by Sweetvie: 7:57am On Jul 22, 2024 |
Nice  |
Travel › Re: 26-year-old Nigerian Student Dies In UK After Suffering Seizure by Sweetvie: 2:31pm On Jul 10, 2024 |
Hmm Rip |
Politics › Re: North Korea Publicly Executed 22-Year-Old Man For Watching K-Pop by Sweetvie: 8:57am On Jul 01, 2024 |
Hmm |
Health › Re: Nigerian Boy Spotted With Rare Blue And Red Eyes (pics/video) by Sweetvie: 8:32pm On Jun 17, 2024 |
Odin13: Pure winch 
Believe anything you want..
Make you try lock yourself and the boy for one room .. 12am to 3am
Till then..,  |
Celebrities › Re: 'Better To Have Your Own Money Than Depend On Men’ – Linda Ikeji To Young Ladies by Sweetvie: 5:46pm On Jun 13, 2024 |
That's the secret |
Romance › Re: Left Home To Feed Home,i Couldn't Even Afford To Go Back Home. by Sweetvie: 5:44pm On Jun 13, 2024 |
Autobot05: Find small funds … Go home Re-Strategize and find a way to get funds because every plan needs money sha
If You think a lot about what people will say and all that .. you might waste your time more Exactly! |
Family › Re: Man Rejects Father After Abandoning Him Since He Was 2 Years Old by Sweetvie: 3:49pm On Jun 13, 2024 |
Hmmm |
Sports › Re: Lionel Messi Reveals Inter Miami Will Be His 'last Club' by Sweetvie: 3:40pm On Jun 13, 2024 |
Before nko? Wetin im want do again  |
Car Talk › Re: Nigerian Man Shares His Experience After Ordering A Driverless Taxi In USA (vid) by Sweetvie: 3:22pm On Jun 13, 2024 |
ChiefAkajiaku: You mean I should use my own money to pay for a self-driving taxi that will go and park me in front of a moving trailer, mbà nu! No nau  |
Celebrities › Re: Saida Boj Claps Back At Portable And Her Reply Is Massive by Sweetvie: 3:20pm On Jun 13, 2024 |
This girl mouth no good. I'm patiently waiting for Portable to comeback harder  |
Travel › Re: Welcoming My Mother To Canada. by Sweetvie: 5:19pm On Jun 05, 2024 |
This is beautiful. Congratulations  |
Romance › Re: Wife Plasters Streets with 'Husband Snatcher' Posters by Sweetvie: 6:51pm On May 29, 2024 |
Wahala no dey finish  |
Food › Re: My Breakfast This Morning by Sweetvie: 6:36pm On May 29, 2024 |
Hmmm |
Food › Re: The Food You Can't Give Up Eating. (pictures) by Sweetvie: 7:30pm On May 18, 2024 |
Yam and egg sauce  |
Romance › Re: What Are You Grateful For? by Sweetvie: 7:18pm On May 18, 2024 |
I'm grateful to God for everything |
Romance › Re: About The New Online Forum Created For Igbo by Sweetvie: 6:56pm On May 18, 2024 |
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