₦airaland Forum

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I will never demean women, nor suggest a male is superior to a female. I only fear for the 'harm' women will cause themselves if this trend continues with generations to come. Why be so short-sighted where much implications lies ahead. Too much independence will do womanhood no good. Think about this.

I am shocked at the highlighted. This can't be coming from a guy of this decade, you must 160 years old.
You mean independence is only good for men??

bebrief:
I can assure you, those that have MOVED ON don't do that!!! By the way, where have we (Nigeria) moved to

I do not argue for or against ladies retaining their father's name, please do not get me wrong.  My argument is that it does not matter one way or the other.
Nigeria has moved on in the terms that so many enlightened people have accepted that it does not matter whose name you bear.  Nigeria has also moved in various ways in terms of people and attitude, I am shocked you have not noticed.  Ladies are now more expressive, know what they want and go for it unlike what obtained decades ago.
I will choose a caring wife who chooses to retain her father's name over an uncaring one who decides to adopt my name.
My choice.

bebrief:
A woman has to bear her husband's name as a sign of submission in marriage. Simple.

I am happy you state its 'a sign of submission'. Real submission has nothing to do with names. People have moved on since the time of Adam and Eve, please let the ladies be.

What is in a name??

You think working class ladies are just waiting to be picked off the shelf?
They will hear.

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Up Delta!

They will hear!

Probably size 20 and above!