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omo na free dem jor

ever young

Money is speaking

igbo people with drug business

you go dey trust woman

sack them all

iInjureHerYansh:
How you take know bro
It's exactly what I passed through when she's done..like I have shortage of blood

eye turn you

EreluRoz:
No woman will ever take joy in sleeping with men for money, there's always a sad story behind it.

you are right

i we buy you big phone

omo na free dey jor

why boy know go support him oga

the governor know be mugu

old story

kai na wa for Nigeria girls

is like i we join this protests

na wa oooooo things day happen

Tunubu

USA should mind third business

yoruba people mo na go bank

she most eat am

Dem dey fine christmas money

igbo people with drug business

na wa ooooo

EagleMenage:
Hello Nairaland,


I have a serious confession to make and this has been killing me emotionally and I can’t keep it anymore.

It all started at age 14, I happen to be the only male child and seeing myself among my sisters I started developing a kind of strange affection for them which is really strange and evil.
My sisters are really beautiful indeed to be honest.

I share room with my elder sister, and there was this night I woke up and realized she was on a phone call with her boyfriend and at the same time using her fingers to play with her vagina, but when I saw her she tried to get my attention to have sex with her but I refused.


Honestly the next day I didn’t inform any of my parents about this and I kept it confidential.

I thought that’s all, but afterwards, whenever am alone then I feel like having sex, I’ll become Hot to the extent that, I easily get moody after some few minutes without satisfying myself.

It went on and on until one day I couldn’t hold it anymore and I had to take my elder sister panties and wrapped it round my penis, and this is where it all started, unfortunately I had this idea from no where that I can use that as a means of satisfying myself without any girl.

From the beginning it feels good to me and honestly I was enjoying it, gradually I improved on it.


This is the journey to my addiction…..I started Masturbating with ladies pants everyday at any little opportunity I get.

I can masturbate more than 5 times in a day.

Am an introvert so this really hunt me more and more. It got to a time I feel within myself that it’s evil but I couldn’t talk to anybody about it because I was afraid even my parent couldn’t like me again so I kept it on the low.

I did everything possible to stop this addiction but all failed.

Sometimes I feel a strong energy around me, mostly when am alone and that’s the exact time I’ll start thinking about woman, and this caused me to love porn.


Honestly this hunts me amicably so I decided to have a girlfriend at age 18yrs thinking that will rather help me stop masturbating but it became worst, I even ended up being a womanizer, chasing girls everywhere.

Truth be told, my worst enemy now is Masturbation, I am 28yrs now with a woman and two handsome boys but ridiculously, I still masturbate, it’s eating me up and am getting depressed over this addiction.

Masturbation is reducing me, both physical and spiritually, I feel drained.

Everything is shutting down on me, and I have no one to talk to about this, am really scared my wife will get to know about this and right now things are getting out of hand.

Am facing a lot of trauma, my business isn’t moving anymore and I can’t stop Masturbating.

I can be having sex with my wife and still be masturbating.

This have caused me to have no limit over my sexual life, and whenever am having sex, I feel an extra energy within me that makes me sex for so long without getting tired.


It’s killing me slowly within, right now I’ve developed a waist problem and I don’t know the next damage this will cause me again.


Please everyone here, am pleading you all to help me with a solution, I need help to overcome this, I’ve confessed this to several pastors but couldn’t get any solution……

Please nairalanders, help me.

go and take black bullet

seunoladele:
LADIES, I WANT TO BEG YOU, DON'T MARRY A MAN WITH LOW SELF ESTEEM!

Helping your man succeed is not a problem, supporting a man who has nothing and earns low is not a problem, assisting your man to pay bills till he finds his footing is not a problem but helping a man who is proud, stubborn, unteachable, arrogant, naive or narrow minded because he is plagued with low self esteem is a big problem! A huge mistake! A disaster going somewhere to happen!

Never help a man who is not ready to help himself!

Never marry a man with an entitlement mentality!

Do not think of going to the altar with a man who lacks vision, who doesn't know where his future is heading, who envies you, resents you, argues with you or even fights you whenever you advice him or offer suggestions that will improve his life! You don't need any prophet to tell you he is a disaster going somewhere to happen!

Never marry a man who keeps talking faith but has no work! You hear? Remember what the Bible (James 2:26) says!

Do not marry a man who borrows from you and never pays back!

You can only marry a man who has a sound, clean-clear vision for his life he is pursuing! Read that again, HE IS PURSUING! If he has a vision of building a super successful ministry, he is not at home sleeping by 10:00am claiming he is a full time Pastor! By 5:00am (latest) in the morning, he is up, praying, studying, working and out in the area of his calling ministering to people! Not flirting with you on phone, asking for nudes and masturbating till afternoon when all his mates are at work earning decent income!

Wake up LADIES! I often get questions that make me wonder if these ladies ever think or they are under a spell!

Bottom line, marry with sense!

Ensure he has a job, work or vision he is pursuing!

Ensure he is not lazy or idle!

Ensure he has a growth mentality!

Ensure he records progress daily, weekly, monthly or yearly!

Ensure he is humble, teachable and sees you as his partner not a competitor other wise, he will be bitterly jealous of you, limit you and destroy your chances of ever succeeding in life!

May you not mischoose!

Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!

©Seun Oladele, 2024.
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you don high black bullet

that's very good