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CultureRe: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Tello619: 2:21am On Jun 23, 2025
Fenrir:
I seek no attention

You silly just love to worship gods
Shoo!👐🏾
Commot for here!👋🏾🤡
Shoo Shoo!👐🏾
CultureRe: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Tello619: 2:31am On Jun 22, 2025
Fenrir:
I understand mate

You speak a white mans language as your national language

You watch white mans movies

You use white mans social media

You watch white mans sports

You basically want to be us, you want to emulate us

Now I understand the inferiority complex in the Nigerian man

All other African countries are removing anything white, and going back to their roots and original cultures

Not the Nigerian man, glad to know you love us so much 😊 im flattered
All over watching a Hollywood movie??😆
You couldn't see anything to talk about you chose to bring up a movie I chose to watch with my family after a long hectic day of replying your attention-seeking self?!!??
Are you just to desperate to reply with something that you pick the most stupidest excuse to say something back??🫵🏾🤡
Me who still speaks my language?
Me who still reverence my ancestors and defends my heritage over religion?
Me who still arraigns myself in my cultural attires during special tribal occasions, celebrations or family get-together?
Me who's defends my root from racist tards like yourself?🫵🏾🤡
But because...
JUST BECAUSE...
I saw a cool movie trailer and asked my family to watch with me...
YOU THINK I WANNA BE YOUU??!!!
I wanna be like white people😆😆😆
how PATHETIC can you get in the space of 3 days TELL ME
Oh so now you want to go down the line of skin color and make it about race
OVER A GODDAMN MOVIE?😆😆😆😆
Over a goddamn movie that eveeyone watches just for entertainment?
I'm sorry but a man in his 40s doing things like a teenager? Oof!.no no no👋🏾😆 I just can't!
(Oof! I know now that I replied, you won't stop talking about watching movies, black people and white people while fanning yourself and flipping your hair like a little talkative squirrel 🤦🏾‍♂️)
CultureRe: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Tello619:
Fenrir:
IM 40!! Well, 40 next month, 04/07/1985

I grew up in the UK, I was born in 1985 and 1998 i was sent to the uk

So I was educated the British way, I didn't even speak English until I got there and I was an outcast there

My only friends in England were Africans and Asians

Why do you think I live in an African country? Because Africans treated me better than my own race because I was always around Nigerian women growing up in the uk

Then I get here at 17 and discover the women are always amazing but the men in Nigeria are vile
I have a movie to watch with my family,
Buh-Bye 👋🏾
CultureRe: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Tello619: 9:22pm On Jun 21, 2025
Fenrir:
IM 40!! Well, 40 next month, 04/07/1985

I grew up in the UK, I was born in 1985 and 1998 i was sent to the uk

So I was educated the British way, I didn't even speak English until I got there and I was an outcast there

My only friends in England were Africans and Asians

Why do you think I live in African country? Because Africans treated me better than my own race because I was always around Nigerian women growing up in the uk

Then I get here at 17 and discover the woman are always amazing but the men in Nigeria are vile
Idk, Suit yourself I guess?🤷🏾‍♂️
CultureRe: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Tello619: 9:13pm On Jun 21, 2025
Fenrir:
Silly little boy, you fail to grasp why i started this topic

I was born in Norway to a Norwegian/Swedish/Danish family

Then sent to the UK at 13

When I land here you see me use a Norwegian passport

But the second i talk, you hear a British voice come out

You hear me swear the British way

You hear the idioms and phrases I use are British so you refuse to listen and assume I'm a British man that got Norwegian citizenship

No, I was a Norwegian child that was emancipated and sent to the UK

So, here you do literally blame ME for the British because you are rude and do not listen

The women here don't do that, they understand the difference between nationalities, ethnicities, citizenship and all the other nonsense

You men don't
Don't be stupid!🤡 That was a sentence to explain why you got tackled by my folks
I know you're a Norwegian child, didn't you see the part I talked about your Nordic ancestors? Didn't you see the part where I asked you why you were taking the punch for the British when they're not your people? Plus i thought you said something about being an American citizen and having ginger hair, and being a black person because of the TikTok trend about "gingers are the new blacks"
I didn't think you were British, dingus! I said that's the misconception my people have about you because of your skin and voice since you said it yourself earlier, "...is it because of my voice" I believe you remember you said that🤷🏾‍♂️
The same way black people are diverse but face certain situations because of a common stereotype. It's the same way you were mistaken to be British by my people, then blamed when youre not and your Nordic ancestors had no part in what was done to Africa. Or have you forgotten, old man?
CultureRe: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Tello619: 8:57pm On Jun 21, 2025
Fenrir:
What exactly have you countered?

Mate i know im right for 1 reason, no woman on here defends you against what I say, not 1 Nigerian woman has defended you at all

Its all Nigerian men saying you are not this and not that

Its Nigerian men saying you respect women, its Nigerian men saying everything about themselves

Not 1 woman on here or in real life stands up for you, doesn't that tell you something?

Your own sisters
Your own daughters
Your own cousins
Your own aunts
Your own mothers
Your own girlfriends
Your own wives

Your own women are not standing up for you and telling me im wrong

And the seriously messed thing is when a woman from any race dates outside her own they always say they feel safer with white men dating them and marrying them
Plus this is a deserted thread! Look around, check who's viewing this topic underneath the site layout and you'll see no one is, it's probably just you and me. Everyone who did when you put up this thread are gone. They don't even know what's happening down this thread because the first few pages addresses the original topic you created this to be. No one knows it's forcefully trying to be changed right now.
It's a deserted thread, a lot of new topics are created in this forum and this your topic is old and forgotten that's why no one is following to disagree or agree😆
CultureRe: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Tello619: 8:41pm On Jun 21, 2025
Fenrir:
As for scared

Thats hilarious, from 21-33 I was in every major war on the planet

Ive been shot
Stabbed
Almost gutted
Survived explosions
Survived helicopter crashes

What Nigerian men run from, I run towards
Name 1 thing you have actually physically fought for?

You dont fight for your country
You dont fight for your women
You dont fight for yourself
You dont fight to improve your life
You dont fight for your kids

For 400 hundred some of my race were taking you as slaves and you still complain about it

You were taking us for longer

Muslims were taking you for 1300 years at numbers of 12,000 a year
And they are still doing it today but you wont fight to stop and only point fingers at us

When in both case it was your own people selling you

Ive rescued women in this country who's fathers have literally sold them into trafficking

Yet we are the evil ones when you are still selling your own flesh and blood to Arabs
All of that and you're still scared to go back to the original topic of why I'm here? Go read your subheading again and come back here, explain to me if what you're saying now aligns 😆
You brought something up
I countered
You argued and lost ground
You changed topic to avoid being the one who goes silent first
I warned about about changing topic
You did anyway and clinged so hard
I advised to go back and address the original topic
You kept ignoring the topic I said to go back to, VILLAINIZING me to play some sort of online hero of women that I have no problem with
I asked why you are scared to stick to why you made this thread?
You're saying you got shot into space, stabbed in your butt, survived a fart explosion etc 😆😆😆🤡
Oh you all that happened to you and you still can't be bold enough keep a conversation and stand your ground even if you lost grounds without trying to change it to avoid looking stupid?
Oof!🫵🏾🤡
I remember when you even told me not to include irrelevant talks and stick to the point but then look at you now... Ayayayayaya!😆😆
CultureRe: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Tello619: 8:23pm On Jun 21, 2025
Fenrir:
What exactly have you countered?

Mate i know im right for 1 reason, no woman on here defends you against what I say, not 1 Nigerian woman has defended you at all

Its all Nigerian men saying you are not this and not that

Its Nigerian men saying you respect women, its Nigerian men saying everything about themselves

Not 1 woman on here or in real life stands up for you, doesn't that tell you something?

Your own sisters
Your own daughters
Your own cousins
Your own aunts
Your own mothers
Your own girlfriends
Your own wives

Your own women are not standing up for you and telling me im wrong

And the seriously messed thing is when a woman from any race dates outside her own they always say they feel safer with white men dating them and marrying them
Countered your claims about being blamed for what British did in Africa (particularly Nigeria) as you get tackled by my people who mistake you for being British because of your skin and accent whereas you're of Nordic descent😆 and you tried pointing fingers at us because of the slavery that thrived in Africa before the British came, the popular whataboutism antics y'all love to use. Forgetting your own ancestor's notorious involvement in slavery and how it was one of the backbone of the Nordic establishment.
You felt stupid about it and I sensed in your replies that you felt defeated and like an hypocrite pointing fingers when you also descended from notorious slavers😆 I was an opposition to you on it and was satisfied how defeated you seemed about it, talking off-topic about the businesses you don't run in Nigeria, how many years you've stayed in Nigeria, the areas you farm vegetables (as if I asked🤡) and was even toning down on your derogatory remarks about Nigeria, saying some really cool stuff so you don't look like a hater.
You then added the Islam sentiment about women and then I jumped in to clarify the discrimation of women in Nigeria isn't like other Islamic countries, I mean women here have a voice! Women are allowed to preside in areas of government and private enterprises or institutions. Crimes against women on news are always greeted with public disapproval unlike other Islamic countries where women don't have such privilege and right or protection. But because I talked about it you seized the opportunity to play offense and forced me to play defense when it's a totally unrelated topic and isn't what I was interested in as I would also advocate for women anywhere in the world. Trying to make me look like I support crimes against women when I don't😆
AND TILL NOW, YOU STILL KEEP DOING IT BECAUSE YOU DON'T WANT TO LOOK STUPID BEING THE ONE WHO GOES SILENT AFTER LOSING GROUND IN AN ARGUMENT, ISN'T IThuh?🤡🤡🤡
Wanna be the ultimate hero of women by being an online keyboard warrior who ragebaits and antagonize anyone who moves😆😆😆
CultureRe: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Tello619: 5:59pm On Jun 21, 2025
Fenrir:
What do ALL Nigerian men call themselves?

Humble
Respectful
Tolerant
Godly
Good

How is the definition of those words being dishonest and disrespectful demanding everyone in the world adhere to your traditions against their will and through manipulation and falsely claiming they are mandatory and not a choice

And worst of all is that when you come to our countries and even other African countries and any country to marry those women

You refuse to do the tradition of those people

You are hypocrites and with nothing but double standards and false projections of what you are
Why are you so scared of going back to the topic you were countered for? You're like a child scared of the dark and wants to stay in the brightly lit sitting room instead🫵🏾😆
You brought up a topic
You were countered
You argued and lost grounds
You felt stupid and quickly changed the topic
😆😆😆
It would've been a different case if this was the original topic but it's not! You're so scared of going back to a discussion you failed so you don't appear too defeated🫵🏾😆
Desperately initiating and clinging to a totally unrelated topic after being warned not to
Accept defeat and run away with your tail between your legs!🫵🏾😆
If you want to fight a good fight! Go out there and partner with organizations that are dedicated to fighting for women💯
There are women out there with abusive narcissistic husbands, take up their case and give them justice! Not ragebaiting online to get a random reaction and start trash-talking just about anybody like some naive teenager who choose to be an online keyboard warrior that yields 0 fruits
And use media platforms that influences a larger range of audience like X, Facebook, TikTok etc. not a little corner like this😆
CultureRe: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Tello619: 5:05pm On Jun 21, 2025
Fenrir:
It is all Nigerian men though little boy

If you as fathers and uncle judge the character of men on the basis of that man will willingly suffer humiliation and stroking your ego in fake traditions you have done nothing your ancestors said you had to do to get them

Over

If that man would take a bullet for your daughters and nieces

Provide for one

Make her happy

Do right by her and actually treat her like a human

That speaks volumes more about the characters of you as men than anything else
THIS IS NOT THE TOPIC I CAME HERE FOR
STOP FORCING ME TO BE AN OPPOSITION SO YOU CAN RUN AWAY FROM THE INITIAL TOPIC
😆😆😆😆
CultureRe: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Tello619:
Fenrir:
No, you are not mate, do you have a sister or female cousin?

If you do what happened when she got married?
Did you stand up for her to your family and say she doesn't have to honour and stroke the ego of your older male relatives to get married for those men doing nothing they are supposed to do for it?

Or did you support the fraudulent claims that her parents and extended family have control of her life? And how she starts her marriage?

What you do is support anything benefits you and turn a blind eye to anything that doesn't
❌I didn't reply under your topic because of this!
❌Don't attack me about this like I oppose your sentiment, I don't! It's a validated cause. It's a commendable cause! I'm not opposing you about it. Just don't make it about all Nigerian men in general because you're not the only one out here who cares for women and would go lengths to protect womanhood.
❌Stop forcing me to look like an opposition on this topic just so you can keep talking, talking, talking! I refuse to be! I'm not!
❌Stick to the original topic! I warned about going off topic and including totally unrelated subject to the original
❌Quit antagonizing people like me who share in your sentiment about the welfare of women worldwide!
❌I repeat, let's stick to the original topic! Are you so scared of it that you're forcing me to look like the ENEMY that I'm not so.you can stay on this particular topic? You felt like you were losing ground in the initial one, so you went off topic and projected your nonsense on me so you can gain more ground and start sending lengthy speeches (except it's in a very different topic that I'm not opposing)
❌STOP STOP STOP❌
IM THE WRONG PERSON TO BE FIGHTING ABOUT THIS! you can be of great help if you go out there and partner with organizations that protects women and actually be useful! Not VILLAINIZING just about any Nigerian man you come across online. It's unnecessary and to the think that a man of your age can be so stubborn and not listen to what I'm saying now is wild and sickening!😆 You're old enough to avoid all these childish antics of yours. STOP PROJECTING
CultureRe: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Tello619: 3:38pm On Jun 20, 2025
Fenrir:
No, you are not mate, do you have a sister or female cousin?

If you do what happened when she got married?
Did you stand up for her to your family and say she doesn't have to honour and stroke the ego of your older male relatives to get married for those men doing nothing they are supposed to do for it?

Or did you support the fraudulent claims that her parents and extended family have control of her life? And how she starts her marriage?

What you do is support anything benefits you and turn a blind eye to anything that doesn't
Look how desperate you are to just villainize😆 I'm actually tired of repeating it but if that's what it takes you to set your head right I will
I AM NOT THE ONE TO FIGHT ABOUT ALL THIS
Partner with organizations that kicks against "discrimation against women". Take up cases and deal with it legally so that offenders are punished! That's how you fight the good fight💯
Not come online to pick on random unsuspecting Nigerian and start attacking them for something they are not, people who also don't approve of such actions! It gives off "too scared to go head on with offenders and wants to only face random personalities online free instead🤷🏾‍♂️
I keep repeating this again and again but you're so hell bent on fighting me about it like😆😆😆
BRUH! IM NOT YOUR ENEMY!!! I can't afford to take the punch for the offence of narcistic men out there when that's not who I am!
I'm here to address your original topic and not this so can we go back to talking on what you said concerning being blamed for what the British did in Nigeria? Because that's why I'm here!😆🤷🏾‍♂️ You didn't like how it was going and barely replied enough so you quickly diverted the topic to something else so that you'll be able to reply with lengthy paragraphs🤦🏾‍♂️😆😆
And I warned against going off-topic and involving totally unrelated points but no! You had to change topic to cover up the original one
CultureRe: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Tello619: 2:19pm On Jun 20, 2025
Fenrir:
No, you are not mate, do you have a sister or female cousin?

If you do what happened when she got married?
Did you stand up for her to your family and say she doesn't have to honour and stroke the ego of your older male relatives to get married for those men doing nothing they are supposed to do for it?

Or did you support the fraudulent claims that her parents and extended family have control of her life? And how she starts her marriage?

What you do is support anything benefits you and turn a blind eye to anything that doesn't
My extended family are too busy to want to do that to my sister. She is married and living a happy life with her Nigerian spouse🤷🏾‍♂️ she doesn't feel uncomfortable for in her marriage and is being treated right! She's currently in Seychelles with her husband but will be back to Nigeria soon. Her husband (an Urhobo man) has been good to her and there's no cause for alarm🤷🏾‍♂️
You think I wouldn't want to be a good father and husband? Being an horrible husband and father is an individual choice and narcistic people like that are shamed where I come from.
So why am I the one to try to taunt all this
I'm here because of your original topic not this and you're still so desperate to criticize me about it like what the hellhuh? I'm.the wrong person for all this bashing😆😆😆
CultureRe: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Tello619: 2:05pm On Jun 20, 2025
Fenrir:
Now if you dont mind, my little asked me to bake her a cake

And yes, I cook for my child myself because there is a huge difference between a father and a dad

And what you dont understand, hired help is just that, its help hired to make situations a bit easier

Im still her dad so if she asks me to do something for her, you better understand im doing myself

You dont know the difference between a father and a dad
And you think I also didn't have a wonderful dad? Mr Jacob Owoicho he might be late today but he left a good legacy for his kids and wife we are 4 kids and we all enjoyed the dad we had, he trained his sons right and was strict with living a good life void of immorality. And I'm not married yet I'm 21 and still trying to fully stable my finances before venturing into marriage. I grew up in an environment where women aren't discriminated and men who violate women are mocked and shamed. It's not a norm here because of just a few bad narcissist individuals. I also want to be a good father to my kids because I grew up knowing it's the right thing! I don't see why i should be the one for you to say all of this to...
I'm not there because of this topic! I'm here because of the whole topic about being blamed for what the British did to Nigeria and all the claims you made under the topic earlier
CultureRe: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Tello619: 1:55pm On Jun 20, 2025
Fenrir:
Now if you dont mind, my little asked me to bake her a cake

And yes, I cook for my child myself because there is a huge difference between a father and a dad

And what you dont understand, hired help is just that, its help hired to make situations a bit easier

Im still her dad so if she asks me to do something for her, you better understand im doing myself

You dont know the difference between a father and a dad
Do you know how you look like with all this?
You look like someone who witnessed a robbery and instead of going after the thief, you walk to a road side and start attacking a random person because you hate thieves😆 you don't care if the person also hates thieves you still attack him.
CultureRe: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Tello619: 12:15pm On Jun 20, 2025
Fenrir:
Do all Nigerian men (fathers and uncles) violate human rights when your daughters and nieces and get married by demanding and telling fibs (committing fraud) over traditions you have not earned or done what your ancestors the people that started them said they were for?

Do any of you men alive today actually get off your backsides and verify yourself that your fathers and uncles are actually telling the truth?

Is this a country an uncle or a father can be a known rapist and the automatic attitude is you still respect him because hes older?

You men are not respectful, you are not humble, you are not godly or god fearing and you are not good while you are still attempting to force adherence to that those traditions that are based of woman being abused, forced marriages, marital rape and worst aspects of humanity

Because thats what all of your wedding traditions are celebrating and you tell fibs all about them again proving you have no respect for anyone but yourselves as men

No respect for women if they day they are born you are not honest with them
This is clearly a misconception you've made up for yourself to believe...
To assume ALL the males in Nigeria does this😆 even after I made it clear that this isn't an Arab country that discrimination against women is normal and accepted!
You want to assume you're the only one here who's interested in protecting women!
You want to assume there aren't Nigerian fathers out there who look after their wives, daughters, sisters etc.
You even used Islam in the North because the world knows how Islam holds women in society as seen in some Arab countries today. So you assume Nigeria is like that too
You don't even want to understand my explanation😆 you desperately want to villainize "Nigerian men" as a whole.
You're making enemies of unsuspecting Nigerians online so that you can trash-talk on the basis of discrimination against women and think you're doing it right... even if it involves men who share in your sentiment😆 and I made an example of myself! But you don't care because you desperately want to villainize me too!.just so you can steady trash-talk me instead of going out there to face the men who perpetuates this crime against women
You're doing a good thing fighting for women but you stupidly pick random people to be your enemy instead of actually going after the real offenders
And I recommended you to partner with organizations that protects women, a lot of government and non-government organizations do it, partner with them and others who wants to serve that purpose but no you want to keep trash-talking me about it like I'm part of it😆
You think you're the one only one who has this in mind and that every Nigerian man you see is an enemy, which is why you don't even care when I said I support your protection expect you're doing it wrong
You don't go after every one and make them enemies, innocent ones included because you want to fight the offenders
CultureRe: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Tello619: 11:46am On Jun 20, 2025
Fenrir:
No, im not mate

I directly asked you a question and until you actually answer it since you are making noise about respecting women

I have no obligation to satisfy yours

How do you respect women in Nigeria when all over the country a woman cannot safely travel on here own or step outside her home after dark

And all women have the safety fears and concerns

The majority of women that do step outside after dark in Nigeria

Get robbed, attacked or violated

How come we can do it, but you cannot?

Take the uk an example it was one the safest countries in the world for women, they made the mistake of letting a particular belief system and refugees of that belief into their country and what happened to innocent little girls and women?

And particular belief system has a separate set of laws in Nigeria

Youe government is mostly that particular belief system and your nationality seems to go above and beyond to value that belief system and protect more then any other

So under what definition do you respect women at all? And even Christian men in Nigeria practice elements of that particular belief system

That belief system was in Nigeria centuries before Christianity was and it was brought you by mali traders

Who's attacking your country now? Is it other people of that belief system or anyone else? And the only solutions you can think of is giving them half your country which would make women suffer

Or pay them to stop? You never once as men considered fighting for your country and your mothers, sisters, daughters, aunts or cousins

The women you say you respect
Now ask yourself, with this topic of yours? How do you think Nigerian woman will react to this? I'm talking about the original topic... The one about "...being blamed for wust British did" and all the things you've said about her country and her race how do you think a Nigerian woman will react? You started off wrong brody
CultureRe: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Tello619: 11:42am On Jun 20, 2025
Fenrir:
And ive clearly said before I have issues with articulation in typing

Not with pen and paper or verbal debate but actually typing and it is a form of dyslexia

Lets do this in person then, im willing but majority of you men won't simply because I can physically do to you what you do to the women here

And I think thats justified, if a little man is allowed to bully physically weaker women and children then a bigger and stronger and physically capable can is and should be allowed to bully that weaker man that bullys women and children
Let me copy and paste:
"You're trying to protect Nigerian women from the harms of this world because for a fact women globally tend to face a common type of problem! Society we a whole doesn't fully favour womanhood... And you're right for that! Nobody is attacking you foYou'rer protecting women
The only prohiem is why are you trash-talking random unsuspecting Nigerians? Isn't it better to go after this certain type of men individually? Protect this women through legal means and seek justice for the ones being violated! A lot of Nigerian NGOs are doing it, join the train!
Not come online and attack unsuspecting Nigerians who might even share in the same sentiment! Like me for example, you think I want women to be violated? I don't! And I won't support it! But look! You're projecting it on me! You're fighting me about it like I support it when I DON'T! Fighting the wrong people the wrong way! This isn't how you do it! You don't attack random people online and get them to react so that you can project it on them and start fighting them about it
You're doing it wrong! 🤦🏾‍♂️"
This is a sentiment a lot of Nigerians in the media space also share, this can become a discussion and a lot of Nigerians will storm in with support because culturally women aren't meant to be like that. But you did it wrong by assuming you're in an Arab countries that culturally subjects women as a normal practice. You started attacking everyone and how do you think that translate to a random Nigerian? He's going to be offended because why put the entire country in one basket? Now when they you get their reaction you project it on them and start attacking them about it when they're not your target? They're not who you're supposed to fight? These could be folks who share in the same sentiment but you already ruined it by projecting it on them! For example; Me! I can't count how many times you've projected it on me🤷🏾‍♂️ You already villainized an innocent individual and because you got a reply, you assume they're the enemy and continue trash-talking them? And you think you're doing it right? You should go out there and partner with NGOs that are involved in protecting the women! That's how it's done! Not come online to project it on everyone and attacking the personality of a random Nigerian who just addressed your disrespect😐
CultureRe: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Tello619: 11:28am On Jun 20, 2025
Fenrir:
And ive clearly said before I have issues with articulation in typing

Not with pen and paper or verbal debate but actually typing and it is a form of dyslexia

Lets do this in person then, im willing but majority of you men won't simply because I can physically do to you what you do to the women here

And I think thats justified, if a little man is allowed to bully physically weaker women and children then a bigger and stronger and physically capable can is and should be allowed to bully that weaker man that bullys women and children
You're infact ignoring a very important part of what I said😆
CultureRe: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Tello619: 11:25am On Jun 20, 2025
Fenrir:
Yes it is mate, in all the world Nigeria has highest amount of women that have circumcised

That is a fact, you mutilated more women then any other country in the world

That is a society issue not a religious issue and not a cultural issue, its men wanting to remove parts of the female body and you only stopped doing 10 years ago, because the world made you, men like me made you, half of you still brag about what you did to those poor women and would still he doing it today if you could and its illegal but still happen in half of your country

Where Shariah law rules your country
you're ignoring a very important part of what I said earlier. If you do you'll fully understand the stupidity in this...
I'll wait
CultureRe: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Tello619: 11:23am On Jun 20, 2025
Fenrir:
Im an atheist, I dont get involved in religion i simply dont care about it

What i have a problem is a country claiming to be secular and have no nationally required religion

But at the same time that government clearly values and gives higher priority to 1 particular belief system

If Nigeria was truly a secular country where all beliefs and none are equal then Shariah law would not exist in this country because its 1 set of for multiple groups of people and another set of laws for 1 other set of people making equality something thats impossible in Nigeria

And your school system is proof of that
Your schools respect Christian beliefs and the one I cannot type because I get banned when typing it but the one I spent years fighting at war against

The that is clearly not a religion of peace but the school system does not respect atheist beliefs or Jewish for example or many more

How can you have freedom of worship and the majority if your schools force 2 particular religions in those schools at the same time? Its a contradiction and double standards and the religion is not peaceful gets priority every time

When your schools have prayer and religious lessons why is there is not an option for the parents to choose 1 of 2 options

1) the school either teaches about all beliefs and none to build tolerance

Or

2) the parents can just choose for their child to have extra science lessons or reading lessons or maths instead

Are starting to see my issue WITH NATIONALITY not the race yet? Its double standards and being hypocrites
You haven't really replied me with all of this bro, I'm reading your submissions and it's not doing justice to this. Read what I said again and reply me... You didn't address the most important part of that my write up
CultureRe: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Tello619: 11:17am On Jun 20, 2025
Fenrir:
Im just stating a fact

You cannot claim respect for anything if the evidence shows the opposite

And when I make topics I dont actually mention race until one of brings it up first

Its all here in the topics go and check, you can clearly verify i dont see the world as black or white or yellow or purple, I see it as nationality issues

And point out flaws in nationalities
If you were born in China your skin would make no difference your nationality would be Chinese

But race, culture, ethnicity and religion are completely irrelevant when it comes to nationality

If you are born in a country and raised in that country and educated that country you will have the attitude and mindset of that country and even the accent of that country
Jesus Christ🤦🏾‍♂️ there are evidence YES! but it's not a societal practice where women are violated compared the some other countries. The law here illegalized domestic violence and violence against the girl child! so stop taking this like it's an Islamic country that culturally deneans womanhood🤦🏾‍♂️
CultureRe: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Tello619: 11:06am On Jun 20, 2025
Fenrir:
Am I or am I not, now a citizen of this country? Legally and contributing to it in many ways that majority of you men do not and at the same time not taking a single thing from it?

I dont own businesses here
I dont make any money from Nigeria at all

All I own in Nigeria are a few houses in the areas I consider beautiful because of the landscape and 1 plot of land I use as an allotment to grow vegetables i miss from Europe that are not easy to buy here

Does a citizen of a country no matter nationality have an equal say in that country, not the cultures because those will always be yours

But since im willing to fight for this country and shed my blood for it now i am a citizen don't i deserve an equal say in its issues?

Im willing to do the 1 thing most of will not do for this country or any country you become a citizen of and take bullets for it

Nigeria is a great country and there is no problem with the country itself

The problem in any country are the particular men in control of it

And you still didn't answer my question on how you respect women if they cannot travel feeling safe or step outside their homes in their own country after dark and feel safe doing it
If you're a citizen of the country then why claim this site is racist and aims at restricting your demographic? If you break the rules and say certain inappropriate things, you get banned! Full stop! Irrespective of what point you were trying to make! It happens to all of us! So why conclude that it's racist because you're different in Nigeria. No it's not
See how the rest of your submission just now are irrelevant! Who asked you for all that information? `who asked you if you were patriotic? Who asked you what business you own here? I didn't!
You're trying to protect Nigerian women from the harms of this world because for a fact women globally tend to face a common type of problem! Society we a whole doesn't fully favour womanhood... And you're right for that! Nobody is attacking you for protecting women
The only prohiem is why are you trash-talking random unsuspecting Nigerians? Isn't it better to go after this certain type of men individually? Protect this women through legal means and seek justice for the ones being violated! A lot of Nigerian NGOs are doing it, join the train!
Not come online and attack unsuspecting Nigerians who might even share in the same sentiment! Like me for example, you think I want women to be violated? I don't! And I won't support it! But look! You're projecting it on me! You're fighting me about it like I support it when I DON'T! Fighting the wrong people the wrong way! This isn't how you do it! You don't attack random people online and get them to react so that you can project it on them and start fighting them about it
You're doing it wrong! 🤦🏾‍♂️
CultureRe: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Tello619: 10:44am On Jun 20, 2025
Fenrir:
If you men respect women in Nigeria especially your own women in any part of the country why are the safest countries for women of any nationality or ethnicity or race always

1) Norway

2) Finland

3) Iceland

4) Denmark

5) Luxembourg

6) Switzerland

7) Sweden

cool Austria

9) the United kingdom ( though that one should be removed considering the current situation with a particular belief system abusing girls and the government letting them) currently not safe at all

10) the Netherlands

If Nigerian men or African men in general respect women why can they not step outside and feel safe alone?

Why are the safest countries for women always white countries? The countries you men always complain about but are desperate to live in?

Where does Nigeria rank for female safety? Where is the respect for women in a country where the men still brag that a lot of women were circumcised and you only stopped doing 10 years ago? And would be doing it today if we didn't stop you?

Seriously where the respect for women in Nigeria? If you respected women at all, they would be able to freely go outside alone not worrying and not feeling in danger

How can you claim respect for anything when the evidence says the opposite?

And why did this site add the face for austria? Thats just weird
And you think that's exclusive to only Nigeria? And see how you're bringing "why are they all white countries" into this? Will you later claim you didn't bring race into a discussion of nationality?😆 These issues aren't exclusive in Nigeria and even if it exists, you think they aren't legal agencies responsible for protecting woman rights from offenders? You were using Islam in the North to back your claims and I said it's not like you're trying to paint it as. Some Arab/Islam countries have this norm of subjecting women but because the religion is practiced here in Nigeria doesn't mean it's an accepted or practiced here too because culturally women aren't subjected unless in cases involving narcistic individuals😆 if it happens, it's on an individual level and not a societal practice accepted and normalized✋🏾😆 and that's what my reply to you is all about dingus
CultureRe: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Tello619: 10:35am On Jun 20, 2025
Fenrir:
🤣 I type the truth about what you are specifically and where you are from and I get deleted and banned

This site is racist and it will do anything to protect 1 type of people

Have any Christians on here noticed that, 1 specific belief system on here can literally say anything at all with no issues

But if you type certain things about it then you sre banned and its deleted
Bwoy! I also get banned😆 it's not racist, everyone has that experience here! This forum isn't that sophisticated to be selective in their restrictions and there aren't provisions for filtering users of a particular demographic for bans😆 so shut up about those racism allegations! This is a very old forum, one that lasted since around 2003, the vision was to give Nigerians a forum to interact and discuss about pressing issues and connect. Nobody had your likes in mind when creating and using this site since the get go
CultureRe: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Tello619: 7:10pm On Jun 19, 2025
Fenrir:
Then stop being a silly little boy and bringing irrelevant skin color and irrelevant words into it

I said Nigerian Muslims
You said Arab

The majority of this countries men are evil and its that simple
And with what I've observed, you're the one who brings some irrelevant topics😆 so far only 40% of your long paragraphs addresses the discussion at hand while the remaining 60% are irrelevant talks. And if you look closely i ignore the irrelevant parts and only reply the ones that stays on the topic (except for the bride price part where I had to touch on a bit) remember I said I don't fancy going off topic

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