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Stop clicking on every link you come across, especially the one that promise benefits you didn't work for.

Solution lies in the last line of your write-up.
Just forget about her and move on.

The Holy Spirit is not stereotype in means of communication. He is the free spirit of God and so, is dynamic in fellowship with believers. Hallelujah

Zonefree:
About 19 years?

Can she swear "oath of loyalty" in a strong deity? If NO, there's nothing emotional about the reunion.

Joy killer. Did the husband complain to you?

R

Samantha125:
Are you telling me that as long as men have peace of mind, then don't have any preference in women?

Peace and respect. Dazall

The generation she described has passed. Welcome to Gen Z-- dey for who dey for you.

The typical Nigerian lady sees dating as a means out of poverty. They demand what their father couldn't give them. Worse, if the lady has an entitlement mindset. So, this advice invariably falls on deaf ears.

D Odeh dey command me for my own money. Me wen dey nearly die for hustle B4 I get the barlary.

Does this mean if she sends money to her dad, she would die? Just thinking aloud.

In New Orleans, the prisoners are not lean, hmmm...

COUNSELING IS NOT FOR WOMEN
Listen up, Men! Women Don't Want Counseling, They Want A Man Who Doesn't Know They Are Manipulators

When a woman tells you she wants “counseling,” it’s not wisdom she seeks—it's validation. She doesn’t want correction; she wants a co-sign. She’s not looking for truth; she’s looking for someone to blame you for her actions and make her feel good doing it.

That’s why the moment you start speaking facts, laying down accountability, or asking her to own her nonsense, she’s out. She doesn’t want healing. She wants escape. And when she runs, she won’t go to solitude or a therapist—she’ll run straight into the arms of a simp.

You know the type. The emotional male. The soft boy who thinks being agreeable earns him love. The one who hugs her pain instead of correcting her path. That man becomes her dumping ground, not her destination. But she’ll stay there for as long as it feeds her ego.

And you? If you dared to speak truth and lead with standards, she’ll call you toxic, controlling, or heartless. But deep down, she knows you were the alpha she couldn’t manipulate. That burns her.

Let this burn into your head, young kings:
Women don't leave men for better men—they leave them for weaker ones who can’t see through their games. And those weak men? They're the emotional landfill of broken women who couldn’t handle real correction.

So what’s the move?
Don’t chase. Don’t explain. Don’t negotiate with chaos. Stay firm. Stand tall. Let simps inherit the lies while you guard your peace and your kingdom. Your discipline will attract the woman who fears God, respects truth, and honors masculine leadership.

Be the man she couldn't lie to.
Not the man she could manipulate.

Copied

I concur.

Kwekougho:
Obi is already preparing his black clothes

This is about the late Pope. No dey choke yourself with Obi matter.

Portable will help us deal with Dino

Obi Cubana's next of kin. Sounds like a full time job.

Thread, stricted for female folks

Trumpu ti ya were ni o

SoftSport:
The crisis in Benue is tough, but President Tinubu is taking steps to improve security. 💪

Fool, defend failure when citizens are dieing for no just cause.

Ok

This Karanja (midget) is always on the news for bad reasons.

collinsoft:
This lady mercy chinwo should tone down. This is not a virture that is christ like.

Will you shut your mouth?

Sirchiboy:
Please what could be the problem

Go and deworm

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram Burna boy stage performance no be here o !!!


U see Burna boy, Rema, D banj. if those people perform for u ehh.

Anyways na today I no say malaria fit make preek no stand.

I have been sick since yesterday but I manage JAZZ in ASHAWO house this morning by 5am.

Time don reach to NACK. Naso my PREEK flat like Hausa plate.


Nothing way this girl no do to make my PREEK stand attention but too no avail. PREEK no gree respect em self. Kai

LITE UP my WEED in peace

WTF MAN!

That your wakawaka preek don finally spoil. Kuku repent now bifor your beans burn.

May God heal the Pop

Lie kee you there...Ashe kobo kobo.

Your mouth bend. Adeke

OBJ always showing off youthful fits in old age. That is grace.

What kinda childish banter is all this, for crying out loud? Can't these two adults sheath their swords for the sanity of public space. I mean, it's the beginning of another year.