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Even the junta era never witnessed this level of impunity exercise

Such level of confidence usually comes from a place of perfected plan.
Good people of Osun will speak and elect their leader at the polls.

Stvpid stunts from the apc.

Only God can stop PO from winning in 2027👍

It's really a pathetic situation.
Catholic Church has always stood for the truth in the face of bad leadership.

Samantha125:
Tell me you're biased without telling me you're biased.

Have a good day.

I'm only being objective here,my lady.



Pleasant day ahead✌️

Teymanhenry:
Does my profile says I'm female? I think I gotta check this. I'm his third son. Your response seems to show you didn't really understand the story

Yea,you have an (f) affix to your moniker.

Samantha125:
But not all of them are like that, let's not generalise... There are some men who also hate and discriminate against their step children.

It's rare to find a man who intentionally marries a single mother just to hate her love-child(Ren).
The seeming hate must have been grown or built in the union as a result of constant strange and unusual attitudes from the mother,like restraining the man from disciplining the love-child.
We see these things everyday.

YoungLionken:
Polygamy is not the problem. The problem is lack of control and organization. Even the Bible says "train up a child.." It didn't state monogamy or polygamy..

Before you argue, have you not seen brothers and/or sisters of same parents tear each other up? The high rate of divorce today (home and away), is it not from monogamous homes? The Oni of Ife was initially monogamous and he was divorced, since he embraced polygamy, have you heard about such nonsense from his women again? Check polygamous men and how quiet their women are and compare with the monogamous loudmouths online, with some of them even bragging about how they dealt with their (monogamous) men..

There's no kind of problem you would hang on polygamy that you would not find in monogamy. It simply depends on the roles of the patriarch of the house.

Men (common with our fathers) always fail to be there to emotionally connect, unite and be there for their children when it matters. They just believe providing is all there is, nothing else. That's why four out of every five children of our typical African homes HARDLY have any emotional memory of our fathers, it was more of fathers being strict almost every time. But our generation of men are gradually changing that narrative as we play more with our kids now, be there for them on their graduation days, sport tournaments, vacation, etc. A rare privilege, many of us didn't get with our fathers while under them..

Everyone will walk their paths according to their unique experience; Some children from the so called monogamous homes would immediately start fighting over properties their father left, but they never for once fought for who will take care of the man when he was around and sick. Or is it when the wayward first son starts selling the inheritance as cheap articles with nothing tangible to show after sometime? My personal experience while growing up made me realize that You can have a good mother, who is not a good wife to your father...

Your last sentence shows you are a true son of ya Father 👍

Unclebayo:
I’m 22 and the last time I heard from my dad was when I was 5, he is alive even in same state as my mom but only calls anytime he felt guilty (1 time in 4 years)

And that one time he calls he won’t even ask about my well being

He will be like , what level are you now( for tuition fee my mom is paying lol)

I’ve blocked him and I don’t want him anymore in my life

You are quite young and yet naive going by your choice of words.
Ask for a meet with your dad and don't fully rely on what ya mum told you about him.
Get close to your Dad as a guy, you'll learn one or four from it.

Gotocourt:
My step mother had a child from her previous escapade and never told my father till his demise. We later knew, same woman ran with with all asset documents. She was bandit . Had to fight to recover some of those documents and still on it after a decade.
Single mother have experience hardship all alone and never had love which makes them a red flag 🚩.

All of them get same (red flag) trade mark.

Teymanhenry:
Succession Planning and Will Writing

My dad doesn’t believe in writing a will or clearly stating how he wants his assets and responsibilities to be handled after his death. He is still alive, and I have advised him a few times to consider writing a will, but he simply won’t listen.

My concern is that all his children are now married, and I already know that if he dies without a clear plan, my eldest brother’s wife could cause serious confusion that may eventually affect the relationship among all of us.

At the moment, she practically controls their home, and my brother is answerable to her on almost everything. She also has a competitive nature, even when there is no competition, especially with her co-wives and in-laws.

Now imagine my dad passes away without a will, and we all have to sit down as a family to decide what happens to his assets and responsibilities. The eldest son will naturally be expected to anchor the meetings and become a key decision-maker in the family.

With the kind of dynamics we already have, I can only imagine the level of disagreement and division that could follow.

Sometimes, writing a will isn’t about expecting death. It is about preventing confusion, protecting relationships, and making your wishes clear while you are still alive.

Concentrate more on the concerns in your husband's house and let him write his will for his children while he's still alive.
Let your Dad worry about his.
A truly happily married woman won't really have time for such thoughts.

Samantha125:
This is just an advise to all the single present fathers out there... Never marry a single mother who expects you to love and accept her children from a previous relationship, relationships, or even marriage while she hates yours.

Reason I'm saying this is because my uncle made that mistake, he has two children from his two previous relationships, even though the children remained under the custody of their mothers who have long moved on and got married after parting ways with him, the two children still maintained a close relationship with their father, my uncle... His wife never liked them and would literally call some family members crying about how my uncle seems to love and have more time for his biological children than hers despite him trying his best considering how her first born was already an adult while the second born was a teenager during the time they got married.

This past Saturday we laid our grandmother to rest and the children attended the funeral service and even stayed throughout the after tears party, but my uncle's wife kept giving them a cold shoulder throughout the day... Mind you, the children are now adults fending for themselves and never meddled in their father's love life... So if you're a present loving single father, never make that mistake of settling down with a single mother who detests your children.

A single mother normally loves her her love-child more than the ones she has in her marriage,let alone the children of another woman.
Single mother's child(ren) are called love-children for a reason.

That's fair and he should be rehabilitated.
The level of hardship in Naija can lead to mental instability and push people into weird behaviors

May APC not happen to Naija again.

Naija na big market.
Just be strategic with business ideas,and cash out.
Dem go soon rush enter this platform

Something that happened since 5days ago

Nairaland can do better.

Diamond098454:
Why are they pregnanting all these ladies without getting married to them?

Getting pregnant for a man that's not ready to marry you

You nor go carry belle for Mike Olise ke?

Nor dey overate yasef.

sandra2025:
He cannot help me.
Let him prove it.

Someone else could,just be humble while at it.

sandra2025:
Audio giveaway as usual.
You're never reliable.
Your words are always leaking.
Try to redeem yourself.

Don't be rude to your destiny epper.
Be humble ✌️

Pdp has lost its relevance

Now a willing tool in the hands of the APC.

Everything and anything that has to do with visa restrictions or related concerns anywhere in the world must have Naija includef

Cherrybae:
All the umpires are ibo

Charles turned the boxing to a rare fight.

Instead of the umpires to caution Charles. They never did.

I salute portable for his boldness to walk away.

Portable won as far as eye witnesses are concerned.

Why use only ibos as the entire umpire.

Attention denied
Next pls

Nigerians must sew endurance dresses and wear cos it's gonna be be a long ride.

yemmit90:
Dont mind them, infact it is a very good idea considering the age groups of students entering universities now. Uniform will make them feel focus and under the control of school authority like secondary school system. Though the uniforms should be more cooperate in outlooks and never be enforce from 300L and above.

👍

They look smart and clever.

I really love the trend,than the usual skimpy and razz dressing among our university students.

Now, that's great technicality punch applied by Wazirin Adamawa.

SlavaUkraini:
See Better Pikin wey get Sense ....

Some of them nowadays don't care, they will date every Yahoo boy that toast them until Yahoo boy use their pants for ritual....

She can comfortably uphold such values largely because she has a strong financial family background.
Most ladies fell in the opposite.

Obj is arguably the only Naija president who worked with technocrats and sophisticated ministers during his term.


He was very detribalized...


May he live long!

Now,that looks more like a comedy scene😄😄😄

Sai Naijiriya 😄

jametex:
Me i eat bread and beans with custard around 11 pm last night and I will be 40 this this year hope it's heathy for me

No, it's not.

enemyofprogress:
Yinmu! I prefer and love to have my eba, akpu and pounded yam late in the night when no visitors will come to eat with me. All die na die. Whether you eat late or not, you must die We only die once.

I hope you aware there's no life after daeth

ezugegere:
It depends on when you sleep and your lifestyle. If you eat by 6pm and sit in one place, watching movies till 9pm before you go to bed, you're not better than someone who eats 10pm and goes to bed by 11pm.
What you do after you eat and when you sleep is what matters.

You are wrong.
The body system works differently,at different times.