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Chiquitq:
I dont know the full story.

Are your siblings benefiting from the fish farm also?

Why did you not use your site only ?

You are a man and I don't think a step grandfather really has a say. Those old people sometimes have hidden agendas. They would force you to complete your mother's property then take over.

You may also chose to complete just one room and parlour to serve as a family house to unite you and your siblings otherwise it is only your siblings that really have a say. I know our culture gives room for interference from elders but many elders are shallow due to their illiteracy or selfish agenda.

I'll be channelling the profit into completing the structures so I believe we'll all benefit.

My site can't be used, I'll have to reside there in order to sort out their feeding and maintenance.

JaneYave:
Mind the voices you hear. Secondly, use your land to avoid interference , as you know fish farm has some odds that are not ideal in a living environment.

I can't use the site for now as I'll have to be staying there for their feeding and maintenance.

collinsfhk:
Remember the purpose for which your mum was putting up that structure, and your decision seem to be against that. Also, since you have been privileged to have your own property, why not do the fish farm there if you must do it.

Your step dad is protecting the purpose for which your mum was putting up the structure and the interest of your siblings. I think you are been selfish; 1. Only one pair of the entire pairs is competed and you want to take it over when you have your own property. 2. You didn't think of completing another pair so there will be an option.
Haba! This is your personal business and you have your own property. Consider your ways

1. I fear that if I make it too comfortable, I may relax and look forward to marriage and I'm not ready for that, at least not in the nearest forseeable future. Now's my time to hustle.

2. I also intend in expanding the fish farm business in my site too.

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