sholarr12:
Often times when a man impregnates a woman, and the man does not want to marry the woman, even if he is ready to take responsibility for the child, the man will still be forced by the woman's parents to marry her.

Forcing a man to marry your daughter may come with its disadvantages.

That brings us to the question: should a man be forced to marry a woman?

you already say it comes with disadvantages so what else are you asking again?

I saw a thread here on Nairaland,it reads "2020 is my year of harvest". Than the ironically and mind provoking question was,did you plant anything that you are shouting year of harvest.
So I shrieked back to thinking, I have to do sth better with my life in this 2020. I have listed out a plan format but I'm still confused how to go about it.
I need you guys advice.
Among these options,which one do you think I shuld get hold on

1) CCTV installation training
2) SEO
3)SMM
P.s. if you have any better option you can suggest for me, i have a welcoming ear.
Did I mention I'm just about rounding up my sch program,all I need is just sth I can add to my knowledge or skill base.

What kind of life I'm living
Everyday is jst a day to be reminded of my gloomy state
I am a guy that desire nt the death of my enemies now, but jst one thing to be the person I want and always crave to be; the social type
But it seems that crave z miles away frm actualizing
I have tried everything I know I could, read things on the internet

Sometimes I bumped into things like " start talking to pple". I bought that is my salvation pill
But guys, how could I talk when I almost feel helpless with what to say!
This state have put me in situation that I can't help but will see someone I know I should at least say sth to, but becoz I don't even know how to trigger the easy flow I jst wish d ground open and keep me under.
Pls I don't know how to make this my sorry state to be made more understandable to be you guys.

But know this I have a problem!
When I see my fellow guys having effortless convo with pple, I keeping telling my self what kin of species of human I'm

Note! Is not jst talking with girls ooo, there are some times I even have goosebumps talking to my fellow guy

But too ! There are moments when I do have this easy-peasy flow, no doubt I feel this light energy in my head.
I enjoy myself in those moment, not that I take alcohol but jst this natural touch of liveliness!!
I will be willing to even submit some span of my life to have those "natural flow moment instincts" for the rest of my life
But never has in this life my wish come through!
After those moments, I jst feel like there is a blockade in my head again!


There were even times when this state lead me to depression in my second semester year 1
I can't believe I contemplated suicide. But later in! Got bbk to myself that things will take d shape! Now in my finals, d depression z surmounted but the issue still here with me, can't help but sapping me of everyday life energy!

Pardon my typos
Pls guys help a brother!
Ubunja!
Dairykidd
Donstan

I don't knw if should also call u lalastical