₦airaland Forum

Yes.But must be a frndshp dat has been built right 4rm childhud days or while stil in secondary school.Why?Cause we guy in terms of thought,luking at d future are far ahead of our female counterpart.A butiful girl who is in her late teen or early 20s' tink she's young & hav all d time in d world & so do nt want 2 be hooked up 2 a particular guy.Am speakin 4rm experience.I hav a girl of 19yrs old who is my frnd.Am 26,i luv her & i knw she luv me 2 but she wants us 2 be just gud frnds.Am nt okay wit it caus we knw eachoda in sch(uniben) & its bin a yr nw.She tels me of guys who toast her & hw she prefer guys as frnds than her female counterpart.I dnt nid sex 4rm her caus i dnt believ in pre-marital sex.Dis she knows & i tink is 1 of d reason she liks my person but dnt nid a comitment.4 me i nid a girl i can call my own,a frnd who i can talk 2,advice,encourage vice versa.1 who wil stay all tru life.Am lukin at d future already but she is lukin at d now.So sista,get a gud fellow sista as gud frnd 2 be on d safer side.Frndshp grws wit time.I knw girls are sumtims trobule 2 demselves bt dere are stil sum gud ones.

Who can find a virteous woman 4 her worth is far above rubies(treasure).A virteous woman can be a slave,poor girl,house help,banker,doctor,lawyer or watever.1 tin i can tel u is dat dey are hard 2 find caus dey are lik gold which are nt found on d surfaces,just lik ultimate search.If u knw u hav found 1 pls hold it tight b4 sum1 smarter dan u outrun u.Pls do everytin within ur reach 2 convince ur parents.Who are those people ur parent respect & listen 2.Parental blessin & backin is gud in mariage.Hope u guys are nt havin sex caus sex is nt luv.Pls dnt fool urself sex blinds luv btw 2 unmarried person & opens infatuation.Cheers & gudluck.

I knw atimes its dificult but i knw we can.Am 26yrs old & i dont hav a girl yet though am searchin.I tel myself if i can stay all these years witout a babe then why wil i cheat on her when she finaly shows up.Am not tryin to act as a saint but its a tin of d mind esp 4 those who are not xtians & holines 4 those who are xtians caus fornication(pre-marital sex) is a sin.To prove my point,i was in a rltnshp 2mnths ago.My girl was a banker who i was proud of.I luvd her like myself &I was crazy about her.It tuk me 2yrs 2 convince & we court 4 2 mnths b4 d rltnshp ended becos she was so anxious abt setlin down imediately.Whereva she is now she knows i can neva cheat on a woman becaus 4 years i've known her i've nt kiss her,caress her or seduce her 4 sex.We can.I hav emotions,i hav urgies lik u bro.Lil bow wow said'i knw i can be wat i wana be,if i work hard a day i'll be where i want 2 be'.D journey 2 perfectn begins wit a step.U can be it.Wen u are obsess call her & spend quality time wit her.Also exercise do reduces sexual urgies.We wil get dere.

Always a black lady.I love dis black skin.Hope 2 get a good spouse like myself someday.