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InvestmentRe: Sportybet.com The Biggest Scam In Nigeria by WhatsDifficult: 11:12pm On Jul 10, 2024
Na you mess up

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Am very very very late cry cry
Christianity EtcRe: This Is What Make Babalawo Angry by WhatsDifficult: 3:00pm On Jul 09, 2024
Wats all this huh huh
Christianity EtcRe: Tithe by WhatsDifficult: 2:56pm On Jul 09, 2024
Again? huh huh
Christianity EtcRe: The Afterlife- Fact Or Fallacy? by WhatsDifficult: 2:54pm On Jul 09, 2024
obonujoker:
The bible says there's an afterlife.

That's the Greatest truth ever
Yes
Christianity EtcRe: Women Work In Partnership With Satan . Satan Was Born From Her Womb by WhatsDifficult: 2:49pm On Jul 09, 2024
Dtruthspeaker:
See devil complaining because he is exposing your partner in crime.
Sharaaap!
ProgrammingRe: I Need A PHP Developer To Modify An Existing Script by WhatsDifficult: 4:15pm On Jul 06, 2024
PulsingPurple:
No, ma. 😅
Chai grin grin
ProgrammingRe: I Need A PHP Developer To Modify An Existing Script by WhatsDifficult: 3:34pm On Jul 06, 2024
PulsingPurple:
Clear road let me understand these bunch of scammers all over Nairaland 😅

They're just like those Indian scammers on YouTube videos that start screaming and cursing after getting caught 😅
Srsly grin grin
Mek una sha leave am
Christianity EtcRe: Women Work In Partnership With Satan . Satan Was Born From Her Womb by WhatsDifficult: 1:04pm On Jul 06, 2024
Fisiryorh:
Burst ma brain...🤣
Sum1 will just wake up ND type nonsense and bring and post angry sad
Christianity EtcRe: Women Work In Partnership With Satan . Satan Was Born From Her Womb by WhatsDifficult: 1:02pm On Jul 06, 2024
Dtruthspeaker:
No he is not.

You are just a devil complaining because he is destroying your evil works
You too and Kobojunkie, all of u are very very foolish idiots
ProgrammingRe: I Need A PHP Developer To Modify An Existing Script by WhatsDifficult: 1:01pm On Jul 06, 2024
PulsingPurple:
Good boy.
Una too much grin
Christianity EtcRe: Women Work In Partnership With Satan . Satan Was Born From Her Womb by WhatsDifficult: 8:50pm On Jul 05, 2024
You are a very very foolish idiot.
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Moonlight111:
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Thanks.
Can i create d account nw nd still qualify?
R u paying 500k for d account?
Christianity EtcRe: The Basics Of Christianity: A Different POV by WhatsDifficult: 2:21pm On Jun 26, 2024
PulsingPurple:
I don't get
?
Tnx for ur time smiley
Christianity EtcRe: The Basics Of Christianity: A Different POV by WhatsDifficult: 1:58pm On Jun 26, 2024
PulsingPurple:
Seen.
Thank you...
RomanceRe: How Can I Help My Girlfriend, Her Vagina Smells Like Rotten Fish by WhatsDifficult: 1:56pm On Jun 26, 2024
Sheistoopretty:
And you brought here? For your fellow miserable good for nothing gender to bash her right?sad angry

Is this an hospital or a clinic or a pharmacy? I blame the girl dating a kid like you. angry
One lady with fish smell spotted
Mr poster is looking for solution, ya abusing him my gender sef

Christianity EtcRe: The Basics Of Christianity: A Different POV by WhatsDifficult: 11:44am On Jun 24, 2024
PulsingPurple:
I think it really depends on how much help you get from God in terms of understanding parts of the Scriptures for yourself first, before going to listen to someone else.

If you hear someone that aligns with what God taught you personally, it's a good sign that you can trust the person a bit more.

But in general, I think:
Since you're trying to be a Christian— Christ-like, you should pay close attention only to messages that teach you how to be like Christ, especially at your beginning stages.

Anybody that focuses on other things, controversial statements and clout, looking for ways to extort you too... Just run first.

Drink milk before learning how to eat solid food.
OK I get
Just that some ppl will teach one thing today that sound correct den another time the are saying something else
Let me just say at once how can I trust ur own explanation. Am not saying I dont trust u oo grin
Christianity EtcRe: The Basics Of Christianity: A Different POV by WhatsDifficult: 11:27am On Jun 24, 2024
KnownUnknown:
The biggest joke in Christianity is the idea that the genocidal psychopath some avaricious Hebrew bastard pulled out of his ass is the “god of love”

On what planet does the deplorable god of a Jew the “god of love”. And the son, the cult leading supremacist bastard called Jesus. How does the behavior of a cult leading charlatan connote love?
What is dis one even saying
Christianity EtcRe: The Basics Of Christianity: A Different POV by WhatsDifficult: 11:25am On Jun 24, 2024
Thankgod89:
The bible says in Jn 8:32 "And ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free".
Any messages that contradict the words of salvation or attached any materialistic message of world to get saved is not a true gospel and one need to run.

Finally, study the words of God and meditate on it.
This is wat am always saying
Everytime sow a seed
Christianity EtcRe: The Basics Of Christianity: A Different POV by WhatsDifficult: 11:24am On Jun 24, 2024
Thankgod89:
Let look at it from this angle, having faith in God means you have something you are expecting from him and God want everyone to make a move before getting what you need from him. Take for instance, praying to pass exam without reading will render the faith dead, likewise praying for healing from sickness without visiting hospital or using necessary medication would render faith dead.
The effort you put in place as a man while expecting things from God is the work you have added to faith.
OK I understand thank u
Christianity EtcRe: The Basics Of Christianity: A Different POV by WhatsDifficult: 11:17am On Jun 24, 2024
PulsingPurple:
I don't really think I understand the question.

But Faith, Hope and Love is not all about balancing all three of them. It's all about just having it and building on it forever— till you're all perfect.

You start small small, from somewhere.

Maybe I see why you're asking.
Initially, you might have just a little Faith, you believe that God sent Jesus to teach us the right things and die for our sins, that alone is enough to qualify you as a Believer which you say you are.

As you keep hearing God's words more and understanding Him, you also start to trust Him more— you're developing more Faith.

The more you learn about the Resurrection Of The Dead and the promise of the New Age to come, the more you begin to Hope for it and Hope to be a part.
That's the more you also live a kind of life that qualifies you to achieve this thing you hope for.

Then as for Love, that one is hard to achieve at a stretch... They're so many attributes that build up a complete Love.
So in the meantime, just practice The 7 Steps To Love:
Faith - Goodness - Knowledge - Self Control - Steadfastness - Godliness - Brotherly Kindness - Love.

Now you should be focusing on Goodness (try to do all 7steps all together but let your emphasis be at Goodness)

I don't even know if I've made any sense, truth is I've been so busy lately.
OK I understand
I have sent u message you will also talk about the rapture
Christianity EtcRe: The Basics Of Christianity: A Different POV by WhatsDifficult: 11:05am On Jun 24, 2024
PulsingPurple:
All these your questions sef...

Had it been you knew, you could have asked in my dm
Ok I'll send you a message smiley
Christianity EtcRe: The Basics Of Christianity: A Different POV by WhatsDifficult: 7:53pm On Jun 23, 2024
Then the last thing is rapture
For me dis is the main thing I don't understand how to believe
No evidence to trust apart from the bible
Lyk I said I'm not a christian but I am trying to follow God in the correct way, that's y I said am a believer not a christian
Christianity EtcRe: The Basics Of Christianity: A Different POV by WhatsDifficult: 7:44pm On Jun 23, 2024
PulsingPurple:
Love

Perhaps the most ignored of all these foundations.

What is love?
What do you practice as love?
Do you practice even your own definition of love?


To be very clear, there's LUST, then there's love, and there's LOVE.
None of them should ever be used in the wrong context.

I won't spend your time explaining LUST and the affectionate cuddly kind of love we are all familiar with.
In our walk with God, what we need is pure LOVE.

I think it's good to let you know, first of all, that the Christian walk is all aimed at 'being like Christ'. Christ is as God, hence 'being like Christ' means 'being like God'.
Also, Scriptures explain that God is LOVE, hence, 'being like God' means 'being an embodiment of LOVE'


If you go on to continue reading Mark 12 (verses 28-34), you'll see that the greatest and second greatest commandment.
It is also the greatest achievement as far as I know (remember 1 Corinthians 13:13).

Mark 12 says that the greatest commandment is to love God all in all, and that the second greatest commandment is to love your neighbors as yourself.
All the sacrifices and religious doings are nowhere near.

Let's look at Scriptures to achieve definitions of LOVE.

Old but gold, going back up to the early parts of 1 Corinthians 13, we see:
[4] Love is patient, love is kind.
It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
[5] It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no account of wrongs.
[6] Love takes no pleasure in evil, but rejoices in the truth.
[7] It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
[8] Love never fails...”


Permit me to add, if your love doesn't contain all these, it is NOT genuine.

LOVE doesn't end as a warm feeling in the heart anytime you worship God.
Many times, that's just the strong presence of God that you're feeling.

LOVE is very practical, in fact, ‭1 John 5:3,
For this is the love of God, that we keep His commandments. And His commandments are not burdensome...

You see how to LOVE God? It's practical, not just emotional.

If you love me, you will keep My commandments...

(You should also read the whole of 1 John 5, it's very enlightening)

But while we're still on it, let's go back to the earliest parts of 1 Corinthians 13:

Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I have become sounding brass or a clanging cymbal.
And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing.
And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be burned, but have not love, it profits me nothing.


You should quickly get a kerchief and find a corner to weep...
You should flare up and rip your clothes off your chest!

Cos how on Earth do I give my body to burned, but it ends up as nothing, simply because there was no love involved‽

Unfortunately, that's the shocking reality.
LOVE is the greatest, it shouldn't be neglected.

But you can't just wake up, take a deep breath and start LOVING right?
Here's a little guide that can be helpful in achieving LOVE.

For this very reason, make every effort to add to your faith virtue; and to virtue, knowledge; and to knowledge, self-control; and to self-control, perseverance; and to perseverance, godliness; and to godliness, brotherly kindness; and to brotherly kindness, love.
For if you possess these qualities and continue to grow in them, they will keep you from being ineffective and unproductive in your knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ.
” — 2 Peter 1:5-8.

You may want to call it The Seven Steps To Love.
Faith ⟹ Virtue (goodness) ⟹ Knowledge (in Christ) ⟹ Self-Control ⟹ Perseverance ⟹ Godliness ⟹ Brotherly Kindness ⟹ LOVE.

You walk slowly and build on these things, take LOVE as the overall achievement...
I really like this one the way you explain
The only problem I always have is this place of love is how can someone love a bad person
Like for instance somebody is always doing the same bad thing everytime to you, how can you still say you love the person without pretending?
Christianity EtcRe: The Basics Of Christianity: A Different POV by WhatsDifficult: 7:40pm On Jun 23, 2024
Another question, how will somebody know which teaching is correct?
Upon all the churches that have different explanation, how will someone know the one to believe
Christianity EtcRe: The Basics Of Christianity: A Different POV by WhatsDifficult: 7:38pm On Jun 23, 2024
PulsingPurple:
Faith

Faith is a complex word that has been misunderstood and misused to mean the simple act of 'believing'.
I think Faith is better defined as BELIEVE + TRUST combined.
As opposed to the idea that faith is believing God will answer prayers, I think it's more accurate to say:
Faith is believing in God, and trusting that He is God.

[Task: Look up the meaning/implication of the word 'God']

And by this, you are believing that He's your God, your Lord, he will answer your prayers, and if He doesn't answer you're trusting that He knows better.
You are also believing that all He says is true. You're trusting that His actions are the best actions, and that all His actions are justified.
You're trusting that He is almighty, all loving, just and true.
It's hard to wrap your head around all the implications of this word.

‭Hebrews 11:1 EASY‬ Version
This is what it means to trust God: We will be sure about the things that we hope for. We will be sure in our minds about things that we cannot even see.

The word 'trust' is the word translated as faith.

In fact, I'm tempted to say faith is all about the TRUST aspect. The BELIEVING comes as a result of the TRUST.
This explains the concept of Faith as a noun (like calling ourselves people of the Faith).
But yes, you do need to BELIEVE first, then BELIEVE brings TRUST, then the TRUST continues to yield BELIEVE.

Faith comes by hearing God's Words.

Now as a Christian-to-be, you need to have faith (BELIEVE + TRUST) in God.
You need to believe that God sent Christ to teach us His ways and atone for our sins.
All this is Scripture, so in essence, you need to TRUST in God and BELIEVE the Scriptures.

Now, when you begin your walk with God (in trying to be Christ-like), you'll need to keep on TRUSTING in God in order to do as He instructs, this is where your faith is developed into a driving force that influences your actions, in Bible terms, 'your works'.
At this stage, your faith is not that small sensation anymore.
Your faith is what defines you (your Christianity)

You believe that there is one God. You do well. Even the demons believe—and tremble!
But do you want to know, O foolish man, that faith without works is dead?
‭Was not Abraham our father justified by works when he offered Isaac his son on the altar?
” — James 2

At this stage, you suddenly read through Hebrews 11, where you find different people and the relationship between their faith and their actions.

Again, this is a brief explanation.

You see that faith is responsible for making you a Christian in the first place, then it helps you throughout.
By faith, you get answers to prayers, by it, you obey God and do His will.

‭Hebrews 11:1
Now faith is the assurance of what we hope for and the certainty of what we do not see...

What is this thing that we 'hope for'?
Even this thing of faith without work I don't really understand
So if I just sit down in my house and hav faith in God but I don't do anything it means my fate is fake or what
Christianity EtcRe: The Basics Of Christianity: A Different POV by WhatsDifficult: 7:35pm On Jun 23, 2024
PulsingPurple:
The main thing I want to share is this, which I will call The 3 Foundations of Christianity: Faith — Hope — Love.

I'll explain better.

These are the basic things that should be found in the lives of anybody that is trying to achieve Christ-likeness, just as Christ's own disciples.

A reference to these characteristics is seen when Paul is giving a lengthy message to the Corinthians on how they should live.
He goes on to voice the famous 1 Corinthians 13:13:
And now these three remain: faith, hope, and love; but the greatest of these is love.

These three, must remain in us...
OK I really like the way u explain everything
Let me ask this one first
Faith hope and love, you say it is the main things of this christian matter, but how will somebody take balance all 3? Abi is there anyone that is more important?
How will somebody know if he has all this things and is now ready to be a christian
What if u are trying but you cannot have love the way u explained
Christianity EtcRe: The Basics Of Christianity: A Different POV by WhatsDifficult: 7:06pm On Jun 23, 2024
If I have a question shud I ask here or?

Is Lyk I have many questions cry
Christianity EtcRe: The Basics Of Christianity: A Different POV by WhatsDifficult: 6:59pm On Jun 23, 2024
PulsingPurple:
Lest I forget... WhatsDifficult, this thread is inspired by you.
You remembered cheesy
Tnx so much
Christianity EtcRe: Had It Been Isaac Was Sacrificed by WhatsDifficult: 7:25pm On Jun 19, 2024
MaxInDHouse:
You need to know the difference between truth and falsehood your question is like saying what if someone is drinking sand and swallowing it like gari.
Is that possible?
Preaching is a very difficult job that's why Jesus told his close confidants that they will need God's holy spirit to energize them.
Do you think God's holy spirit will energize someone preaching rubbish?
If you know all the features of original money you can't be deceived with fake money!
So that is why u cannot answer it?

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