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What do you guys think? My cousin hardly listens to advice no matter what. When talking to him about a wrong step,he would nod and be calm like its getting to him.Now the issue: he has a gf in london (both families connected them).He is in Nigeria. He has one back in Nigeria. The time 'london' went back2naija for visit my cousin was like he loved her body n that it smelled like vanilla(silly boy) very unlike naija chics.By the time she returned, he continued wif his naija runs. Truth is, he claims2 lyk the naija girl so much n that she understands him better n all.I have witnessed him treat her like rag n she tells me its cos she loves him n if it were some other person she would have walked away.He sees her almost everyday except on days he wants to bring in another chic. He communicates with the one in london like once a week or less.He says he quarrels often with 'london' because she isnt respectful. There is nothing I have not told him.

It's time to pick a wife. Mum has family ties with 'london's ' family (His dad is late though).The naija chic was his selection. What should he do, go with the naija chic or the 'london'.It's more complicated than this but this is the summary.Every sensible response will be appreciated.
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[quote author=Playboy* link=topic=339506.msg4757857#msg4757857 date=1255896547]Hahaha, I can sense you are very emotioanal and possesive, your type would like a man to overwhelm you with attention and show you no end of the road in a relationship, you would want any guy you are in love with to place you above any other priority , right ?

If so , you have to understand that affairs are like  planting seed, it will need nurturing, and it will grow and mature with time,

I dont realy see much  problem here, though he has displayed some impatiance with you over the text reply, and if you say he is proud and impatience that means he is brutish,

In any case, what you should do is upto you, but the present problem is too small to cause a break up,
But see how to psycholoical manipulate a proud person,
Mute yourself and make him feel in control, show that you believe in him, make him the center of attention and place him above any other priority, boost his ego and constantly flatter him, Though you should do it with balance on your own side, dont give him your self so cheap or else you will breed arrogance in him and he will take you for a ride,

Most proud people usually want to be made the center of attention and for people to believe in them , feel that void by making him  the center of attention,  Some others normaly use pride to hide inferiority and insecurity, if that is the case of your guy, bring up the inferiority and insecurity in him to the surface and cub down his ego , then proceed to show him how much you love and care.

That is all i have to say for now,[/quote]Mr man why not speak for yourself?This definitely wouldnt work for most guys I know.Ask the sisi pp to tell you d probs they have had b4 u advice.If she does all these and yet he gets better outside nko?Remember a nice guy is he who submits gives full attention to a chic?Miss you know your man better.No matter the advice you get here,the final decision rests with you.My advice is to get his attention,^{but not by the ego method mr man outline above}.But pls act wisely.Thank you

sugar pp:
So the summary of what he did today: he called me earlier and complained that i hadn't replied his messages which he sent late last night/early morning (around 3am) this was after he ignored for the whole day my own text messages to him. Nehoo i didn't say much n he eventually said bye.
Later on i tried calling him and he refused to pick up his fone (thats part of his usual tantrums). So we eventually got chatn on messenger n i tried calln him on there and again he refused to pick up sayn he was "busy" yet we were chattn on messenger.
I told him i had something important to discuss but he still refused to pick up. I got pissed off and i told him to get lost and stay lost so that was it.
I know it sounds like kiddies stuff but trust me its all him hence the reason i say he is immature! seriously there's more to the story but basically all he needs 2 say is how much he loves me and can't live without me [i][/i]but he rather waste his time with non-graded girls that are just fooling him. He is too proud and just not romantic enough!

Plus he is tired of you.So stop bugging him.But cant he just sit you down and discuss with you why he doesnt see the relationship going anywhere.Its like that when guys aint just interested no more.Leave his life.Stop deceiving yourself and thinking he just wants to taste of the non-graded girls.Mayb you r nt romantic enuf to pull him back.Both of you seem immature, infact.He annoys you today u report,he kisses tommorw u r happy.Why the ups and down?Cant u manage a relationship?Get yourself a man if you try and try to get him to discuss n resolve whats on ground n he doesnt listen.I have warned o.

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