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Hello everyone,

I'll be glad to get an informed advise on this.

My sister has a BSc in Political Sciencw and a Masters in International Relations. Unfortunately, her BSc CPGA is 2.8, but she finished her masters with an average of 74 over 100 which makes her eligible for a PHd here In Nigeria.

Now she wants to pursue another Masters in Canada.

1. Will Canadian universities accept her Nigerian Masters cert as her entry certificate, because her BSc CPGA is apparently too low to get her a Masters admission in canada?

2. We had considered her applying for a phd program, but the concern is that she hasn't been working with either certificate. So there may be issues with proving eligibility for a research position. Infact since her graduation, she has been working as a freelance UI/UX designer.


Please advise. I'll be really pleased to get experienced feedbacks.

What is with these traditoonal rulers and fraud abroad.

This is international disgrace and an affront on the kingship stool he occupies.

Maybe they live just like roommates and even their conversations are shallow and trivial.

It could also be that one of them is dumb, weak or subdued and afraid to reveal their true feeling or opinion on things so as to not offend or be judeged.

Or the whole thing could be a lie. Maybe they want outsiders to think they have a great marriage, so they make up stories about themselves.

Argument,quarrels tends to happen even with the coolest person around.The best part I guess about relationships is these small argument and the makeover after them where either husband or wife does their best to get their spouse back

LaughingJackass:
Some of you people will just use you own hands and create problems for yourselves.

Do you know that if you do a DNA test with your parents it may come out negative, not necessarily because your mother cheated but because the hospital were you were born made a mistake and switched you at birth.

These mistakes happen even in the best hospitals in the world, how much more Nigeria!

Then the child will test negative for both parents.

Not negative for dad and positive for mom

If VIO was doing their job, that vehicle wont even be certified to be on the Nigerian road for starters.

Alex you sha want this man to trend by fire by force.

We sha know this routine. Create a fake story, then come out and debunk it.

And whenever these forced trends are created, one can't help but believe there's a target audience being prepared for a grand scam.

iwaeda:
Olorunleke, shouldn't have disown his wife at the expense of Precious. Like is 30 and married since 2016, nine years ago. Connect the dot. He also give $250000 monthly, I doubt this amount.

Where enyimba goalkeeper Wan see that kind amount for upkeep

For Germany, don't forget to tell your readers how many years they have to wait before getting an appointment with the embassy.

For Australia, you didn't mention the astronomical fees for tuition.

Mtmike:
dey there dey play, people dey catch out legitimately

did you hear of pastor jerry eze youtube cumulative pay

pastor catch out 10billion for youtub

dey play

Did you even read the message I quoted?

Bola Ahmed Tinubu (73)

OP should have his head checked if he really believes this hogwash.

Papa is nothing less than 85.

Mtmike:
something on the side doesnt mean prostitution as many of you may think. there are so many ways they make money. most when they produce movie and put it on youtube. i think they pay 10k dollars per 1million views

Lol. Na 1b dollars. No be only 10k. For just 1m views? YT isn't Santa Claus

Anonymous leading academic institution.

Alex, you can do better

Hello,

Please does a 1year Masters qualify for the three year PGWP?

I'm genuinely curious.

I mean, even in literary circles, night time is seen as time for sex.

amnotapervert:
Don’t worry, I pray you get the results you’re looking for.
If your resumption is in August or September, they are very aware of the timeline, and you will get a response before then.
IRCC is known for processing beyond the stated timelines, but this July, you will definitely hear from them and they can do everything all in one week

Thank you sir. This is quite reassuring.

Submitted my application since 8th June, no progress yet till date.

Was refused last year and reapplied now. Biometrics was updated immediately, but no request for medicals yet.

IRCC shows 5weeks processing time, but nearly 4 weeks have gone without any activity.

I'm concerned.

Brandiebird:
Op, your story doesn't add up for me. Her parents died 10 years ago when she was 12 which would make her 22 years old. She's been married for 3 years but somehow she's 26 years old?

Never wrote 10yrs ago though.

Kobojunkie:
OP, did you sell the girl to your friend in return for all the good things and supposed kindness he showed you all those years? If not, why does it matter the gaslighting the manipuative arsehole you call your friend is using against you all while he continues to berate and abuse this girl you consider your daughter? 🙄🙄🙄

2. You genuinely appreciate him while he continues ruining your daughter's life in the way he does? Are you OK in the head at all? You should be telling him to go f-ck himself!

3. Your friend is using past niceness to gaslight you into becoming an accomplice to his abuse and possible violation of your own niece(your daughter). You had better stop this nonsense pity-party you are having and call that girl back home to you already. I don't know how you raised her, but her self-esteem may have been beaten up by all of this she has been enduring, and it is up to you to be strong on her behalf so she can finally escape that monster of a man you call your friend.

SMH. That she's my niece doesn't mean I'm her only surviving relative. She has a grandfather, who is also my father.

Magnificenttop:
You made your niece marry someone you feel indebted to as a settlement and now your bad decision starts yielding results. But yet instead of remorse for your wrong move, it seems what you're more pained about is his lack of regard for you than your niece who was traded for financial favours.

I didn't "make" her marry him, neither did I encourage it. But I'll rather leave those details out.

How do you mean trading her for financial favors? I'm not broke. The last favor I received from my friend was my first job which was years before.she married my daughter.

Namaster:
This sounds FAKE.

Otherwise why would you be WORRIED about offending someone who DISRESPECTS you, DISRESPECTS your niece and uses her like a PUNCHING BAG that works from home.

That's like having your balls SMASHED over and over again by someone with the underside of a SPIKED soccer boot and being worried whether it's POLITE to slap the offender senseless because they once bought you BIGI COLA.

It's MADNESS!

You NEED to stand up to him.
For YOURSELF.
And, more importantly, for your NIECE.

Not to DISMISS your niece's agency but women take their CUES on how to treat a man from how someone they RESPECT treats the man.

That's the whole prrmise of HYPERGAMY.

Your niece respects you and saw you taking SHIIIIIT from a nasty man and keeping MUM about it. So she feels like it's ACCEPTABLE to take SHIIIIIT from him too.

It is NOT ingratitude to stand up to a BULLY just because they did you a FAVOUR in the past.

You must realise that EVIL people can still do GOOD deeds with the objective to MANIPULATE.

This man did you favours in the past and for that you BEQUEATHED him your niece.

Now he disrespects and BADMOUTHS you with ZERO pushback from you.

And even worse, he CONSTANTLY beats up a lady you took in and raised like your OWN. Yet you still FAIL to pushback.

GET yourself a spine and DEAL with the BULLY like any other bully.

Talk to your niece and DON'T take an advisory role.
Take the role of an ENFORCER.

Make it clear to her that you want her to LEAVE the bully before she ends up in the news like one of those women MURDERED by their husbands.

LET her know you are ready to go to WAR with him for her.

If she decides to stay with him AFTER that, do like PONTIUS PILATE did and wash your hands off the matter.

In fairness, theres no physical abuse. Only verbal and emotional.

Firebox123:
you gave your niece to your friend cos of money 💰

And some people on this thread will come out to blame tinubu for this again

Definitely not. And I genuinely hope you do not derail my post. Definitely, I didnt add so many parts of the encounter. I never knew he had abusive tendencies, neither did I introduce them. She married him at 26 FYI.

Now, what's your opinion on the OP

Hello,

So I have a niece who has become a daughter to me. She lost both her parents in a widely published interstate public transport accident more than 10 years ago and I took her in. At the time, she was just 12 and i had just graduated. She has been living with me ever since. I saw her through secondary school and university till she got married 3 years ago to a friend of mine.

Now, this my friend was in the same fellowship with me in school and he had been of immense help to me when I was in school, even contributing a couple.of times to my school fees. One time he paid for my hostel fee in full in my final year as he had a business then. Even after graduation, we were still good and he helped me get my first job. But thank God, I later moved on from the job and doing very well for myself elsewhere now. Even though he is still more financially more stable.

Along the line, he told.me.he liked my niece and with my consent, they got married.

The problem now is that he treats my niece/daughter very badly. Loads of emotional and verbal abuse even accusing her of killing her parents and how she is useless and not up to his standard. I have interceded a couple of times, but no signs of the issue abating. He has no regard for me, and relates with me like a nobody. And covertly disrespects me.

Now, each time I want to take things up seriously with him, I'm reminded that he has been very kind to me. How he helped me over the years. That without him, I wouldnt have made it. Even to the extent of telling people that I'm ungrateful. That despite everything he did for me, I'm keeping malice with him.

I maintained that while I genuinely appreciate all he did for me. All that too has been overtaken by events. You cant be abusing my daughter and expect friendship and loyalty from me. I've been badly guilt tripped in this whole thing and sometimes I'm conflicted. Am I supposed to trade solidarity to my daughter for loyalty for a friend who doesmt regard me. We haven't spoken in months and he keeps telling people that despite all he did for me, I've decided to blank him.

Kindly advise. Nlfpmod

Nonybb:
Brain jotter do not owe him anything. He just resurrected a death song

Akuko n'egwu was never a dead song.

As a matter of fact, I have been jamming it since last year

What I always ask is this. Where were these government agencies when all these "illegal structures" were being erected?

Approval or no approval, why were they allowed to build in the first place?

You cant see someone committing a crime.and turn a blind eye only to later come to enforce the law

ffafolayan:
Mama, I may not have exactly the same experience as you have, but trust me, i have had my own fair share.


It's easier said than done, but nothing good comes out of worry. It will happen at the perfect time. Eat well, dont apportion blames to either yourself or your husband and trust God. Have faith in your doctors as well.


I just welcome my own rainbow baby yesterday. God will come through for you.

Thank you for your kind words

Hello experienced people in the house. i already created a thread for this, but i didnt know there was a thread like this one.

I got married two years ago and since then, child birth has been a bit difficult.

I'm in my late twenties and in the first half of last year, I took in and later miscarried, I started noticing spots of blood and when I went to hospital, the doctor prescribed duphaston, eventually I miscarried and doctor used mispprostol to evacuate. Two months later, I took in again and after 7 weeks, I went for an ultrasound the result summarily was "no fetal pole or yolk sac" and was told to return in 2 weeks, result was same. After 10 weeks, doctor advised me to evacuate as it wasnt progressing. The diagnosis was blighted ovum. I was advised to wait for 3-4months before taking in again which I did.

These are senior consultants and even a prof, so I wholly trust their expertise.

Last month, I had sex while ovulating and I genuinely thought I would conceive. I had all the symptoms. But my period still came. It's becoming really unsettling.

I've seen the doctors with my husband and even asked them if he has to do any test. But they said no need as I'm actually taking in that it would have been concerning if I wasnt getting pregnant. I wondered if it was a problem from him and they said no. They also said i shouldnt bother that miscarriages is the body's way of expelling abnormal fetuses. I've had to do a range of tests including progesterone and other infection tests and they all came out well. Doctors said everything is fine. I had an abdominal ultrasound done, and the radiologist said I'm completely fine.

But I'm very worried. My husband have been a perfect man, but I know he is worried deep down, even though he womt show it.

Please does anyone have this experience or idea of how to go about this? The consultant prescribed vasopressin which i stopped at the advised time while I continued folic acid.

My mom gave me some leaves to boil and drink that it will help.

I really need help.

SirLiquidGold:
Sorry about your experience. If you want them to recommend a test for husband, just tell them. Atleast that would satisfy the curiosity
Apart from all these test, I would also suggest you join a Bible believing church and prayer fervently.
If you were able to take in there ought not be so much difficulties. Medical practices have its place, prayers also have it place.

Everything will be ok

Thank you Sir. Nlfpmod Dominique please I need more views