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PhonesRe: Need To Instantly Unlock Your Phone? Help Is Here... by xpensiv: 8:43pm On May 10, 2016
How much to unlock this pls?

RomanceRe: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by xpensiv: 11:52pm On Mar 20, 2016
Vinshu:
In order to reduce the level of poverty amongst homes, in my opinion I think a man who has not enough money to buy a house of his own not rent at least a 3 bed room flat and a car to move him and his family around should not get married.

When he gets married in his low credit, the family tends to suffer. The probability that he will get rich is actually 0.5 not up to 1 because Sundry expenses will now become expenses when married. Things he could ignore when single will now be important.

When children arrive, the probability of getting rich falls to an all time low of 0.2. Have you observed that most men have a higher credit score when single? If you have $500 at the end of every week when single if your job/income doesn't change or upgrade when you get married your $500 falls to $200 because you no longer feed yourself but feed a woman and probably a child.

When the child grows older school fees will set in. And other bad debts will be incured .

Don't get me wrong, I ain't saying he will never make it but in the mean time, why bring a child to the world to suffer? Even if it's for 6 years before you make it? Why take a woman from her father's comfy house to hardship in the name of marriage?

I advice ladies never to get married no matter how cool a guy is unless he is proven to be able to cater for your needs and that of your children financially in all ramifications both expenses and sundry expenses.

It doesn't make any sense, what you enjoy when single as a lady why stop enjoying it because your husband has no money or your money now goes to supporting him?

They say women ain't equal to men. Ok let the men be rich and rich enough to take care of their wives 101% before getting married. In fact, studies show most men marry for sex.
Judging from your post you haven't lived much in Nigeria - talking about credit rating.

As someone from two sides of the world & also lived in the two sides, here's my own opinion:

UK & other credit allowing economies - yes you have a point.

Nigeria - NO YOU DON'T! Recently went to check prices of a flat I can buy from one of the property developers in lekki - comes to about 25million naira.
Payment plans are available but do I want to get involved in such in Nigeria? No - personal reasons though.

I can strongly say my dad couldn't afford this too at my age! It didn't stop him from getting married to even a white woman - my mum.
Now they together took out their mortgage for their first house in England, then continued like that to build themselves up.

Now a days women/ladies get stuck on husbands doing the major stuff hence why there's a lot of homes with disrespect to wives.

If I do buy a house & my future wife misbehaves someday it won't take much to ask her to leave "my house". Now if we do buy this house together I dare not say that.

Ladies do tend to seek comfort but comfort comes with a price from most men, I've seen this a lot in Nigeria. In England a woman can easily walk out on her husband as benefits & housing scheme got her back.

Notwithstanding, a man should be reasonably comfy before taking someone's daughter into matrimony in order not to suffer her.

Women are to be treated with respect but let's remember - respect is due to whom deserves it.
Christianity EtcRe: Religion Has Killed Rational Thinking Of This Country - Prof. Osundare by xpensiv: 2:09pm On Jan 03, 2016
Sadly this is TRUE!

Culture too!

Too many sentiments in our decisions
AutosRe: Toyota Parts Professional...seek And Find Here!!!! by xpensiv: 7:50pm On Nov 23, 2015
2009 American spec corolla ac compressor pls?
Preferrably a manual one, as the one with sensor I heard is problematic
AutosRe: Used Corolla Sports 06 For Sale by xpensiv: 6:56pm On Nov 23, 2015
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AutosRe: Used Corolla Sports 06 For Sale by xpensiv: 9:16am On Nov 21, 2015
Available
CareerRe: Feeling Used And Dumped! by xpensiv: 3:40am On Nov 14, 2015
I'm sorry about your situation.

Kindly get in-touch, let's see if I can get you something worth your while to enable you move on happily.
Fashion/Clothing MarketRe: High Quality Tshirts by xpensiv: 11:30pm On Nov 11, 2015
Price pls?
AutosRe: Cheapest Key Programming Ever!!! Ph Only by xpensiv: 1:33am On Oct 14, 2015
2009 corolla American spec, key with remote on it how much pls?
Technology MarketRe: Uk Used Macbook Pro For Sale by xpensiv(op): 7:51am On Aug 26, 2015
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Technology MarketRe: Uk Used Macbook Pro For Sale by xpensiv(op): 8:55am On Aug 22, 2015
xpensiv:
Available
AutosRe: Install All Car Dvd, Reverse Camera, Bluetooth Etc by xpensiv: 12:26am On Aug 21, 2015
2009 Corolla one available? How much?
Technology MarketRe: Uk Used Macbook Pro For Sale by xpensiv(op): 9:07am On Aug 20, 2015
Available
Technology MarketRe: Uk Used Macbook Pro For Sale by xpensiv(op): 5:47pm On Aug 17, 2015
realdrayne:
how much?
130k 08080302834
Technology MarketRe: Uk Used Macbook Pro For Sale by xpensiv(op): 3:03pm On Aug 15, 2015
Available
Technology MarketRe: Uk Used Macbook Pro For Sale by xpensiv(op): 6:50pm On Aug 12, 2015
Still here
Technology MarketRe: Uk Used Macbook Pro For Sale by xpensiv(op): 2:25pm On Aug 08, 2015
Available
Technology MarketRe: Uk Used Macbook Pro For Sale by xpensiv(op): 8:41am On Aug 08, 2015
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Technology MarketRe: Uk Used Macbook Pro For Sale by xpensiv(op): 8:14am On Aug 08, 2015
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Technology MarketRe: Uk Used Macbook Pro For Sale by xpensiv(op): 8:05pm On Aug 07, 2015
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Technology MarketRe: Uk Used Macbook Pro For Sale by xpensiv(op): 2:34pm On Aug 07, 2015
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Technology MarketRe: Uk Used Macbook Pro For Sale by xpensiv(op): 7:47pm On Aug 06, 2015
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Technology MarketUk Used Macbook Pro For Sale by xpensiv(op): 3:50pm On Aug 06, 2015
Very Clean body

15.4"
Model Name: MacBook Pro
Model Identifier: MacBookPro5,5
Processor Name: Intel Core 2 Duo
RAM : 4Gigs
Hard Drive: 500gigs

130k

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CareerRe: Diary Of A Pretend HR by xpensiv: 9:14pm On Jul 22, 2015
My HR officer complained about this same problem so many times!

Used to crack jokes on people's CVs, but now she discovered Shortlist Nigeria, so only picks out qualified candidates for roles! It does make sense when I got to understand it.
PropertiesRe: Farmlands And Properties In Ogbomoso The Home Of LAUTECH by xpensiv: 2:48am On Jul 22, 2015
Hi,

I have 3 parcels of 2plots each around Aroje, Olubere's side to be precise.

Two are fenced.

I'm considering selling but I'm not based there, will you be interested in marketing them for me?
Christianity EtcRe: To Those With Spiritual Husbands/wives by xpensiv: 11:19am On Jul 19, 2015
Personally I think the quality of front page material has dropped! undecided
Technology MarketRe: Two Macbook Pros For Sale Uk Used by xpensiv(op): 7:01am On Jun 07, 2015
Still available
Jobs/VacanciesRe: SHORTLIST Nigeria Giving Out Promocodes, Rechargecards, Cinema Tickets, Konga... by xpensiv: 12:06am On Jun 04, 2015
gpsmiles:
Fake shortlist. They are only after your N3000. No job invite up till now.. .fake also like Push cv
I actually got my job through them, took 3months though!
After 2 different interviews!

Be hopeful!
PoliticsRe: Aisha Buhari’s Inauguration Wristwatch Cost £34,500 (N10, 453,000)-BreakingTimes by xpensiv: 6:19pm On Jun 01, 2015
Hers is either China grin or a gift undecided
Technology MarketRe: Brand New HP Envy 15 Core I7 For Sale Give away *Further Price Drop* by xpensiv(op): 1:51am On May 29, 2015
mideoy:
i drop 150K cash... new notes...
Lol! Call me 08080302834 MUST BE NEW NOTES! grin
Technology MarketRe: Two Macbook Pros For Sale Uk Used by xpensiv(op): 9:48pm On May 28, 2015
Available

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