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Simonrom:
It seems people, especially our dear feminists who feel like someone is dragging them away from the throne they've suffered for are giving "bad guys" its literal meaning.
Lol! Bad guys are guys who are really guys.

most of em are shallow with deep vjay. they get scared when they see topics like this. not em fault though. I blame nice wussy guys. who hands their balls to em for kips.

is this an achievement or what? well anything that works for you.

Caspian22:
Jesus Christ set the best example of what any man should be. He loved other people, respected both men and women, offered help to people in and had a good personality.

He was honest, bold and strongly believed in his convictions. Almost everyone disliked him, but good people with genuine hearts loved him.

That's the kind of man I want to be.

did Jesus date women..?
he had powers son..?
tho it was his calling he got betrayed by the one he trusted.
good thing is we were not born to die for the world son.
I can see you still very young read your books and stay away from women.
emulate Jesus OK. but its good to know what life brings to the table at a young age.
peace

glory glory man utd

SoapQueen:
Faints..Everything isn't about sex or money, bro.

I want to be a fulfilled woman. I look at brands like Coca Cola and Hershey's, I tell myself, I want to get there someday.

I got to try out a soap formulae.

Have a great weekend and God bless.

great

I gave you some attention to litter
my post with your soap advert. now its getting boring.
goodluck on your soap business.
peace

SoapQueen:
The guys around me are great and responsible gentlemen, they motivate and inspire me. The man I'm with inspires me a lot too..

positive vibes.

but I think you value them here and not there. because you can fine tune them play with their balls. be opportunistic on their needs for sex, care and validity. after all said and done the one who care less in every relationship controls it.

peace

SoapQueen:
The guys around me are great and responsible gentlemen, they motivate and inspire me. The man I'm with inspires me a lot too..

positive vibes.
but I think you value them here and not there. because you can fine tune them play with their balls. be opportunistic on their needs for sex, care and validity.

peace

Headlesschicken:
Yuh mates r busy chasing money n Yuh busy setting rules for d bad boys, who bad guy epp....smh...

you didn't read rule 3 I guess you rushed to comment like your moniker.

even after getting the money you still need rules, if not you will go broke my friend.

principles guides a man and its like a torch in the dark, if you don't stand for sumtin you will fall for anything man.

SoapQueen:
Lol.....E pain am...Read what your bro wrote up there...That guy got his heart whooped.Hahahahahahaha....


Abeg, I've gotten too distracted this afternoon. I gotta work..


Please, patronize my soap business when you done hating me.

loooool my heart was not broken by a woman.

but by the ills of the society. how wussy men wash their lady's panties and beg to be loved. it breaks my heart each time I see gods worshiping those who were made with one bone. putting an end to their life because of some soft vjay. it breaks my heart each time a woman cheats on a nice guy who gifts her his balls and wallet. it breaks my heart...
peace

Rubbiish:
Shut up!
Alpha male got nothing to do with heartbreak....

thanks man..for telling her the bitter truth. alpha males are not broken men. we are energized and fueled by our God given rights. we are not wussy or beg to belong. we lead not led. you can't break out hearts. we don't beg for sex it gets offered on a platter. we don't kiss and tell, we can fall in love but we fall with our brains and a ladder to climb out........

SoapQueen:
Really? You call me that in the latter part of your post? Okay. You expect me to insult you, I won't.

Yeah, I am from Warri. Proudly from Warri( your perceived "Bowery" Warri). There's no place I'd rather be from.

Thank you!

woow TAMED.
now you will take a chill pill and be on the queue like every other lady.
thats not an insult fels its an observation.

one word: BRAINS!!

SoapQueen:
Pained ke. I laugh!

If you have found love stop misleading others. I am human, not a goddess( I don't want to be one).

My name is soap queen because I make soaps and I'm proud of it.

Bye Felicia

Found Love?? (that word is abused and useless)

I was made in the image and likeness of a God, so what am I?

i can have many flowers but one rose. I don't have to be needy and clingy like the geek you seek. and start texting and calling everyday like my life depends on it. or act wussy....or do everything to please her. or say yes to everything she says. for fvcks sake ain't no nice guy.
peace

SoapQueen:
These ten rules seem macho till a Geek comes and takes your girl and treat her like a Queen, while you end up being a baby Daddy to 5kids from 5 different mommas.



Oversabi Sabi tutor.

oouch! someone is pained.

My Rose is a goddess not a queen miss.

Feminists always looking for men they can fine tune. play with his balls and will still come begging, Good luck finding your geek soapqueen. when you become soapgoddess I might read your file.
peace

delete everything about her.
get a loyal woman.

get a LIFE.
Get A LIFE PLEASE.
learn not to take people for granted, still don't let people take you for granted.


in all thy getting get WISDOM.

VenomousTruth:
how about rules for very very bad boys?

in all thy getting get wisdom

Contrary to popular public opinion, bad boys are not the kind of men who are physically or emotionally abusive to women. Such men are perverts who should be castrated and exiled to Jupiter. Bad boys are men who are fully cognizant of their nature-given advantages and use them to achieve meaningful success in both their careers and women. The following are top 10 rules all bad boys should live by.




1) A bad boy shall love himself more than anything else in the world
A bad boy is driven by self-interest.

Whenever someone pitches an idea to a bad boy, the first thing he asks himself is, what do I gain from all this? Unlike the average guy who is mostly interested in helping everyone around, a bad boy greatly values his time hence every move he makes is geared towards personal gain.
Never love another person more than you love yourself. True happiness comes from achievement, not from people or material things. Therefore, it’s unwise to make any woman the main source of your happiness unless you are a masochist. For every coin, you spend on a woman ensure you spend twice the amount on yourself!






2) No woman is out of your league
The average guy constantly frets about approaching ladies who seem extremely beautiful, intelligent or moneyed.

In their minds, they think the ladies ‘don’t need a man’ and probably have a long queue of potential suitors. A bad boy clearly knows that every woman wants a man who is unpredictable, a mystery and brings excitement to every sphere of her life.
He brazenly goes after every lady who tickles his fancy with the knowledge that no woman is out of his league. Never approach women from a point of weakness as they have an uncanny ability to smell desperation and neediness miles away, instead use a winning strategy.
The winning strategy involves changing the rules of the game so that she feels obligated to impress you not the other way round. Play immune to her charm. If every other guy around is trying so hard to woo her, deliberately ignore her. When you get a chance to talk, act frivolously. Refrain from boasting about what you own or the people you know instead let her know you as a person. If there is a high chance of you bumping into her again, don’t be too fast to ask for her digits, end the conversation with something like, ‘ see you around!’
Make her spend sleepless nights wondering why she just can’t enchant you with her beauty like all the other guys or if you are way out of her league.





3) Nobody owes you anything
When negotiating a deal a nice guy would reveal his life’s misfortunes to a potential investor seeking to win based on sympathy.

A bad boy will try to clinch the deal by revealing to the investor what (s)he stands to gain by awarding him the contract. A bad boy clearly knows nobody in the world owes him anything hence works his ass off to get whatever he wants in life. He doesn’t expect favors. Assertiveness, working smart and eloquence is bad boy’s favorite weapons.
If someone slaps you don’t turn the other cheek, hit them back with closed fists. Rarely will people hand over things to you on a silver platter so grab every opportunity coming your way.





4) A bad boy shall never be a victim.


Nice guys constantly complain about how unfair the world is and wish it would be perfect so everyone would get what they truly deserve. Bad boys know that the world is a tough place to live in so they make a conscious decision to always be a perpetrator and never a victim! When you fail at something don’t sit down and start blaming other people for your misfortunes. Take responsibility, re-strategize then dive right back into the game. If your competitors use uncouth methods to win, consider using skullduggery to beat them too.
Success and women will always follow those who win while the self-proclaimed nice guys are plagued with whining, disappointment, and loneliness. Stop wishing for a perfect world and instead work with what you have to win. That said, I don’t think the infamous Pastor Kanyari is a monster, I believe he is a crafty businessman who discovered a way of bottling hope and realizing a great profit from it.





5) A bad boy shall always stand out in a crowd.


Where else nice guys are careful not to over-dress, bad boys know the importance of looking good hence ensure they are always at their best. There is a clear distinction between ostentatious dressing and looking sharp. Being smartly dressed means you are in good quality fabric that perfectly fits your body while giving you a mature look. On the other hand, flashy dressing involves putting on screaming at colors, accessories, and trends that may be current but are out of sync with your body or personality.
80% of confidence is expressed by how you dress, walk, talk and interact with other people. Work on your signature look that can easily help you stand out in a crowd. Let your style of dressing, walking, talking and even working be different from everyone else. In summary, bad boys don’t walk with common spirits!





6) A bad boy shall break all rules except his own.


Good guys are nurtured to live within society’s expectations while bad boys shatter these perceptions and set their own. Most bad boys are entrepreneurs because being in formal employment cages one into a glass box where the boss dictates almost everything one does.
Pretty women are used to having guys bid to their willing. If she claims to be attracted to men with cleanly shaved heads, a nice guy would trim down his hair without second thoughts, unlike a bad guy who knows better than to change his life or style to please a woman. To make a lasting impression to any woman, break all rules she dictates to you, make her do things she has never done before (and against her principles) and act totally opposite of how she expects you to.





7) Shall never fight over a woman.


Ask any guy who is yet to get over their Ex-girlfriend 6 months after breaking up and they will feed you with crap about how the lady is his true love— soul-mate— hence he must inexorably fight for her. That’s pure crap. If indeed she is ‘the one’, then she should have the courtesy of treating you with dignity and meeting you half-way towards solving your differences otherwise she is not worth another minute of your life. Never get into a fist fight with another man over some lady. The only reward for such a foolish act is a deformed dental formula, broken ribs and a couple of stitches.
When you realize there is another guy who interests your girl more than you do the best thing to do is walk away. If she likes you more than the other guy then never talk or even ask her about him. The horrible truth about women is that when she likes another guy she will sleep with him if she wants to regardless of having a boyfriend or husband and there is nothing you can do about it.




8 ) Thou shall never be judgmental, or kiss & tell.


As a bad boy, you are bound to meet all kinds of ladies. The last decade has witnessed an increase in numbers of sexually liberal women. It’s no longer shocking to have a lass walk up to you and say, “ hey dude! I have a boyfriend whom I love so much and plan to have a future with though he is kinda boring. Nevertheless, I’m strongly attracted to you, would you mind if we have a casual fling?” Stop looking surprised! Ask any bad boy and they will tell you how frequent that happens.
Should a lady gather enough courage and propose to have sex without attachments don’t screw it up by being judgmental, taking a high moral ground or wondering how many guys she has asked before. Just give her what she wants. Such ladies like having their clandestine affairs kept under the wraps so should you encounter one don’t kiss and tell. In the event you meet her with her main guy, don’t make a scene, Just wink or smile and walk away!




9) Shall always speak his mind out!


A bad boy knows the effects words have on women. He knows what to say and how to say it. This doesn’t mean you act all polished around a lady you fancy, in fact, the opposite works better. Say exactly what’s on your mind even when it sounds a quite offensive. If you find her cleavage enticing, tease her about it,“ Girl, did you put on that blouse purposely to divert my attention from your face to your awesome boobs?” Let her know how you feel about her. In the event, she pisses you off don’t keep quiet about it.
The easiest way of warming your way into her heart is by being playful and teasing her about things she is evidently endowed at. For example, if she naturally has a voluptuous derrière you can cheekily accuse her of putting on sponged-lined panties! Moderation is necessary so that she doesn’t end up thinking of you as a harmless comic who is more interested in making her laugh than getting into her pants.
Women love drama so make sure you give her something to gossip with her friends about. Sometimes deliberately annoy her to the point she walks away then exaggerate the makeup. Quench her thirst for unnecessary drama involved in falling in and out love.




10) A bad boy shall never be tamed.


The greatest fear for any bad boy is falling in love. This is because love is a nasty drug that can make you do things that leave a bitter taste in the mouth and gives someone else the power to hurt you. Try your best not to fall in love, worst of all with a lady who isn’t mutually attracted to you. For whatever reason never lose your bad boy edge otherwise she will wake up one morning and realize you are no longer the same guy she was first attracted to.
Graduating from college and settling into an 8 to 5 job has a way of taming even the wildest of men, therefore, keep a few friends who will point it out when you turn into a nice guy.
One more thing, a bad boy never takes advantage of an intoxicated woman. Never encourage a woman to imbibe more alcohol than she can handle in order to sexually violate her. It is totally immoral, illegal and hardly any different from necrophilia. Since bad boys have big egos, they derive pleasure in having consensual sex and not through shady means!


Originally Written By Mark Maish

welcome to stardom rico

we bless God. but women no matter how rich ain't complete without a man

good to know

I'm replying mails now

rex444:
Whoever raised this topic really did hit the nail at the head...I barely saw any female folk comment ....it's so true but Bros,when u get a new device,first thing is backup files n folders,they are like files n folders after I lost 10k dolls .....we all learnt the hard way

don't make the same mistakes again.

derprince:
Church sister once played smartness with me
Thank God I'm now free

that's good to know. let's be liberated all of us. don't make the same mistakes again.

Perfectnumber6:
. Yeah this is true she knew i loved her so much and am the kinda guy that hates to double date it not just in my DNA. And i tried to please her, well I am just gonna feel it for a while but believe me am a strong character and sooner or later she would run back begging.

oh no. you need experience with women now bruv before one keeps you in lock and band as a wife. so you need to have friends female friends. you not gonna date them you just gonna learn how diff ladies behave. believe me you would always have this problem. women of these days are cruel bruv. reorganise you DNA bruv. once you love one woman you start acting needy and clingy and the life in relationship will die gradually.

davida222:
Hey bro.. Pls ur whatsapp digit thnks.

please I'm sorry can't give that out here.
but you can mail me and we will talk

protectmymails@protonmail.com

Perfectnumber6:
. According to her she said she wants to be closer to God and become Churchy. I choosed to believe her though.

I feel your pain bruv. if there was nothing to hide why block you on all social media. even my pastor is on Facebook bruv. and you said you believed her.? oh my, well it could be 50-50 true or false. but hear me she's playing you bruv. she has your balls and now using it as her play thing. block her on all social media. send less. note that in every relationship the one that love less controls the relationship. guard your heart. there are other women out there who needs you bruv. you too handsome to be held Ransome.lol
note don't ever tell a woman you love her. the best you can do is show her. and not go sing praises.
don't take her calls. don't reply her messages. just let her go. find someone else. always have at least 3.

[quote author=Perfectnumber6 post=66571499]. I will do that now bro, I learnt the hard way too, for a girl to have suddenly decided on her own that she doesn't want to be intimate with me anymore, but she can open her mouth to still be asking for financial assistance I mean that's so absurd.[/quote

I bet she is fvcking someone else now. the only reason she still speaks with you is for the gains and nothing more. I bet she showed the signs but you didn't see em. never have one chick bruv. go out meet women but don't ask them out just be friends with em till you finish reading that PDF. get in touch I will give you more PDF free so a brother can learn

Perfectnumber6:
. It is well with us, mine deliberately blocked me on all her social medias, but I just felt I loved her so she over stretched the rope i gave to her and was still asking me for money which sometimes I just use my mind, but when I told her it was over just few days ago she thought I was joking. She's gonna keep calling me but it would be too late. These girls are wicked and heartless and they don't feel any remorse atall , just because they felt you loved them right.

painful ah swear. but learn never to make the same mistakes you made again.
I have learnt my lessons and I had to learn it the hard way. but now I'm a pro.
download this PDF and read meet other ladies.

search on google for

Neil Strauss - the game.pdf



download and become a pro send less, spend less, and have them drooling.
regards xpress

Perfectnumber6:
Can't say much my Ex had all these traits and thought i would be patient forever with her.

it hurts bruv I've been there too. worst part is she always wanted me to put a hole in my purse for her

Women can be confusing.
Sometimes as a man, you can waste your time pining for girls who don’t really like you all that much, while missing out on girls who adore you. It’s awful to have to confront the idea that the girl of your dreams may not actually be that into you. But if a lady gives you several of the following signs, there’s a huge probability that she’s wasting your time…




1. She replies with “I’ll let you know” or “I’ll think about it” when you make a request.
A girl that likes you doesn’t have to ‘let you know’ or think about everything. A girl that likes you will always be excited when you ask her things or make requests. We all know that when a girl says “I’ll let you know,” what you asked for always ends up not happening. So if these statements come up a lot, make an exit.




2. She always gives excuses when you want to meet her.
As a general rule: If a woman is into you, she’ll make time to hang out with you, no matter how busy she is. Even the busiest of women will put aside a day or a few hours a week to see you. If she’s always too busy for you, you should be skeptical.




3. She never texts you first.
When you’re texting and calling first and she never takes the initiative to be the first to text or call you, it’s a clear sign something is off and you may be wasting my time. If you’re making 75% effort and she’s only making 25%, it’s unfair to you and you’re being played like a fiddle. Walk away.




4. Or her replies to your texts are very brief.
If you’ve received your 10th “K” or “yup” text in a row from her, I am sorry to break it to you, but there’s nothing going on between you. Same applies if she’s always responding with emojis only. If you are not even receiving enthusiastic responses to your texts. it’s a pretty clear sign that it’s time for you to move on.




5. She never wants to come to your place yet you’ve known each other for a while.
Meeting in public is kinda fine if it’s the first date – most women prefer to meet in a public place at first just to make sure you’re not creepy or dangerous. But if she continuously insists on hanging out in public places, it’s a bad sign. She doesn’t want to get intimate with you.




6. She only texts or calls when she needs a favor.
Sometimes girls “use” guys for favors and then magically disappear when they don’t need anymore “help”. You may see it as being a cool and nice guy by helping her out, but you also have to be smart enough to recognize when “helping her” is becoming too much a pattern, you’re getting nothing in return, and she says things like, “Aww you’re so sweet and such a great friend!”




7. She avoids being alone with you.
Maybe she does make time to hang out with you but it’s always in a group setting. Even if it’s in a house, she only meets you when there are friends and other people around. It’s always in a spot where she won’t be one-on-one with you. This means she’s trying to avoid giving you the opportunity to make a move and/or she doesn’t want to lead you on.



8. She keeps complaining about other men to you.
Does she use you as a therapist? Does she go on and on about how other men are assholes and dogs? How she can’t stand the way this guy or that guy treats her. Has she even told you how she “wishes more guys were like you?” Don’t be too hopeful. She’s actually friend zoning you you. She wishes more guys were like you, because she’d never actually date you.Why is she wishing for a guy like you, when she has you right there? It’s a platitude. She’s not that into you. When she just wants to vent about her feelings for an hour and doesn’t want to do anything sexy afterwards, dump her.


source: https://omgvoice.com/relationships/time-wasting-girls

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